Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

0k... so i found this guy and i really like him alot... i dont kno he acts like he likes me to... im white.. and he is indian... do you think that it is wrong for me to want to get with him??... he acts like he likes me alot and sometimes he acts like he is scared to make a move ... the other night we were hanging out.. and he sat beside me and it was almost like he diddent have the nerve to make a move... so fineally he put his arm around me and i layes my head on his sholder and he kissed me... the rest of the night i diddent want him to leave... and i feel so happy when i am around him... im not a girl that smiles alot.. and that night i couldent stop smileing... i dont kno what to do... do you think i should make more moves... and possibly ask him out...or should i wait and see if he asks me out...becuase he seems like he might be a kinda shy guy.....would it be ok for us to date?i really like him and i want somebody i can spend the rest of my life with...i want to be with him!

2007-02-26 01:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by ..::Leigh' Ana Babiie::.. 1 in Singles & Dating

When he has been with a current gf for 9 months??By looking i mean driving around her house.Does this means he is looking for a booty call or he may still have feelings for her or a mix of both? He also tried to prososition her even hough they had no contact for almost 7 months.

2007-02-26 01:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has confessed to cheating on me after the fact that i found out and asked her about. She denied it for 3 days after it was brought to her attention that i knew something was going on. This guy works with her so she sees him at least 3 to 4 days a week due to work. at first she told me she only did it once and gave me a fake name of the guy, then i found out that wasnt the truth, so i kept on asking until she finally told me what i think is the real truth. it happen 4 times with the same guy over a two month span. and hasnt happend for almost 3 months. i asked why and she has no answer. i asked if she cared for him and she said no it was a mistake. i dont know what to do, i have been a faithful husband for 5 years and now this. she begs for a 2nd chance and i feel like i should give it to her because she is my wife and i do love her. i am hurt and confussed any advise on something like this? we plan on going to counseling also.

2007-02-26 01:11:09 · 17 answers · asked by DL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 01:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two boys ages 7 and 12 and they are good boys, my fiance has 3 children who are 2 girls ages 12 and 7 and a boy who is 8 they are also great kids. My concern is the 7 year old little girl..my boyfriend referrs to her as a baby and talks baby talk to her and there is a lack of dicsipline with her. She gets away with everything like if you ask her to clean her room that she has trashed she throws a temper tantrum and says she is a princess and everyone else is suppose to clean it for her, and her father will make the older sister clean it. I beleive in kids eating all there dinner if they do they get dessert and if not they dont get it, all the kids will eat so they get there treat if the little girl doesnt eat she throws a fit because she has it in her head she is a princess and her dad gives into her. Her mother and father spoil her so bad and I feel that doesnt teach her anything his excuse is shes a "baby" and needs to get spolied. I am a parent and I disagree.

2007-02-26 01:10:36 · 17 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Family

my girlfreind can really dance like very sensual do women get intimidated by another women who can move more seductively....

2007-02-26 01:10:08 · 17 answers · asked by lucky 7 2 in Singles & Dating

ohk theres a girl at my school that thinks i like her bf which i don't i have my own. and the girl is gonna beat me up in PE next week wat should i do???...i am really scared of this girl...!

2007-02-26 01:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by anniegirl942001 1 in Singles & Dating

well there's a boy in my school and i rarely know him. he roams around my class all the time and he told my friend ( he lives near her house) that he fell in love with him when i was like 6. i don't even know him properly now. he even told her that im sexy. i don't know whether she's lieing. please tell me that whether he likes me.
don't tell me to ask him either. good answers are required. in advance, thank you all.

2007-02-26 01:09:03 · 10 answers · asked by love....me 2 in Singles & Dating

Ages, 11 and 9...

2007-02-26 01:08:44 · 15 answers · asked by D.J. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please could you tell me which one is first and which one second and third and last for you:

1) Money
2) Mother
3) Wife/girl
4) House
5) Car

Please don't start with the car, because i know it will be first thing on your mind, find some choices between mother, wife, money...

2007-02-26 01:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Spark S 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend from secondary school know all about my situation, my love, my enemies, my problems. However, because he was rejected by her he did all to make her see false picture of me. He even now, after 20 years, with insult and joking me told me that she asked him: "What is with your friend (me)?" but he lied her.
Jealosy and hatred sometimes can be deeply roted. Now he enjoys in my misery and love that he succeed to ruin.

2007-02-26 01:07:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-26 01:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Daniella D 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and yes we have had sex....im still a teenager living with my parents....sometimes i feel like they dont accept him...my mom already sat me down and told me that "she didnt want me doing..what i have been doing".....when i asked her what she was talking about she said "you know what im referring to" and if she found actual proof she wouldnt let us be together anymore....i dont know if im lacking my use of my own kind of privacy...that im making it obvious that im sexually active....but i swore to her i wasnt......what could i do to sit her down herself....and convince her that im NOT sexually active....and to be a little more trustworthy and acceptant to my boyfriend, Joel?? Please Help...Desperate!

2007-02-26 01:07:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You see my wife loves me loads and is very loving towards me not tight in the bedroom either but i found myself having an ego boost via a woman on the internet and had long sexy conversations with her for about 6 months, my wife started getting upset cause she couldn't understand why i was staying up late at night till sometimes 3 in the morning and not going to bed at night with her, she actually cried herself to sleep a couple of nights saying she thought i didn't want her anymore i felt bad but couldn't stop chatting to this woman? Unfortunately about a week before christmas my wife checked my e-mail addresses and found loads of damning proof of what i had done she was devastated and distanced herself from me right up to xmas even went to leave me xmas eve but came back saying she could'nt do it to kids split us all up. I was very grateful because now she feels a bit bitter towards me and i realise how much i miss her loving ways to me what can i do? she also so photos of woman.

2007-02-26 01:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I kust woke up and the first thing I thought of is "What is a Hopless Romantic?" can any of you help me out. Thanks

2007-02-26 01:05:52 · 3 answers · asked by delldude405 3 in Singles & Dating

Last Wednesday we spent the day in bed and both told each other that we loved each other. She was supposed to call me that night, never heard from her. She finally called the next afternoon and said that she needed to focus on other things in her life and that we should break up now before it went too far. We had been going out for over 4 months and each time we saw each other we were more passionate than the time before. I asked her if we could keep in touch, she said she thought it best that we didn't. How can your feelings do such a 180??? Does she want to drop all contact because she's afraid that we might become more involved? Do I contact her or wait for her to contact me? I am so effing confused, this has never happened before. I was married for 21 years and divorced 2 years ago. She was married for 13 years and divorced 5 years ago. What do you think?

2007-02-26 01:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by whatdoidonow48 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee' and I spent the wkend at a hotel, and when I was at the pool a woman came up to me and said " your trunk's really match your eye's." "Really," I replied, "Are they bulging?" and the fiancee' got upset.

2007-02-26 01:05:31 · 13 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to find my birth mum, does any one know where to start or of any sites that may have any success?
I feel incomlete and this is something i feel i need to do although i also dont want to offend my parents at the same time, they seem they dnt want to talk about it and i cant access any information without them!

2007-02-26 01:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by Leesa 2 in Family

2007-02-26 01:04:02 · 13 answers · asked by moonlitocean2000 2 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been seeing this girl for the last few month she’s 27 and im 19 and its going great but I worried that the ago different is going to brake us up.

The other think is that we are like half way across the country from each other. She lives in Sydney and I live in Barossa Valley

I hope we can sort some think out any advice

2007-02-26 01:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother would have stayed with this man but he did some very bad things and she thinks its time to move on. The first marriage only lasted for not even a year.From when she was 18 to a little after i was born and i was born when my mom was 19.( i was born in january) the second marriage lasted from when i was 1 to when i was 5. my mom has been married with this guy since i was 10 but they were dating from when i was 6 to when i was 10 and then they got married. i've grown really close with this one, but even i admit that he has done some pretty bad things. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2007-02-26 01:01:55 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 01:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by momy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been through hell and back in our 13 years. Almost 9 of those being married. We've come through a lot with the latest, an almost divorce. I mean, we seperated, I moved out, papers were filed, attorneys hired. We were out a lot of money. But through the grace of God and our love for each other, etc, etc, we are back together. We feel that the one true way to put the past behind us and start fresh, we want to renew our vows and re-commit to each other officially and publicly. We don't want anything extravagant like our wedding, but something nice and memorable. We have a beautiful church, the same one we married in, and the pastor has already said he'll do it. My question is what should we do differently than our original ceremony or should we mimic it, just downplay it a little?

2007-02-26 01:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This girl at college is giving me eyes and I want to ask her out, but she has a kid. I don't think daddy is in the picture.
Has anyone relevant experience? good and bad stories appreciated

2007-02-26 01:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by ? 7 in Singles & Dating

Well, the only things I master is text message and last year thru e-mail, I have told her my feeling but she said she just wanted to be friends. However, until now, I am always scared to begin a conversation with her, although sometimes I would see her sitting there reading novel, or waiting to be picked up..

Any tips how to do so and what to talk about? Body language?

2007-02-26 01:00:58 · 1 answers · asked by Mr Inquirer 1 in Friends

I mean the exact location... In a car..in a motel..etc..

2007-02-26 01:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by quest 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my girlfriend for 6 years. We roll along smoothly for a while and get on amazingly, but we have not been having regular sex for about 4 years. It started tailing off slowly but its now at least a year between times we make love; she has told me it is something that once worked in our relationship, but no longer does.

I have accepted this and can live without it. We are moving away together in a few months (regardless) and she has asked to go on a break as she isnt sure she is in love with me. We had a discussion about it, we were both crying, she said she absolutely loves me, never wants to have me out of her life and doesnt want to be with anyone else. I feel the same, but she is not sure if this is enough.

Im so confused. If we both love each other and the idea of the other person being with someone else kills us shouldnt we stay together? And also, dont ALL relationships get to the stage where you arent as excited by each other, but you love each other deeply?

2007-02-26 01:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just got a new boyfriend (been together just over a month) and i am being totally insecure (i dont show this to him).

Anyway i have had really really REALLY bad luck with men in my life and this is the first guy to show me love and respect.

My problem is im totally insecure (i dont have a very high self esteem!) i get all upset if he doesnt say "i love you" at the end of a text if i say it to him (which is know is really stupid cuz i know he loves me and he always says it when were face to face) and i get all upset if i dont see him every day (i think he is avoiding me even though the fact of the matter is that i see him almost every day and he is probaly just tired and wants to spend a night with his family every now and then).

I know all this is ridiculous but i still cant stop feeling that way. I know he loves me and enjoys being with me.

How can i stop feeling so insecure about myself and just enjoy what we have together?

Thanks

Scarlet x

2007-02-26 00:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi ,iam swathi.i have two younger sisters.I finished my B.E.One of my sister is doing her B.E final year and another one B.com final year.while i was working ,i fell in love with one person.He is a business person ie.he is running photo studio and its his own.He is a photographer.HE discontinued his B.com.He is a good person with good values.I am a converted christian and he is hindu.The problem was we both said to our parents .his parents accepted and my parents didnt accepted.my father was A.E in govt.i am confused with whether i have to run away or leave him,becoz of me my parents and my parents should not get suffered.I cant live without him and he too.I have also doubt tat whether i have to leave my christianity.please answer wat to do.i can earn 12000 each month and he can earn 10000.Please suggest me wat to do.

2007-02-26 00:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How many people out there got snow this weekend? i did and at my dads house we got about 3 feet of snow and at my moms house we got about 2 feet of snow. and i live in MN.

2007-02-26 00:57:32 · 10 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Family