Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I recently found out that my fiancee has had a thing going on for a few months with someone from her work, but to her credit she admitted it to me. However she says she did not have sex with him, all that happened is that he went down on her several times, but she swears she did not touch him. The thing is I never go down on her, I just dont like to do that, and she says she is very sorry but she just wanted to experience oral sex on her, instead of only giving it. She says the other guy is really into giving oral and good at it, and he offered and she couldnt resist. I understand how she felt, but I think she should have told me how important it was. The wedding is still planned, but the idea that she orgasmed with another man makes me jealous...but I dont think she really cheated so I shouldnt end it should I??

2007-02-26 01:56:44 · 15 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea I know i'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me. Im just looking for more. Im tired of the young immature boys in school that dont care about their future. I want to be with someone who has a future ahead of them. Right now I'm pretty busy with work and school so it's hard for me to do alot. I love to travel and am willing to go the distance. I just need to find someone to do the same. If there is anyone out there who feels the same (guys) please feel free to email me at plastksweetie07@yahoo.com I would love to talk and get to know you. I am also on yahoo messenger right now. Im 18 and from Virginia. Is this too much to ask for?

2007-02-26 01:56:41 · 6 answers · asked by plastksweetie07 1 in Singles & Dating

i rang his phone and heard him on the phone...say to his brother the reason he doesnt sleep with me is because im quite over wieght. and im not...im deeply insulted by this am i wrong to be?

2007-02-26 01:55:46 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is terrbile with money! He nickel and dimes us to death, and it is killing us financially. He wants to be responsible for the bills, but he doesn't pay them on time. I work full-time as well, so I am contributing a large amount of income to our household. I feel like I have tried everything! He won't give me his checks so I can pay the bills, we have tried sitting down together twice a month to go over the bills, but we end up fighting because he has spent so much. I'm just hoping for some suggestions on how to make this work? Is there anyone else dealing with this issue?

2007-02-26 01:55:23 · 14 answers · asked by Kailey 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is the american english accent attractive?

2007-02-26 01:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or do you get an energy surge?

2007-02-26 01:52:49 · 18 answers · asked by miss_shredder 1 in Singles & Dating

its jus somethin i experienced recently and it hurts im confused and i jus need advice

2007-02-26 01:52:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 16 months old. I have been looking forward to taking her to get her first haircut since she was born. I thought about doing all these mother-daughter things even before she was born. My wishes were very clearly expressed to my family (my own as well as my in-laws) Everyone knew that I planned to take her and that it was very important to me. Here begins the prob! I was sitting with my daughter in my lap and I noticed that she had snips on her bangs. I immediately called my mother (as she had been watching her earlier in the week) and asked her--very calmly and politely if she had cut my daughter's hair. I want to stress here that I was very calm and polite when I asked. My mother snapped back, "No and GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" My husband asked his mother and she said there was no way that she had cut her hair because she had gone through this before with her first daughter-in-law and we had had a conversation about this earlier in the week. What do you think?

2007-02-26 01:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by wowee 1 in Family

i need to know of ten good gifts for a guy. but i need it under $60.,

2007-02-26 01:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get all A's and Honor Roll and my friends tell me i am very intimidating but I try to impress boys so bad. I don't know what to do, I have alot of guy friends and guess i can be mean sometimes so i can't be hurt but i want a BF so bad so someone help me!

2007-02-26 01:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get all A's and Honor Roll and my friends tell me i am very intimidating but I try to impress boys so bad. I don't know what to do, I have alot of guy friends and guess i can be mean sometimes so i can't be hurt but i want a BF so bad so someone help me!

2007-02-26 01:51:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think this could be a problem or seeing as girls are usually more mature then guys it won't be that big of a deal ?

2007-02-26 01:51:12 · 14 answers · asked by girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I get all A's and Honor Roll and my friends tell me i am very intimidating but I try to impress boys so bad. I don't know what to do, I have alot of guy friends and guess i can be mean sometimes so i can't be hurt but i want a BF so bad so someone help me!

2007-02-26 01:51:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my name is christine smith formerly Wilderspin I was divorced between 1989 1992 i cannot remember the dates I was married at Wood Green Registry Office on the 12th of May 1971 ?

2007-02-26 01:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by robert f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you choose? i live with my girlfriend and I love her, we get on great and rarely argue, she is everything anyone could want.

i also am in love with a girl i met at the last place i worked, she is amazing and i cant stop thinking about her. i see her regularly, along with some of the others i used to work with. she doesn't know how i feel and i stop myself from telling her everytime i see her.

i don't know what to do, its driving me nuts.

2007-02-26 01:50:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 01:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 01:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by yousmellofpooalot 1 in Friends

My ex is a heroin junkie. He has never paid a cent of child support. He has stolen from me and my son both more times than I can even count. Despite all this I have always allowed him to see his son every time he pops up (it should be said that our is is 12 and has no interest in his father. I have had to MAKE him spend time with his father).Also, his father was physically and mentally abusive during our marriage. Here is the question: I have decided that my ex cannot see our son until he takes me to court. And, if by some miracle he takes me court,I am going to ask for drug testing and monitored visit. So, am I being just a total *****? In my mind I am just protecting my son from a bad influence..but am I wrong?

2007-02-26 01:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by pepper_0713 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If it isnt how should I be? What do you look for?

2007-02-26 01:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking the wedding at 3:00 pm, dinner at 6:00 pm and dance start at 7:30 is that enough time to eat or should I move everything up 1/2 hour and give us two hours to eat?

2007-02-26 01:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am an engineering student . It is becoming a passion to have sexual condact .What shoud I do!

2007-02-26 01:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by geo j 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents insist that I cannot play any computer games even if I finish all my homework until the holidays come and they expect the best results from me!It is almost i impossible to get top in ur class for evrything,rite?So pls give me ur advice on wat I shld do as I try avoiding secretly palying computer games due to my conscience.And how do I score well?I seem to be lazy and always procastinate.And I always score avergae in quizzes and tests,no mater how much I study.Pls help me!Thx a lot.

2007-02-26 01:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by Blank 3 in Family

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 5 months. I know it doesnt seem long BUT things progressed very quickly for both of us. We both jumped in with two feet and head first. We moved in together (he was my neighbour for 2 years before we started dating), talked about marriage and having children together and growing old with my parents living next door.

The 1st 3 months of the relationship were out of this world...honestly nothing else in the world mattered except for him. Completely infatuated. One morning I woke up and found that I "didnt love him anymore" this happened along with some depression and some chemical imbalances in my head so my family doctor put me on some anti-anxiety meds. They have done their part but there is still this thought in the back of my head that always asks me "Do you really love him?"

He is everything I have ever wanted genuine, trustworthy (something I have never had before), passionate, romantic, sexy, intelligent etc etc...6 months before I met him I got out of a horrible relationship with a cop that ended up losing his job for abusing me. We dated for a year and when times were good times were OUT OF THIS WORLD! and I think thats why it was hard for me to get over him cause our entire relationship was based on drama. So that being said going from a dramatic relationship to a healthy one 6 months later is quite tough but all in all I think this is the place for me to stay.

He makes me laugh, I feel comfortable with him and I enjoy spending quite nights alone with him. We are very sexual with one another and I think that him being with another woman could turn me on although I look at that as though I dont care about him and I dont care if he was with another girl behind my back or something which honestly I dont think is the case.....

All of my friends look at me with my current boyfriend and they say I am completely myself with him and I am usually not like that. I usually am very controlling but for a reason I am completely myself with him. I think I was like that before because my ex's were all meant to be mis-trusted....Anyways. what I am asking is why dont I feel as infatuated for him as I did for my ex...I always wanted to marry my ex until he became abusive but I cant say 100% if I want to marry this one. I just want to know 100% and know that this is right?

2007-02-26 01:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-26 01:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by just curious 1 in Family

i guess i got a crush on this girl, and seems like she got one on me too. we r both late teenagers. and shes like acquaintance, not friend. and i know tat shes a single, but seems like she got some guys friends, which i dont care a lot

we make a lotta eye contacts, but we dont have much chance to talk to each other
i dunno if shes worth trying. i mean, her looks r average, but shes nice and caring. so probably worth trying, lol

i dont know who stare at other person first. sometimes its me, sometimes its her. and as soon as we make an eyecontact, we just look away. so i am pretty sure tat i got her hooked somehow.
and also it seems like tat shes tryin to make a chance to get closer to me.

so, uhhh should i just take every opportunity around me to talk to her? but wouldnt she think im a crazy guy if she got no interests in me?

oh, and if we happended to talk, what shouold we talk about? just school, ppl, friends and all that?

2007-02-26 01:45:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married in June and has asked me to sing. She wants me to sing a song more dedicated to her from her little sister. And she said I don't have to tell her if I don't want to- so I am panicking! I am having a huge problem finding a song that puts into words how grateful I am for her and happy. I was thinking "Wind Beneath my wings" but I don't want to be pratical. If anyone has any opinions, that would be amazing. If you know of any christian -sister, best friend songs or not. WHATEVER! I just need some advice! I have looked everywhere!
Thanks!!

2007-02-26 01:45:07 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley* 1 in Weddings

his brother has been gone for a year & 3mos. However, for 2 years he has been telling me just him & I need a getaway without my daugter or other's. We both believe we needed this because we've nearly broken up many times because of misscomm. He tends to make me feel left out or as he puts it "i'll nag until I get the answer I want". The problem is he doesnt listen to everything..he interupts and does all the talking and doesnt let me express myself -the first word i say that he doesnt like he will give me several negative comments toward the relationship that make me feel like he doesnt want it -if I ask about it he gets angry and yells and wants to just walk away. Then later...he'll apologize but never retract the ng comments. He just say "I said Im sorry NOW LET IT GO" but doesnt communicate. Anyway, he just told me that his Sister is going with us to Hawaii on the "alone" vac. WHY...he says his sister deserves it and he may have made a mistake not asking me 1st but tuff she's going.

2007-02-26 01:45:01 · 11 answers · asked by Rain 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf says she is fat and she isnt what should i say to make her believe she is not fat?

2007-02-26 01:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

and not love them tomorrow?

2007-02-26 01:44:09 · 25 answers · asked by miss_shredder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where does it blow you...?

2007-02-26 01:43:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating