Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

what is very easy way to find a girl? be older and smarter, persuade her in anything and have her body. When she is 15, 16 or 17 she will believe in anything.
Question of time

I've got to get to you first
Before they do
It's just a question of time
Before they lay their hands on you
And make you just like the rest
I've got to get to you first
It's just a question of time

Well now you're only fifteen
And you look good
I'll take you under my wing
Somebody should
They've persuasive ways
And you'll believe what they say
It's just a question of time
It's running out for you
It won't be long until you'll do
Exactly what they want you to

I can see them now
Hanging around
To mess you up
To strip you down
And have their fun
With my little one

It's just a question of time
It's running out for you
It won't be long until you'll do
Exactly what they want you to

Sometimes I don't blame them
For wanting you
You look good
And they need something to do
...

2007-02-26 01:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This could be a girlfriend, lover, f**kbuddy, etc.

Just interested.

2007-02-26 01:27:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I wont posted the guy I LOVES name, so we will all him Jeffrey which isnt his real name.
Heres the story.
I'm a cute nerd who if short and skinny i have braces and glasses but don't really act nerdy.
He kind of acts nerdy but isn't a nerd he's a skater dude well he thinks hes real punk even though he isnt ,he is really nice and funny.
I dated him once i went to las vegas he cheated on me we were through then i dated him again and he forgot that we were dating =O
So I still like him even though we are just friends an dhe knows i like him "WHO DOESNT KNOW I LIKE HIM?"
So anyways. What do I do? I AM NOT GIVING UP AND THAT IS THAT,

2007-02-26 01:27:24 · 4 answers · asked by vous avez blessé mon âme. 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to get out of a relationship of over 6 years . I am 22 and he is 47 . I am also 61/2 months pregnant . I plan on moving back in w/ my father to save money and get my life back on track . I just feel bad like i am doing something wrong , I havent lived at home since i was 16 and dont know how to feel about this

2007-02-26 01:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1. My wife and I married December 31, 2006.
2. I filed on my income tax return married filed jointly.
3. My wife claimed no income.
4. I received notificatioin from the IRS that my refund is offset because my wife owes child support.
5. 1/2 of my child support was taken and that hurt because before marriage I was a full time single father.
6. According to IRS I needed to file an "Injured Spouse" Claim form. Originally IRS took ALL of my refund but they did give me half.
7. According to IRS I need to file this "Injured Spouse Form" every year.
8. How can I get around this?
9. I feel like my wife debt before marriage has nothing to do with me.
10. Please advise.

2007-02-26 01:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lol..sorry...im just being silly.

so?

2007-02-26 01:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who...or what..?...;0)

2007-02-26 01:25:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am 27, recently separated with a very wealthy husband who fully provides for me on a high standard. Even before marriage i was well off due to highly paid modelling jobs
However I am going to start erning my own money starting this summer, since I am finishing my MSc in Finance.
6 weeks ago I met and fell in love with the guy who is 5 years younger and a student.
Things went fantastic between us, but last week it went wrong after I said I am getting emotionally involved and like him a lot., now the guy is saying that he needs time alone, he likes me but he "can't afford" a girl like me, i always talk about money directly or inderectly, and he is sick and tired of it. In fact he sais he felt so offended that I made a point that i am used to high life that he doesn't feel like seing me any more.But i never maid him spend on me - i spent on him! I
I told him I am prepared to do whatever it takes to be with him, but he is changed attitude and is very cold now, i said sorry...

2007-02-26 01:24:30 · 28 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the two wedding rings and the engagment ring which was valued at £1400. Understandably the Jewlers doesnt want them back, (who would want to buy jinxed rings).
The stag do is paid for (but luckily overlaps with my birthday weekend and will still be used)
The honeymoon is all booked and paid for, and she has the wedding dress.
What a mess! Any tips for salvaging cash to help me buy her out the house and to help her move on with her life would be appriciated.

2007-02-26 01:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by spats69ie 1 in Weddings

My sister just recently (the past month) came out to us and told us shes a lesbien. I am so scared that one morning im going to wake up with her in my bed. I also cant help to notice that she stares at me wrong. I dont know what to do, im thinking about staying with my best friend. Im not a homophobic i just dont want to take any chances. What should i do?

2007-02-26 01:21:48 · 11 answers · asked by starxgirl89 1 in Friends

if you are in a place full of guys.....and you can understand that they like you and they are afraid of you....if you are listening the one to say to the other ''she will regect you...she is perfect and you are a monkey...''....but you like only one person and you can t understand his feellings cause he always say silly things when you are together....you say one think and he always understand the oposite....
thats a crazy nightmare..............
if i do the first step it s bad...if i m waiting for a silly person it s bad do.....
what can i do?
dumn if you did and dumn if you don t!

2007-02-26 01:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 01:21:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends have big boobs, long hair, and they come from wealthy backgrounds. Sure, they have issues they share within our circle but on the outside looking in...any guy would want to be in their life. Me on the other hand, short hair, small boobs, and smart but am rarely given the opportunity to prove myself based on my looks. I feel like I look better than my friends because I can pull off the short hair that they wouldn't be able to. And without boobs...they wouldn't get time of day either. So how can I keep my confidence high when around the girls that have "assets" and I don't :/

2007-02-26 01:21:10 · 1 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Friends

Is it possible to fall back 'in love' with someone that you think you have fallen out of love with, yet still love deeply?

2007-02-26 01:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has the mentality of a caveman. He thinks I am doing this to get away from him later on. That is not the case. My husband has never been able to save a penny. He's made me out to be the bad guy and all I want to do is save the money he cannot.

2007-02-26 01:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by fiend4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i did not say My husband had the affair, and i do not have issues with any other woman, my point is it upsets me to see this happening all around me, you know during lunch and at work and believe me the ones who give their wives expensive gifts and alot of attention, fancy cars, etc. are the ones cheating their wives. And i noticed the woman who go on about whats right and wrong are generally the ones who are getting screwed over by their husbands, and they dont even realise it. Sad but true.

2007-02-26 01:19:42 · 6 answers · asked by lonelyheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

5 years ago there was a girl i had sexual relationship with we became so intimate so much so that we both made a strong impression on eachother,2 yrs later she left to another city and we lost contact ,a month ago my neighbour told his wife would be joiing him soon.it turned that his wife was my girlfriend...she pretended she was meeting me for the first time so i had no choice but to play along.each time her husband is out she comes to my house to tell me how i made a lasting impression as the first man in her life and how she wants me badly,she even complained about her husband's inability to satisfy her on bed,an area she says am better off.we have not done anything but i stil like her.plz help

2007-02-26 01:19:35 · 15 answers · asked by xcapee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am staying here just coz i have friends here but is that reason enough

2007-02-26 01:19:15 · 5 answers · asked by healthy life 2 in Friends

I asked what comes first for men -

Only for men -?
Please could you tell me which one is first and which one second and third and last for you:

1) Money
2) Mother
3) Wife/girl
4) House
5) Car

I already got answers starting their mother.
How about you girls, what comes first for you -

1) Husband
2) Clothes
3) Mother
4) beauty
5) Money

Please you solve the 1,2,3,4,5 the way you think which is best and worst for you.
thanks

I am already disappointed of the men that their mothers come first, and second the wife. you are all bad boys!

2007-02-26 01:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by Spark S 5 in Marriage & Divorce

its my best friends 30th birthday in about 4 weeks how can we give her a day to remember without it costing the earth

2007-02-26 01:18:04 · 4 answers · asked by patricia t 1 in Friends

how stupid the girls who sleep with a married guy? or vice versa? or worst both are married? what are they thinking? cheaters!

2007-02-26 01:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 01:16:18 · 12 answers · asked by Mama 2 in Family

ive been with my fella for 4 months, im falling in love with him, he said it will take him longer as he has been hurt bad in the past. he has just given me a car,
anyway he didnt seem himself the other day, hes in the raf and i know he was very busy, i texted and asked if everything was ok he said yes fine just chill.

so i texted back and said "only asking cos u seem to have been funny with me the past few days" after that he hasnt replyed and he hasnt since and its been a day and a half now! we havent gone one day without speaking or texting each other since we met so im so unsure as what to do.

shall i call him? or shall i leave it up to him? we are both 25
please help!!! i just dont know what to do????

he was the one who first said that once we fall in love we will move in together...ect, hes been planning it all, hes even spoke about getting married and having kids! any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks xx

2007-02-26 01:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7months now. i have to work long hours because my job requires it. however, my boyfriend fail to understand and accept that. thus, we end up arguing quite a bit. his excuse always seem to be that its not wrong to want to spend time with his girlfriend.

i do feel bad when we cant hang out, but he seems really stubborn sometimes. we even got into a crazy fight on valentines because i had to work late and he refused to come down and see me simply because we planned that i'd go down to see him. at the end of the day, valentines turned out to be a mess.

he has even contemplated walking away from the relationship before..somehow i managed to hold him back

but it has come to a point where im confused. my job isnt going to get any easier...and he refuses to accept that. ive tried talking to him to no avail..

i cant loose my job, and it hurts to loose him. exactly what am i to do? i cant sacrifice both

2007-02-26 01:15:44 · 10 answers · asked by candycane 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married and me and my Husband really are not keen on going, my husband doesnt know any of them as it is me that used to work with them so he really does not want to sit on a table with people he does not know so please help need convincing excuse not to go.

2007-02-26 01:14:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For the last few weeks have been feeling a little disinterested in fiancé even my mother noticed it yesterday. He is a lovely guy and couldnt do more for me but cant help these feelings that I have. I haI was home at weekend and went out with some old mates and really enjoyed myself didnt miss him once although he text me non stop to know how I was getting on etc etc.

I dont know what I am feeling getting married in little over 4 mths and cant even be bothered to do anymore for the wedding. I never got those flutters or sparks when I met him first just thought he was a nice guy and it went from there that was 5 yrs. Should I have got those flutters?
When he in work I cant help getting excited when he says he is staying late as I dont want to talk to him. have been sleeping in diff beds lately and he hasnt even asked y I just make an excuse everytime or even try not going to bed early staying up til 2 or 3 in the morning just to avoid it. I dont know what to do

2007-02-26 01:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my women thinks am handsome....but when i used to fight alot she used to find it a turn on because i was rough and rugged is there a balance between the two

2007-02-26 01:12:52 · 15 answers · asked by lucky 7 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to school with this girl for years but then her family and her moved away and sadly we lost contact, so does anyone know a Belinda O' Connor she lives in Dublin Ireland. Ok well she did the last time we spoke,

Any help would be very much appericated.

Thanks

2007-02-26 01:12:33 · 6 answers · asked by Lynda27 3 in Family

3 days ago my friend was sent 2 the hospital..
nothing serious..
and today shes out..and I was thinking when I see her I want 2 get her something but I really dont know..

Im thinking of flowers and chocolates..
but I think its not enough
any suggestions?

2007-02-26 01:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Friends

My sisters birthday is comming up, and I have no clue what to get her... She isnt very "girly", so its really hard finding her something suitable. She is about to be 17, do you have any suggestions?

2007-02-26 01:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends