My sister just recently (the past month) came out to us and told us shes a lesbien. I am so scared that one morning im going to wake up with her in my bed. I also cant help to notice that she stares at me wrong. I dont know what to do, im thinking about staying with my best friend. Im not a homophobic i just dont want to take any chances. What should i do?
2007-02-26 01:21:48 · 11 answers · asked by starxgirl89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because she likes girls, doesn't mean she likes all girls!
2007-02-26 01:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel the same way if you had a brother? I think this may be a similar situation... After all, she's your sister.
If you haven't woke up with her in your bed already, I don't know why she would start now.
If she's staring, ask her why. It may be that now she came out, you just may be noticing it, or perhaps paranoid.
The fact that she even said anything demonstrates that she's willing to talk. Tell her what's on your mind...
2007-02-26 09:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by copydude87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what kind of relationship you had prior to her coming out, But, It sounds like you feel threatened by your sister, has she ever been abusive to you in any way?
Has she ever givin you a reason to feel that she would think of you in that way?
If you feel that uncomfortable living with your sister, then yes, you should consider staying somewhere else.
However, In my opinion, I think you should discuss this issue with your parents
I'll bet it has been difficut for her to come to terms with her sexual identity,and I wonder how your family reacted to her announcemnent.Do you think you could have misinterpret her looks at you?
2007-02-26 09:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by iwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... I think you're becoming a lesbian yourself....
To think such thoughts are actually the start of it all and also its the first stage which is denial...
You should accept that is who she is.... you can't deny it and if you guys slept together with out the knowledge that she was lesbian before, right?
So if you knew such knowledge would it make her less your sister??
Be happy she knows her sexuality and theres nothing wrong with it just be open...
Hope you can see this through... Good Luck!
2007-02-26 09:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her sex life tell to her to sleep on the couch your not use of sleeping with her find a boy that go out with her because she [{MIGHT}] forget shes a lesbian..or if it don't work give her a girlfriend so she can be looking at her in a wrong way lol
2007-02-26 09:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by young_lil_jada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its a test and she just said this, some say this and dont even mean it or just copying someone else.
She is your sister, so you got to love her. Just tell her that it is
not cool at all and you want her to date boys if she will.
Try to fix her up with a nice fellar.
Dont put her down, she is confused and most of all dont
desert her , she may need u to help her get thru this and
turn herself around.
Think positive and give her posters of good lookin guys.
http://www.allposters.com
2007-02-26 09:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?? Be a sister to her and give her all the love and support that you can right now..
As a gay man with THREE brothers, believe me when I say that I desire none of them in the way you're suggesting about your sister.
2007-02-26 09:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are homophobic. You think because your sister, someone you are RELATED TO, is going to try to sleep with you because she now admits she likes girls. I highly doubt she's going to commit incest, but you can't be so sure? Geez.
Your sister needs your support, but you don't understand her choice yet. I recommend visiting the PFLAG site, http://www.pflag.org/ You can find help understanding your sister there.
2007-02-26 09:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UUMM TELL HER YOUR A LESBIAN TO N WINK AT HER! nah i think the best thing to do is stab her! rite away! Nah itz ur sister you shrimp as if she would be even thinking of that??? ur just scaring your self but if she winks at you then yh STAB THE *****!!!!!
2007-02-26 09:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are homophobic. she's your sister, relax and get over it. you are probably freaking her out more than you know.
2007-02-26 09:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to not look at you becuase thats wrong! shes your sister and she should respect you! if she doesnt understand tell her to go away!! =]
2007-02-26 09:26:05 · answer #11 · answered by Princessa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋