This could be a girlfriend, lover, f**kbuddy, etc.
Just interested.
2007-02-26 01:27:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When her needs and wants come first, and yours aren't addressed!
2007-02-26 01:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well when you're in a relationship its often hard to see the signs.
Depends on what you mean by using also.
I mean if you are ALWAYS paying for things, then she is probably using you. I believe that the guy should pay in most cases but some girls just want everything and never want to pay a thing. Like my ex. Also if she is just flaunting you around as her bf but you don't really get treated like a bf, husband, etc, you are probably being used.
2007-02-26 01:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman and or man will only do what you allow them to, think about it. You know when a woman is using you when all she asks is for what she wants and primarily focuses only on herself. Does she ask you about your needs, or does she return your gifts with sexual instances?
The person is using you when it isn't a necessity and overall she perpetuates going out on your tab. IF you have to ask yourself that, most likely you feel used, put it to the forefront and tell this chick she's getting cut off. Analyze how she reacts...if negative then you've got your answer.
2007-02-26 01:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Diva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Listen to your friends and family. Unlike you, your friends and family will be able to detect if she has you "whipped". When some girls know they have a guy whipped, they'll milk it for all it's worth.
Some people say, "it shouldn't matter what your friends think" where relationships are concerned. However good friends watch out for each other, and don't forget that either.
Sorry ladies, but we guys have a term here.
"Bros before Hos"
Don't forget that golden rule Mr. Asker, and you'll always be ok.
2007-02-26 01:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might call her ex-boyfriend and kiss you. She might use you just to have sex. If she nags to you about buying her things its because she thinks your rich or you are rich and she trys getting youo to spend it on her so she can show off.
Although I'm a girl answering this I don't use my boyfriend I dont judge a book by its cover. I judge by character.
2007-02-26 01:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know a woman is using you is when she comes to you asking for every little thing like money, to barrow your
car and she always has a sad story to tell you to get her to help
her all the time but when you go to her for help or anything she never has it to give you.
2007-02-26 01:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by cheyanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when the girl won't take care of things equally. Whatever relationship you are in it should be 50/50-give and take at all times.
2007-02-26 01:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by janellekel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When whatever it costs you to be her friend is worth more than the benefit or enjoyment you receive from her company.
2007-02-26 01:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a look at your wallet, the fuel level in the tank, and the stack of bills in the mail box.
2007-02-26 01:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by madeawareofyou 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when she uses you to full fill her needs be it for sex, nights out, holidays etc
to be truthful we all use someone for something in most relationships you need to get something out of it else why would you be in that relationship ?
FOR LOVE ALONE I DO NT THINK SO
2007-02-26 01:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when a woman is using you when they didn't like you but then they like you because you get rich and when she spends all of your money she leaves you.
2007-02-26 09:10:21 · answer #11 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋