ive been with my fella for 4 months, im falling in love with him, he said it will take him longer as he has been hurt bad in the past. he has just given me a car,
anyway he didnt seem himself the other day, hes in the raf and i know he was very busy, i texted and asked if everything was ok he said yes fine just chill.
so i texted back and said "only asking cos u seem to have been funny with me the past few days" after that he hasnt replyed and he hasnt since and its been a day and a half now! we havent gone one day without speaking or texting each other since we met so im so unsure as what to do.
shall i call him? or shall i leave it up to him? we are both 25
please help!!! i just dont know what to do????
he was the one who first said that once we fall in love we will move in together...ect, hes been planning it all, hes even spoke about getting married and having kids! any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks xx
2007-02-26 01:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should give him sometime may he,s just going tru stuff
2007-02-26 01:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by affh1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh seems like there's nothing to worry about so you may want to hide the stress of not being able to talk to him. Just act normal and don't let him know how much you've worried about your situation because of a lack of communication. He might need some time to think and evaluate how much he cares for you or he might be sweating over paying his bills. Just give him some time and if things aren't back to normal ask him what the deal is.
2007-02-26 09:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him and let him text you now. Like you said he has been hurt in the past so is obviously a bit scared.
Its only been a few months so slow down a bit and let him come to you, and if he doesnt its not meant to be, and move on. Life is too short.
2007-02-26 09:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by janeybest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think you should by the sounds of it he just wants you to run after him. If you've not done anythingn then hes just bein an **** idl eave him for a bit and go n have some fun with your mates. If he rings you you will know that its meant to be. Good luck
2007-02-26 09:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should call him instead of telling him that he seems funny with you i think you should play it another way, by saying to him you don't seem yourself have you got something on your mind ask him is there anything you could do for him just tell him not matter what is wrong you will be there for him. do not put it on yourself that it is about you twist it round because that way you will not sound selfish. you may get to the bottom of this mood he is in. call him now good luck don't forget be nice reassure him. x
2007-02-26 09:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him, u will look like a bunny boiler, after all it has only been 4mnths.
Go out for the rest of the day & make plans with friends for tonight but DON'T take yr mobile.
2007-02-26 09:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by K W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two things it could be here. Either he has began sleeping with someone else or he feels things are getting way too serious for him and he is not ready for commitment since he has been "hurt" in the past
2007-02-26 09:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just came out of a simliar situation and i pushed him when he wasn't ready as he had been hurt in the past as well, and i loss him we ended on bad terms which is heartbreaking for me.
my advice is to leave him and let him contact you don't force the situation as you may push him away and loose him for good. its hard to committ to someone when you have been hurt in the past so give him time and space to sort himself out don't pressure him. hope it works out for you.
2007-02-26 09:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by cd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he is very confused and not sure what he wants, to answer your question..Yes , phone him..You have every right to know what is happening and its not fair towards you to keep you hanging onto false hope. Good luck!
2007-02-26 09:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should phone him, otherwise you will just drive yourself crazy wondering unitl he does eventually text or call you.
put your own mind at ease and contact him and ask him to be straight with you. good luck
2007-02-26 09:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'l probably feels shy talking about his problems, let him express his problems to you, and try to sort it out....or make sure you love him so much that he forgets the past...
Or
he probably wants a bit of time to himself to put himself together.... and realise what is happening..
2007-02-26 09:20:41 · answer #11 · answered by Vinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋