i rang his phone and heard him on the phone...say to his brother the reason he doesnt sleep with me is because im quite over wieght. and im not...im deeply insulted by this am i wrong to be?
2007-02-26 01:55:46 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my pic can be seen on my 360 blog if u all want to see me to access how fat i am
2007-02-26 02:02:07 · update #1
Wow, what a jerk! I'm sorry hun, but you need to sit your husband down, and have a long talk about what he said, and how it makes you feel.
I took a look at your picture, and you are very pretty, and not overweight. So, don't let his comment get you feeling down on yourself.
Best of luck!
2007-02-26 03:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would talk to my husband about it. Tell him that I heard what he said and was deeply hurt by it. Tell him if that is how he feels then next time he is all over me, I will remind him of what he said.
No, you are not wrong. That isn't right that he said that, especially if you are not over-weight.
2007-02-26 02:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, a guy like this looks/compares other women to you. He isn't attracted to you sexually anymore however before he starts cheating he probably needs to see an effort in you that wants to change. Try to see what he means like go to the gym and tone if you aren't over weight there might be areas he's not as enthused about you know what that is...try to keep it might make you happier to see him happy.
2007-02-26 02:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a talk with your husband; something isn't right in this situation. Yes, you're right to feel insulted, but I think you need to find out the truth about why your husband isn't sleeping with you.
2007-02-26 02:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right.
That was very insulting of him to say!
I think you should confront him about it and see what he has to say for himself. Make him explain to you what overweight is in his eyes. Obviously it's not a normal overweight since you aren't overweight.
And tell him to keep your personal married folks business to himself!
Hope this helped and wish ya the best! ♥
2007-02-26 02:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront him and tell him from now on, there will be no more sleeping together. I wouldn't want to make him out to be a liar and next time he better be careful what he says.
2007-02-26 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definetly confront him
how dare he say something like that about you to his brother!
if he really had a problem with you ebing overweight( whether you are or arent) he should have talked to you about it.
If he has such a problem tell him that you will go to the gym but only if he goes with you.
2007-02-26 02:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel very insulted, and hurt. would want to confront him about it, does he sleep with u? if he really doesn't than he does think this about u, and personally i would not want to be in a marriage where i was thought of like this.
2007-02-26 02:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell his brother in his presence that he is hopeless in bed that is why he does not sleep with you.
When he gets upset, as he is bound to , let him know how you felt whne he made that nasty remark.
Good luck my dear
2007-02-26 02:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by rowell2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your husband is very selfish!!! You should have a talk with him about pro's and cons of sleeping with him!!
2007-02-26 01:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋