do you think this could be a problem or seeing as girls are usually more mature then guys it won't be that big of a deal ?
2007-02-26 01:51:12 · 14 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its illegal
2007-02-26 01:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a mom my first answer is he is to old for u but as a girl who was once 15 and dated a 19 yr old i say as long as there is no sexual intentions then really nothing wrong but you will find it hard because he can go places u cant which wont be a problem at first but sooner or later it will he will want to go to bars nd stuff with his friends and you cant go so you will be spending many weekend nights alone and it might cause you jealousey but at the same time you might just have fun with each other it all depends on the type of people you are. hope this helps
2007-02-26 10:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by pink_power_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's illegal for them to have sex until she is of legal age. Even if there is no sex involved (which I can't believe if a 19 yr old guy is involved) it still seems wrong since the girl is still in high school and he's either in college or out on his own.
2007-02-26 09:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years difference at this age range is a big difference. A girl is very seldom that mature. I see one of these 3 situations, and any one of these should raise red flags to everyone involved.
The guy is too immature to have a relationship with girls his own age.
He's looking for jailbait - maybe he's a pedophile.
The girl is looking for a way out of her current situation - maybe she's convinced herself that marriage will get her away from parents that she considers cruel, over-controlling, etc. A friend of mine was in this situation when I was in high school. She wanted to get married in the worst way to escape her home life. She got pregnant and married at about 16. It turned out to be the worst way in the world to get married.
Also - It's been my observation that any teenager who regards themselves as mature for their age is usually fooling nobody but themselves.
2007-02-26 09:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think at that age, its too much of a difference to have a good relationship foundation. At this point he is going to be ready to settle down in a few years and you just started highschool. Most people won't last too long with a partner whose not on the same page.
2007-02-26 09:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well first don't plan on any sex with her. You will end up in prison I know plenty of people that that has happened to. Second why would a college guy want to go out with a girl who is barely out of middle school. There are plenty of women (not girls) in college who could probably satisfy you a lot better. If you are truly in love with this girl ask her to wait 3 years when she is legally of age to consent.
There are also girls who are underage who have sex with guys just to get them put in prison (I also know someone that that happened to). They make you believe that they are truly in love with you then they turn you in.
2007-02-26 10:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by V H B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! i might be one of the few to tell you this but im telling yew right... im 16 and i am talking to a 18 almost 19 year old... but i think you should go for it and see how things go dont sleep with him yet... wait till your 16 because once ur 16 nothing can be done to him if you consent ... because i was 15 and sleeping with a 19 year old... and muh mom said she was going to press charges... but that diddent happen... its ok as long as you dont fall in love with him... you more the likely will get hurt
2007-02-26 10:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by ..::Leigh' Ana Babiie::.. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are still in highschool. You should be concetrating on your education. He is too old to be dating you right now. Maybe later when you are out of highschool.
2007-02-26 09:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That they are normal humans, problem will be when they do non date or think of date.
2007-02-26 10:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by DALJEET S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called sagitory rape. society see it as if a guy 18 or older is dating someone who is under 18 as wanting one thing. goes same for any girl who is 18 or older.,
2007-02-26 10:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10-15.
Years in prison, in-case you didn't get it.
2007-02-26 11:05:49 · answer #11 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋