Last Wednesday we spent the day in bed and both told each other that we loved each other. She was supposed to call me that night, never heard from her. She finally called the next afternoon and said that she needed to focus on other things in her life and that we should break up now before it went too far. We had been going out for over 4 months and each time we saw each other we were more passionate than the time before. I asked her if we could keep in touch, she said she thought it best that we didn't. How can your feelings do such a 180??? Does she want to drop all contact because she's afraid that we might become more involved? Do I contact her or wait for her to contact me? I am so effing confused, this has never happened before. I was married for 21 years and divorced 2 years ago. She was married for 13 years and divorced 5 years ago. What do you think?
2007-02-26 01:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by whatdoidonow48 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's is possible that her defences r up, it is possible that she saw smthng on you that she didn't like, it is possible that it was only some good F****ing for some months, it is possible that she's crazy (as r most women) and wants to get u crazy too, it possible that she's toying you so to make you get more stuck in the situation...
****, move on, don't look back, live your life
What is to come will come.
Don't get stuck (look who's talking), at least not for too long
Take care of yourself
We get born alone we die alone
Cheers
2007-02-26 01:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Panagiotis L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that her feelings have done a 180. They likely haven't changed at all. She may be afraid of getting into another serious relationship and getting her heart broken. If you really care for her, let her know that you will be there for her and how you truly feel. Then all you can do is wait. How long is up to you.
2007-02-26 01:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by scarbados 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ihave relationship somewhat similar. She lives with another guy and we have been involved for over a year now. I use to make all the effort and then said if she is really interested in me beyond sex, she would have to step up and show me. Well that was the key, I was willing to risk losing her, because I wanted more than sex....Its worked for me....I think you have to be clear about what you want from the relationship and think beyond the hormones. It anit easy
2007-02-26 01:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by The Other Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see what happen in time.... As for her doing a 180 on you --- it could be that maybe she scare of get involved once again with someone. but I would wait a while ....
2007-02-26 01:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact her. She doesn't want to keep in touch. It was only 4 months you dated. Your past relationships don't matter. Move on.
2007-02-26 01:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should give space for while than call her
2007-02-26 01:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋