Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

how do you get a long with somone who you wannted to go out with but somone got to her first. can i still stay friends with her? and i want to go out with her when shes done with the othere guy who is also my friend???? im lost!

2007-02-26 11:54:15 · 2 answers · asked by TheWeakLink 2 in Singles & Dating

last year i was best friends with this group of gurls that were really mean to everybody outside of their circle. to everybody else, it was the coolest clique to belong to, but it really took alot to stay, everybody played a role in talking about people and that drama. when i tried to be friend with some new people the turned on me, they talked about me, made rumors, tried to fight me, threatened me, everything. it lasted for like 2 or 3 months. this year it hasn't happened but everybody is still holding grudges and they take every chance they can get to talk about me or something i believe in karma and think i should leave it alone. because in a few months i wont have to deal with it as much, if any, but i still feel bad, i lost a lot of "good" friends from it and i dont know what to do.

2007-02-26 11:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I heard through the grapevine that my step daughter had a baby shower last month.
With her first child my mom gave her a shower and invited both sides of her family (her mom and dads)
She did invite her brothers wives, but she has left them out before and I think they said something to her.

2007-02-26 11:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by kel_sew 1 in Friends

This guy Andy broke up w/ me in Nov., and he turned into a jerk and started rumors about me, and talks trash about me now. For some reason, I can't get over him, cuz he was my 1st true love. Some days, he's nice and when he is nice, I sometimes try to get him to like me again. Well, in Jan. I got another bf, Peter, and I broke up with him cuz we didn't have a whole lot of chemistry and he was rude sometimes to other people. I also like this guy Thomas, who is Andy's best friend, but Thomas likes my best friend Allana, and also talks trash about me. Its always one guy after the other, and it seems nearly impossible for this thing to stop! People spread rumors about me and every guy I go out with! What should I do, cuz now, I'm losing my bff's who are going along with this crap!

2007-02-26 11:52:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not longer want to go out and meet people, so I prefer to meet them on Dating sites. However, it's unreal the games that are going on there too. I am helplessly frustrated to try to fnd someone decent. You meet someone, the chat began, the mail exchange, but soon these men want to talk about sex or want to see my breast or nudity on webcam. I really don't know what to do anymore, even thou I am an attractive woman, can't meet anyone, or keep anyone seriously interested. Do I maybe come accross to desperate? What should I do?

2007-02-26 11:52:13 · 2 answers · asked by Woman 2 in Singles & Dating

My man is in prison for two more years. He really wants me to write him a letter about sexual things that I would like to do to him or will do when he comes home. I am completely lost how to go about this as I have never done this before. I would really like to write one to make him happy but I have no clue as to where to start. I would really appreciate if someone could either give me an example or a website that would be able to help me on this. I know that this probably sounds really crazy but I guess I would want the same if I was stuck in jail without my mate. I would just really like for someone to help me with this. And I am sure Lucky will appreciate it also. Thank you for your input and help in this crazy situation. :)

2007-02-26 11:51:19 · 25 answers · asked by Luck's_Gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6.5years now and we want to settle down. My family like him but not for me(as hes a nice guy but i can do better for a life partner). They think im too good for him and i deserve someone who is a bit more focused and capable.

We both have fairly good,full-time permanent jobs( im an accountant and hes a chef). They keep telling to think before i go ahead and things that confuse me even more and upset me.

I have always been very close to my family and respect what they tell me...but im torn.

Have any of you been in this predicament before and what are your thoughts????

Any help will be appreciated!!!

2007-02-26 11:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by GenuineGemini 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

and theres a guy i like who, i kind of talked to but i would like to have a REAL Convo. with him. But... i always plan to but i just bail out. I'm a bit confident so its the shyness that prevents me that prevents me. Help?

2007-02-26 11:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Mizunushi 2 in Singles & Dating

If you really liked this boy, but you're not sure if he likes you, and you're too shy to let him know then what should you do?

2007-02-26 11:49:54 · 12 answers · asked by Harts 3 in Singles & Dating

If your girl cheated on you because she thought you were playing her out would you forgive her or never to talk to the b*$ch again after over 4 years of wonderful love making, real love just rocky times and 1 bad f*^k up that I mentioned. please be honest because I lOVE my now ex and want to know if I should wait for him because he kicked me out

2007-02-26 11:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by miami_love_305 2 in Singles & Dating

:(

2007-02-26 11:49:12 · 1 answers · asked by Kaybee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm friends with alot of guys i always thought that gave me an adventage but know that one of my guy friends likes me and never stopps flirting with me its kinnda awkward i tryed talking to my other friends for advice and all but nothing seems to work.

2007-02-26 11:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf iz asking me stuff about sex andd stuff and i dont like talkin aboout it what should i do

2007-02-26 11:48:02 · 2 answers · asked by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 in Singles & Dating

how realistic is it?

2007-02-26 11:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by Share Bear 1 in Friends

There's a boy that I see like everyday and we're pretty good friends. It's obvious that he likes me alot and everyone else can tell. He follows me everywhere and is like touchy-feelie, like hands on my shoulders and around my shoulder. I see him around alot and there's no way to really ignore him so I'm nervous he's going to ask me out soon. I would say no but I really don't want to hurt his feelings. I'm nice to hm and everything so I think he might think I like him too. The worst part is that his family can tell too. And they hint at it.

Help!!!

2007-02-26 11:47:20 · 26 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to get over my ex.
Ive cared about him for 2 years now, and we've been off and on. But last september we got commited and serious. He was my first love, my first SERIOUS boyfriend, and my first, sexually. Now it's over..and i need to get over him. Everyone tells me that i need to stop talking to him, but theres always a piece of me that wants us to be together again, and i miss him so much if i dont talk to him for a week. Its so freaking hard..he's screwed me over so much but im still in love with him and i can always forgive him. He goes from wanting to be with me and working things out to not, and wanting us to be friends. He tells me we're just friends and to talk to whoever i want, then gets pissed and says "Whatever, im wasting my time, bye" when i give my number to a guy. What should i do??? :[

2007-02-26 11:47:14 · 1 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:47:04 · 3 answers · asked by kristina j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 i consider myself goodlooking with nice body, but very hairy chest. Girls dont notice till i take my clothes off and most of them act kind of supriced in a bad way. when i ask if they like it most of them say yea its manly, furry ...... On the other hand if i shave my chest to me thats kind of gay if u r not a swimer bodybuilder....what procentage of the girls these days like hairy chest and what not. Girls, please help me out

2007-02-26 11:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by The Blade23 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who has been having a stressful time at work, is going through a major career change, looking for a new job as he's unhappy with his current one is upset with me. He explained to me that he is under a lot of stress and pressure and he said he might not be as available as normally. I said I will let him focus but I did not, I called him, I texted him, I cried and questioned him about his feelings and the relationship. At first he was patient but then he got upset with me 2 days ago as I told him that I dont feel special. He has two big interviews coming up near my city and he told me that we will meet then but this was prior to him getting upset with me for my neediness. I said I was sorry but he said that I always say that but nothing ever changes. He said it's really hard for him. I did not hear from him since yesterday. I said I will give him the time to concentrate but I worry so much that I upset him and pushed him away. I want to contact him but should I?

2007-02-26 11:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a daughter who's mother moved her to Texas and wants to come move with her sisters and I. What are my chances? I had my daughter most of the time here in California enrolled in school with my kids, I took her to the doctors, and she played sports with my children. We never had a court order. Now my X got married and moved her out of state for about 3 years. My daughter calls me depressed and wants to come home, but her mom can be really difficult and don't know if I should even put her threw a custody fight if my chances are not to good. My daughter is 13 now. Please help!

2007-02-26 11:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so my sister is getting married in July and I have been asked to be the maid of honor. I'm very excited! I also am married. Yeah I know being jealous in any relationship is never a good thing, but both my husband and I are on the jealous side. As most weddings go, the bridesmaid's walk down in arm with the groomsmen... and that is how my sister's wedding is going to be...however, the man I will be walking with is nearly 30 years older than me, and is also married. Though, my husband still is having a problem with this...to the point that he doesn't even want to go. The way he sees it is that I am buying a fancy dress to walk in arm with another man. It would mean alot to me to have him there too... But I feel now that if he goes he's going to ruin it all by being upset about it, and then it's going to make me in a bad mood... but if I don't go, then I'd be missing out on my sister's wedding... what should I do?!

2007-02-26 11:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6.5years now and we want to settle down. My family like him but not for me(as hes a nice guy but i can do better for a life partner). They think im too good for him and i deserve someone who is a bit more focused and capable.

We both have fairly good,full-time permanent jobs( im an accountant and hes a chef). They keep telling to think before i go ahead and things that confuse me even more and upset me.

I have always been very close to my family and respect what they tell me...but im torn.

Have any of you been in this predicament before and what are your thoughts????

Any help will be appreciated!!!
Thank You!!

2007-02-26 11:45:02 · 8 answers · asked by GenuineGemini 4 in Singles & Dating

My older brother is 22 and I'm 18, I allow him to sleep with me. I usualy sleep on his chest, and he wraps his arms around me. But since the day I was born, I've been so happy around him. I just want answers to this question I keep asking myself.

2007-02-26 11:44:52 · 30 answers · asked by yugiismyname18 1 in Family

is it right for me to divorce my husband he stay out all nite,cheats lies on drug i've really tryed to love him and help him.i love him still what do i do

2007-02-26 11:44:47 · 6 answers · asked by msmonalisaj@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a huge crush on my friend's mom for long time now. every time i see her i just want to rip her cloth off and make sweet sweet love to her. i dont know if i could suppress this urge any longer. what should i do help!

2007-02-26 11:44:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Live In A Small Town In North Carolina And All There Is For Teens Is A Small Mall And The Movies Which Is $8 A Person.So Let See Here I Have Little Cash But My Boy Wants To Go Out This Weekend With Me, Him, His Bro, And My Best Friend ()Who Are Also Dating) I Dont Know What To Say He Offered To Pay For Me But That Feels Weird For Me I Want To Pay For At Least Something But I Got Little Money Any Date Ideas That Wont Cost That Much??

2007-02-26 11:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by Tes 1 in Singles & Dating

I told this girl I had a crush on her. She was pretty shocked because I'm just so good at hiding the way I feel.

But she said no, and after that, things got real awkward between us. And now I've just heard that she's told all her friends about me, and now they all laugh everytime they see me!

She never answers my calls and the other night I saw her with another guy!! If she likes me, she's got a funny way of showing it.

2007-02-26 11:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by coolman9999uk 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have ever cheated are thought about cheating, did you ever concider your husbands feeling. I mean is/was he still in love with you? Willing to do anything & what ever for the sake of the marrige. What part if any did his feelings play in you coming to the decision, the choice to cheat?

2007-02-26 11:42:52 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 11:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating