If you have ever cheated are thought about cheating, did you ever concider your husbands feeling. I mean is/was he still in love with you? Willing to do anything & what ever for the sake of the marrige. What part if any did his feelings play in you coming to the decision, the choice to cheat?
2007-02-26 11:42:52 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless this is something normal for both of you Do not cheat.
There are most likely things that you dislike in your couple that makes you feel this way.
You could talk to your husband about it.
There are other good options... cheating breaks lives and hearts.
Good luck. Make the right decision.
2007-02-26 11:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did cheat on my ex husband and he never cheated on me.My situation was very complicated I was just out of a bad marriage got married in my teens to an abusive man who was too old for me.I met my ex and he was nice but I wasn't attracted to him but I talked myself into going out with him because I couldn't go back home to my parents I was on my own and only 17.I got pregnant two weeks into the relationship and I did not love him but thought I was doing what was best for my child because I come from a broken home and didn't want my child to ever feel the pain that I felt.So I married him after the baby was born.Three years after the marriage I cheated because our sex life was terrible and I was so discusted by his appearance.Everything he did revolved around food and it was so discusting to watch him eat.I was a 120 lb. very attractive person who worked out six days a week and was cut up.Hell someone came along and payed attention to me and I was only 22 and jumped at the opportunity to have some fun.So thats it sorry its so long but everyone has to keep in mind people don't always cheat because they are bad people it just happens for a reason doesn't ,mean its right but there it is.I am married to a wonderful man who I would never think about cheating on because he is my soulmate and I am so in love with him.So that blows once a cheater always a cheater out of the water.oh and he was about 270 pounds of fat ***.
2007-02-26 21:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I shared a couple kisses with a co-worker, my husband feelings were the last thing on my mind. I was more concerned about this guy's wife feelings and children. My marriage is almost over, we haven't had sex in over 14 months so when this co-worker and me kissed (well we did a bit more than that, if you know what I mean...) I really did not care about my hubby's feelings and it wasn't planned neither, it just happen after a business dinner.
Anyway I don't consider myself a "cheater" because I don't have a relationship with my husband, the only thing that ties him to me is a piece of paper.
2007-02-26 20:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and would never cheat. I don't understand how anyone (man or woman) could live with themselves after cheating. I feel marriage vows are sacred and don't know why so many people say them without meaning. I love my husband with all my heart and I know how crushed he would be, as would I if he cheated.
2007-02-26 20:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to come to terms with some reality here friend... Your feelings are *irrelevant*, it doesn't matter if you love a woman so much you'd lay your life down for her; If she's going to cheat on you or betray you then she does not CARE whether you love her, hate her, worship her or anything else. She does... not... care...
Women are capable of being more purely cruel and heartless than any man ever thought about being, don't forget it. A good woman is more precious than anything in life but don't expect to ever find one, there definitely aren't many around.
2007-02-26 19:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am married and I would never consider cheating on my husband. Cheating is just wrong, if you want to cheat on your spouse then get a divorce because cheating will lead to a divorce anyway.
2007-02-26 19:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun no all women are all the same. Some are self centered, needless to think what you may feel. I believe its wrong i mean u don't want the man ...u shoulda left him before u started the b.s. .But anyway young man keep ya head up. Find another one especially if u caught her cheating....because once a cheater always a cheater.....well then again it depends because she may change.....if she KNOW what she did was wrong.
2007-02-26 19:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did and i asked him over & over to please set time aside for us and he didn't only when he wanted some so one day (I REGRET this badly) I did cheat and planned to tell him but didn't know how then 3 weeks later he found out and then he left me he says there are no possibilities to fix what happened even though he still loves me. I wish I could change things but can't I begged for forgiveness but he said that will never happen. I thought he was cheating on me and even though I never cheated before I felt very deceived unfortunately according to him I was wrong. either way He ignored my pleas before I ****** up (3 months of begging for change and time).
2007-02-26 20:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by miami_love_305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly why I would not...I made a promise and will keep my word. Plus I don't want to ruin my children's lives. Cheating is so selfish.
2007-02-26 20:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone cheats it is a selfish act that think of only thyself but i am not a cheater this is just the way i see it
2007-02-26 20:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋