Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I like her... in fact i fell deeply in love with her. I had expressed to her and she is not ready for any relationship currently. she had broken from a relationship 8mth back.

I actually not ready for any relationship too as i got too much to focus in life at the meantime.

The worst thing that happened.. I keep thinking of her every moment, worried about her and care for her. Every morning i got to wake her up to work.

This is torturing and i wonder how can i get out of feeling this way. Should i continue loving her, wait, suffer and persist on her or totally remove her from my mind?

2007-02-26 12:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell the Truth !

2007-02-26 12:31:04 · 17 answers · asked by Snow White 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy on myspace. we have been talking for about 3 weeks. the other day i posted a bulletin about kissing, he told me that he would love to kiss me and was wondering if cowgirls kiss differently. i told him i would love to kiss him too. we have plans to meet when he moves back to town. the other day he called me babe.

im wondering if he does like me or not. he hasnt added me to his top friends list even though he is on mine. he also has lots of other girls on his top friends list, including one it the number 1 spot. but then again i have a guy in my number 1 spot too. please help me out.

one more thing, we arent just some teens, we are well into our 20's

2007-02-26 12:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 12:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see them as just brainless property that should not be allowed to go to college or highschool and should not be allowed to vote. Their place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant. I wish there was a law saying guys are allowed to hit their wives to keep them in line. The rule of thumb phrase came from that. It was said that you could hit your wife as long as it was not wider than your thumb. I feel like laughing in the face of woman who thinks she is ever going to go out, her place is at home. Who does she think she is thinking she is going to go to the mall. I'll keep her looking like a bum and she is certainly never getting a new shoes, what a joke. It's too bad feminisim exists, females are worthless property and should be treated like the second class citizens they are. I am trying to not feel this way though. I appreciate any advice you can post to help me and others to no longer feel like this.

2007-02-26 12:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend but we are spending sometime not seeing eachother just talking. He is busy with his friends and school and work. I take care of 5 kids(not mine) and don't really have many friends besides him. How can I find a way to feel less alone while he is sorting out his own life?

2007-02-26 12:28:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I lent my friend $60 in December and when I recently asked her for it, she told me she paid it back to me but can't remember when. I am 95% sure she hasn't paid it back!
The thing is, I trust her and she's not the kind of person to lie.
If it was $10 I wouldn't mind but it's a large amount and I feel really angry.
What are some non confrotational ways to find out if she's lying?!
Has anyone else ever had a similar situation?

2007-02-26 12:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Friends

SHe is always mad...but not at me or anyone else...just mad...she tells ppl that she isnt going to talk alot or at all...but then she is fine when i see her in school...she is 13

2007-02-26 12:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why are men so caught up on wanting the perfect body?? I'll admit iam full figured but still very attractive...yet most men will not ask me out because they want a thin woman.Why can't you see past the weight issue and see what a amazing woman i am? Only honest answers please!

2007-02-26 12:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

She Look Yummy

2007-02-26 12:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by The Cheeseburger 1 in Singles & Dating

well recently i found out a girl i like likes me back. i was planning on asking her out but my feelings for my ex were still there and she still has feelings for me too. me and my ex haven't been friends for two years but we used to be best friends. i just hate how this feels. everything felt like it was going perfect for me then my feelings for my ex got in the way and i've feeling kinda depressed lately but don't know why. should i just go out with the new girl or go back to my ex?everything feels so right when i'm around that new girl. i'm just so confused

2007-02-26 12:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

he gets so mad at me when i answer the questions on here,male or female,i dont think he should be looking at them at all if he cant handle it! what should i do?

2007-02-26 12:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by kat_luvr2003 6 in Singles & Dating

I am a handsome guy and i attend college but I have been having trouble trying to have relationships. Everytime I have tried to get serious with a girl they talk about how they still got feelings for they ex-boyfriend that they had for a few days in high school. Where am I messing up?

2007-02-26 12:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by funk4lfe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and his 26.. We've been known for about a week. And we are meeting up again tomorrow.
I really like him a lot. I want him to have good impression of me. He's a type of guy who doesn't like dumb movies(cuz there is nothing to earn from it.)where as i love dumb movies(its fun anyways), he wants to hang out with people whom he can learn from. he's very calm(not quite the). So i am very worried. i am 7 years younger than him. What kinds of things he can learn from me?? What should i say to him?? How should i act? I don't want to look like 19 years.. i want to act like 23 or about his age. Any answer will be greatly appreciated.

ps. if you a such type of guy.. what do you expect from a girl on a date?

2007-02-26 12:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has like 6 years worth of live journal up. Is it wrong to read it? It pretty much covers the last two relationships he was in before me, plus. A lot of it's funny, reading about the relationships don't bother me (he's mine), and it is public. He's in USMC boot camp right now so I don't want to bring it up in a letter necessarily. How would you feel about it?

2007-02-26 12:24:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alice M. Ayres 2 in Singles & Dating

It' my desire to be a blessing to others......

2007-02-26 12:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ah Kiat 1 in Friends

ok so there is this girl i like who i dont know if she likes me should i say somethin to her or what else should i do??

2007-02-26 12:24:01 · 7 answers · asked by lucas m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have married for 10 years to a great guy. We have two children( 9 and 7), but lately all I have been thinking of is how life would be better would someone else, probably a girl. My husband is great provider but he does treat our family as an inconveince, he only makes time for us when it is good for him and as for me, well daily insults are given, yes they are supposedly delivered as a joke but hurt . I have spoken to him about it but none thing has changed. Anyway i just needed advice from strangers. what does every one think, should I leave, am I possibly gay? AHH too confusing please help. Please only serious and helpful comments.

2007-02-26 12:23:54 · 30 answers · asked by gn78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to propose to my girlfriend but I want this to be an over the top mind blowing HUGE proposal. Cost is not an issue for this, does anyone have any ideas for me?

2007-02-26 12:23:48 · 27 answers · asked by Acton 1 in Weddings

..i dont know if it was on purpose, i think it was. but as he was walking from a distance and he could not take his eyes off me. he just stared at me for like 10 seconds and i stared at him to see if he would nudge or turn away but he didnt. then i just started to laugh and he laughed too and then went back to what he was doing. ive known him for a couple months now. i wouldnt say we are good friends though more like aquantances cuz we usually just say hi and bye to eachother and thats it. so what does this mean?

2007-02-26 12:23:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 12:23:37 · 17 answers · asked by simply_suductive89 1 in Singles & Dating

well he left me and my son about 7 mths ago for another women, hasn't bought my son nothing since he's been gone, not even a pack of diapers or gallon of milk, he wants to come back now but i'm not sure if i should, there is still alot of love and we have a son but i don't want the same bull **** again, i took the car, all the money and made us lose our home

2007-02-26 12:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Share Bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say 100 girls aged 18-25 (who are not married but have boyfriends) were approached by a good-looking guy who introduced himself and then offered them an oral pleasure experience - with no strings attached. When I say "oral pleasure" I mean oral performed on the girl - not the other way around.

Question is....out of 100 girls asked, how many would say "yes" to this offer?

2007-02-26 12:23:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was living with his sister and her new boyfriend.the 14 yr old says it was her uncle that did it,she is now 6 months pregnant.he has just been caught,how would police find out if he is guilty.CPS came 2 house did investigation but should they have made new boyfriend leave home? and maybe test him because the family suspects him also because he is suspicious.would they get dna from uncle,the baby and 14 yr old to determine who did it?the mother is making her daughter go thru adoption since it was to late for a abortion but she doesnt want to press charges on her brother & send him 2 prison for fear of embarrasment and shame in the family and community.she didnt even want the police involed.my girlfriend called CPS after a week had passed and they got police in it.maybe CPS will press charges.he cant go unpunished.is she crazy or what?or maybe she thinks deep down it could be her new boyfriend.hhhmmmm???thats why she wasnt so eager 2 get police involved.....hhhmmm????

2007-02-26 12:22:51 · 2 answers · asked by ramonmade2004 1 in Family

hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot

2007-02-26 12:21:45 · 40 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Singles & Dating

i have done webcam chats and stuff, mabes its ok, i dont really have much friends in my town, in my dreams a REAL girlfriend...what do u think?

2007-02-26 12:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I like and I can sense she likes me because we talk on instant messenger alot, we text one another alot. If we dont meet up she gets upset that she didnt get a chance to see me. Recently I asked her to be my date to my formal that I have, she said yes. Me and her decided like a long time ago that we didnt want a relationship with anyone at all at that time. And now I feel that things are changing that I have strong feelings about her bc I like her more than a friend. Whenever something is wrong or if she needed help she calls me. Does she like me a lot? Would she be my girlfriend? How can i find out, what can i do or say? Thanks

2007-02-26 12:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't care if we talk or not and he gets pissy that he has to send me one lousy email
he became the boss and he's acting like he has no time for me or something

2007-02-26 12:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by tουΖουrs 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been the nice guy for the last 2-3 years moreso, though everyone liked me in middle/beginning of highschool. Mostly cause I would try and get into fights and give alot of people the could shoulder, even "friends". Last 3 years is when I learned to open up to people and be the nice guy. Except
1. it doesnt show enough backbone for anyone to be impressed by me.
2. only girls that like me either have crush on me, submissive, or innocent nerdy girls.

All the girls I want now seem to be into either cool guys, jerks, and such. Not the sweet guy that likes to be nice to them and whatnot. One girl I know, would tell me anything or whatnot, even stuff she didnt tell her current boyfriend. She would give me hugs, invite me to parties, friends with me, whatever. But when I asked her out it's like 'no I'm the friend"

Frick that! I'm tired of everyone giving me the "nice guy finishes last" attitude. What should I do to change?

2007-02-26 12:19:52 · 3 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I have this really really hot Brazilian friend, and his birthday is early March. I don't know what to get him. HELP @_@

2007-02-26 12:19:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating