well recently i found out a girl i like likes me back. i was planning on asking her out but my feelings for my ex were still there and she still has feelings for me too. me and my ex haven't been friends for two years but we used to be best friends. i just hate how this feels. everything felt like it was going perfect for me then my feelings for my ex got in the way and i've feeling kinda depressed lately but don't know why. should i just go out with the new girl or go back to my ex?everything feels so right when i'm around that new girl. i'm just so confused
2007-02-26 12:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would go for the new girl you and your ex are not together for a reason so i would try domething new
2007-02-26 12:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by stars52006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings never die! You never stop liking someone! and since you and your ex were best friends its even harder. but sometimes, u have to throw the past aside and look towards the future! sure the feeling s will always be there between u and ur ex but if u got bck together this break-up may be a wall between u two! go start over with a fresh future, a broken realationship usually stays broken cuz its too hard to fix.
2007-02-26 20:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sanjjy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you are completely over your ex before you even think about dating this new girl. It is not fair to her if you have another girl on your mind. All I can say to help you get over your ex is to remember why you broke up in the first place. If you were very good friends before, it must have been something serious that has diminished over time. I hope you can figure this out without hurting any of the girls. Good luck. Ciao!
2007-02-26 20:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still having feelings for your ex, try it again. You never know, it may work out. If it doesn't, oh well. You'll find another. But if you just want to go out with the other girl because she likes you, than you're making the wrong choice. It's up to you though, what feelings are stronger. Good luck!
2007-02-26 20:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by lydia033 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you still have feelings for x and need to search your heart a little more. You don't want to hurt this new girl in any way. But if you say you feel better around new girl " feels right" then maybe it's a sign your getting over your x. After 2 years it soundslike you need to move on as long as you still havent been seeing your x and talking all the time if you havent then you need to move on.
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 20:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Redrlz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure that things are completly over with between you and your ex because if things start getting good between you and the new girl and your ex comes back then there will be trouble. Stay away from both girls until you are sure.
2007-02-26 20:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with the new girl yet. Wait until you're over your ex. If you aren't patient and ask her out, you'll be hurting her once she know you still have feelings for your ex. Put yourself in her position. I think you just need to rethink things! =)
2007-02-26 20:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the new girl, because if things didn't work out between your ex the first time, what makes you think its gonna work out now?
2007-02-26 20:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would go for the new girl
i mean old problems will just come back again its best to just try and move on
2007-02-26 20:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO FIRST GET OVER YOUR EX OR ELSE YOUR GONNA MAKE THE GIRL THAT LIKES YOU LIFE A LIVING HELL CUZ THAT SUCKS WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND STILL LIKES HIS EX
2007-02-26 20:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Gaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋