well he left me and my son about 7 mths ago for another women, hasn't bought my son nothing since he's been gone, not even a pack of diapers or gallon of milk, he wants to come back now but i'm not sure if i should, there is still alot of love and we have a son but i don't want the same bull **** again, i took the car, all the money and made us lose our home
2007-02-26 12:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Share Bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's discovered the grass isn't always greener... don't take him back - he'll just do it again next time someone catches his eye because you've let him get away with it once. You and your son are better off, find someone who will treat you right.
Good luck
2007-02-26 12:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? What are the chances of him being what you want him to be? Don't take him back thinking that you can change him, you can't. He will walk out on you again, would you like to be in the same boat ten years from now? Think about your future, you have a child to think of now.
2007-02-26 12:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't unless he is really ready to commit as in marriage. If he runs from that then he is not sincere and just needs you until he finds someone else.If your son is his then take him to court and have him be a responsible father. Your child doesn't need to have this boyfriend playing house he needs a real father and you need a real and secure home for both of yous.
2007-02-26 12:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him wait and be loyal to you for at least six months before you even consider letting him back in your lives. He could just be looking for a place to live until the next hottie comes along.
2007-02-26 13:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to go back where he came from. If he wants to see his son then thats great but do not take him back because he WILL do it again. And you dont need that.
2007-02-26 12:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by chantakg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to be as civil as you can with him because of the child, but by no means do you have to take him back. You shouldn't even consider it.
2007-02-26 12:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Stumped 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't for the life of me even understand why you are even considering getting back with this idiot; it's not love my dear......it will be the same bulls#%t
2007-02-26 13:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please dont even considerate it your son is growing older and is very aware now of what id going on! Believe me he knows when his momma is sad don't take him back for your son's sake he and yourself deserve a loving man not a coward.
2007-02-26 12:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget about him and leave him be, do not let him back in
if you let him back in then how long are you going to wait before he leaves you again for another woman
2007-02-26 12:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about getting married for starters?
2007-02-26 12:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋