I am 19 and his 26.. We've been known for about a week. And we are meeting up again tomorrow.
I really like him a lot. I want him to have good impression of me. He's a type of guy who doesn't like dumb movies(cuz there is nothing to earn from it.)where as i love dumb movies(its fun anyways), he wants to hang out with people whom he can learn from. he's very calm(not quite the). So i am very worried. i am 7 years younger than him. What kinds of things he can learn from me?? What should i say to him?? How should i act? I don't want to look like 19 years.. i want to act like 23 or about his age. Any answer will be greatly appreciated.
ps. if you a such type of guy.. what do you expect from a girl on a date?
2007-02-26 12:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have answered your own question. You two don't have enough in common. I am older than both of you and I like dumb movies. You two simply don't have enough in common. No problem, that's the whole purpose of dating, not having you or the guy jump through hoops to make things "work." But to find out if your man is compatible and good husband-father material.
In another words, quit dating him after tomorrow night. Find Mr Right, not Mr. Demanding, which he will be if you have to jump through hoops to please him.
Of course you could just provide him all the sex he wants, that might make him keep you, but it isn't the way to do things.
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2007-02-26 12:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I've found is guys react to confidence, and humour.
Take a bunch of Hershey Kisses in your coat pocket (not jeans, they'll melt!!), at a dull moment, put one in your hand, and calmly ask him if he would like a kiss. He'll probably look at you really strangely because he won't expect a girl to be so forward. So, pull your hand out of your pocket show him the candy and be like "Well, do you?" Then you can both laugh, and maybe that will break the ice a little. You get to say "you should have seen your face!"
Good luck!
2007-02-26 12:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The old adage 'be yourself', still is the best advice.
Don't worry about trying to impress him. Relax and enjoy his company. If he is as smart as you think he is, he will see that you like being with him and that is what will matter most.
What should he expect on a first date?
The women I was most taken by on a first date were the ones who could make me feel great with a look, a smile and a gentle touch.
If he is all you think he is, don't be afraid to let him know how much you enjoyed the first date. ....
If it is meant to be ... you will see him again.
2007-02-26 12:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Goodache 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself..... you shouldn't change who you are for any guy. Anyways he might be too old for you. There's some one out there for everyone, if he's that one person then he'll like you for you. But if you want to impress him use big words around him and maybe dress a little older. Just don't change yourself too much.
2007-02-26 12:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I think you should be yourself. You don't want to be in a relationship where you have to pretend to be someone your not. If he likes who you are, then great, but if he's not interested, then just let it go. Your young, there will be plenty of guys along the way that like You, for who you are. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 12:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not trying to be mean, but based on your description of him coupled with the way you write, I don't think you are going to impress him. Your best chance is something visual like short skirts or low cut blouses.
2007-02-26 12:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
7 years difference between my wife and I...4th anniversary in 3 days. Hasn't always been easy, but it's certainly worth it!!! Age difference can cause differences in interests, hobbies, taste, and so on, but attraction and connection are impervious to it. You're only a week in, so I'd recommend being yourself, taking it slow, and being open to some new trains of thought (as I hope that he is also).
2007-02-26 13:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by speersfamiley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there are a million ways to act like someone your not. But you should be yourself. A relationship wont last if your not yourself. And you never know he might like a fun loving person because its not something he's used to.
2007-02-26 12:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by chantakg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'M A GUY and my girlfriendis same to you.earlier 8 years than me..!!first time we meet i feel i was fell in love with him but i cannot say it because i know i will din't get...but one day when we were out for a lunch,suddenly she express her feeling to me and i very happy..your situation is same to me.maybe that guy think same what i'm thinking..so,it's better you start to express that...i hope you success..from me..best of luck..!!!
2007-02-26 12:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by asano 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, if he isn't attracted to that you wouldn't be happy with him anyway. You need to find someone who loves you for who you are. Guys don't like fake girls anyway. He'll be able to tell if you are acting in a way that you aren't really like.
Again, just be yourself.
2007-02-26 12:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by FakeFrowns 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋