My boyfriend has like 6 years worth of live journal up. Is it wrong to read it? It pretty much covers the last two relationships he was in before me, plus. A lot of it's funny, reading about the relationships don't bother me (he's mine), and it is public. He's in USMC boot camp right now so I don't want to bring it up in a letter necessarily. How would you feel about it?
2007-02-26 12:24:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alice M. Ayres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would feel slightly weird if the person I was dating read my blog containing stories of past relationships, but it's not necessarily a terrible thing for you to have done. I can understand your curiousity and your boyfriend should be aware that the internet is not exactly a very private place.
However, I would advise that you stop reading his livejournal for now and wait until you can see him in person to let it drop that you stumbled across his lj and read it. Then, if he's upset, you tell him that you realized what you were doing was not the best thing to have done, but that you stopped it right away. If he's not upset, then you can have a laugh together; no harm done!
2007-02-26 12:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Blarepen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 00:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his journal is posted publiclly, read it. It's not invading his privacy when he posted it SO THAT people CAN read it. It may give you better insight into what he thinks or how he feels about different things. I have a public diary too and I secured it so that other members can read it.
I would read it and tell him after the fact that you read it. I don't think he would be upset.
2007-02-26 12:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once they hit boot camp they change and become a totally different person. It is his private journal you should not read it. He will be very upset with you.
2007-02-26 12:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well youll probably get mad about something and be mad at him about it, but it was 6 years ago, he probably dosnt even REMEMBER it
a funny saying about this is, if a guy says something, and its been 30 days, it is now invalid to use in argument
i always get mad when people bring up stuff that happened in the past, i changed since then and i dont want to remember it
2007-02-26 12:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how it would be wrong to read if he posted it there for everyone to see.....I say read it, but keep in mind you may see things you either don't like or might look too deep into....
2007-02-26 12:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's perfectly alright. He put it up. Is there something on their forbidding you to read it? No, probably not. Just don't hold things against him from it is all. Have a good read!
2007-02-26 12:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's a public journal, that's cool. Just perpared that you may find something you don't like it. I know you say it doesn't bother you, but if you find something that does , you can not get mad at him for it.
2007-02-26 12:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he put it up on the internet for everyone to read then there is nothing wrong with you reading it.
2007-02-26 12:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should do that. it's an invasion of privacy. and people are completely different after 6 years so you're just gonna get upset over something that happened a long time ago...that you shouldn't even know about.
2007-02-26 12:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋