How can I stop thinking of woman as nothing more than property of men?

Question

I see them as just brainless property that should not be allowed to go to college or highschool and should not be allowed to vote. Their place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant. I wish there was a law saying guys are allowed to hit their wives to keep them in line. The rule of thumb phrase came from that. It was said that you could hit your wife as long as it was not wider than your thumb. I feel like laughing in the face of woman who thinks she is ever going to go out, her place is at home. Who does she think she is thinking she is going to go to the mall. I'll keep her looking like a bum and she is certainly never getting a new shoes, what a joke. It's too bad feminisim exists, females are worthless property and should be treated like the second class citizens they are. I am trying to not feel this way though. I appreciate any advice you can post to help me and others to no longer feel like this.

Answer 1

Why write all that out? Why not just say "Hi, I'm gay"?

Answer 2

Listen, I respect your answer about women. The first thing I'm going to say is, stated in the Bible it says, "all men are created equal". So ur probably thinking, 'it says absolutly nothing about women being equal as well' I understand why you feel the way you do. However, I will give you a helpfull piece of advise, try talking to women and get to know them. The better thing to do is to try to date some. I don't recomend dating women who will go nowhere in life (its sad, but true) but date those who are individualists, who stand out, and can have good strong debates with you. I could go on and on. If this is not enough then email me at [e-mail] I hope I was a little helpful! Good luck ^_^

Answer 3

I see more and more places that would rather hire women then a men. Not just to give us a chance but because we work hard at making a place for ourselves. It's harder for us sometimes just for fact that we are women because of men who think the way as mentioned above.
We are people as well not second class citizens because we don't have penis's, we do things just as good if not better then men just for the fact that we have to prove ourselves. Time and time again.
The feminist movement was the best thing that could have happened to women, it gave us an equal voice (which I will admit is not always heard because of people like you).

My suggestion to you is that you seek therapy to get over your high horse chauvinistic ways.

Answer 4

first of all, you need to accept that we are in the 21st century & women DO go to malls and colleges and everything - we even have one who is a potential president - and there have been SO many accomplishments women have made - by the way, it's probably harder for women to succeed especially since there are opinions like your out there, so to succeed despite all the objections is a big deal.

secondly, you need to meet smart women. i think with your attitute you just avoid interaction w/ women. just try talking to some and you'll realize that we think & have opinions & are very smart, capable people. and don't base your opinion on just a few - there are bad apples in every lot.

finally, the fact that there ARE women giving you suggestions about your question (instead of hurling abuses about your view) should really tell you that we are to be respected.

Answer 5

Mind you, your advice is coming from a woman.
But I am a counselor. So listen closely. Two things: This cry out on your part is either to spark attention or you have deep seeded issues that stem from your childhood. I have no info on you or your upbringing. But YOUR signifigance as a man does not come from your ability to belittle, dominate or control the opposite sex. I believe you recognize this.

And thank God for strong women, because you would probably be in prison right now if it weren't for the law --my guess is, you don't want to be there either. But based on your words...you are in pain and you have been hurt deeply. This wrong thinking has been planted in your heart and in your head. OK. You can overcome it. Yes, you can. Ask the Lord to remove this "hate" because that is what is. It is redirected anger steming from a painful source elsewhere. Ask yourself hon, is your hate for women greater than the love you have for yourself? Becasue you can be set free from this line of thinking.

Somewhere in your life, think back, where did this start, when and why? Ask yourself and THAT is the ROOT. Perhaps a woman was in a position of authority in your life or you felt abandanded or betrayed or perhaps even abused. There are many forms of abuse, not all abuse is physical. Some are emotional as well. You can be whole and complete without having to demean women. Women can be nurturing to you and loving to you and have a healthy place in your life, but their actions--- loving or not does not have any bearing on your identity. If you truly wish to change this way of thinking, then allow yourself to love yourself, right where you are. Seek the Lord with all your heart because he transforms hearts and renews minds. This line of thinking will hurt you, harm you, and cause you much emptiness. You MUST forgive, reach back, think back, pinpoint WHY you feel this way. Then reach for God and his word; the bible. Ask God to heal you and then REJOICE in your freedom from this bondage. YOU will love the right way sweetheart and your pain WILL stop. You are not alone. I know from experience there are others that share your same views and they are miserable too. Because deep-down all they want is love and noone will give it to them in the WAY they feel they need it. NOONE can fill that void, you must GIVE love in order to receive it.

I promise you. God is the healer of all. Seek a male pastor to speak to and although I am a total stranger..I speak blessings over your life and I ask God that he bring you the most incrediable love story there ever was...and his name is Jesus.

Answer 6

I think you need to be taken out and beaten by every woman who finds this offensive. You need serious help bud. Do you feel this way about the woman who gave you life. Is she a worthless piece of crap. Women deserve every bit of what that got today and more because we have to put up with so called men like you. You really disgust me!

Answer 7

wow glad i don't know you! you could try to befriend a woman, and get to know her. that may help in you seeing us as more than property. you definately need to change the attitude though, or you probably won't be able to get one as a friend. How did you come about to hate women? do you hate your mother? i wonder why you think we are so diffrent from you. maybe go to a psycologist and explore the reasoning behind your mind frame. good luck and i hope you can change!

Answer 8

look u need phsyciatrical help.serious no lue any guy who feels this way is juss sick in the brain.U need to get god in ur life.NOW. becus god made women and men equal.I dont think u should think of women like that.Your a disgrace because women are most of the time smarter and more mature then guys.But we dont judge u.Wake up its the 21st century and were not on MARS were on EARTH.plz change how u think and maybe wut would help is brooklane.which is a mental hospital.

Answer 9

Jump off a building?

Answer 10

just put yourself in our position. think of yourself as property. most women are smarted then guys and we are not a joke.