Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I dont want to sound stuck up or anything, but im fairly attractive, I have long shiny brunette hair, creamy skin, deep chocolate brown eyes, and a pretty nice body, im a little on the thin side. Every freind I have ever had, and all of my reletives are constantly telling me how beautiful I am and just how wonderful I am to be around. BUT guys never like me! EVER!!! The ones who do, are worthless losers who are imature and deffinetly not my style. Whats the deal? If Im so gorgous and I have a wonderful personality then why doesnt anyone like me? Im starting to think that they are all lying or something, ive had this problem for like 7 years, ever since I started liking guys! I wont to be liked too! Ive only had 1 boyfreind, and Ive never been kissed, but all of my mean and less nice and just horrible freinds have had like a thousand boyfreinds and been kissed thousands of times? I dont get it? HELP!!!

2007-02-26 11:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity about a year ago and i want to tell my mom because its been bothering me. I'm only 13 and my mom lost her's when she was 15. I want to tell her but don't know how. She will be so mad at me for it but i just need to get it off my chest. Someone please...what should i do.

2007-02-26 11:22:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been divorced for about 8 years and the judge makes my ex pay only $25 a month for child support since he didnt have a job when we divorced. Whenever he gets a new job I inform child support enforcement so they will raise the amount he has to pay. Whenever he finds out they are going to raise it, he quits his job so he stays at $25 a month because he has no income. This has been going on for 8 years. I have taken it to court and the judge never does anything. We've hired lawyers and still nothing changes. What can I do to get him to pay up. This is ridiculous.

2007-02-26 11:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boy friend didn't get me any thing on valintines day which is also my b-day and on top of that our first year anaversery (we met at a valintines day party what should i do? break up with him and leave him but i love him. and i never felt this way about anyone before

2007-02-26 11:21:25 · 3 answers · asked by love me! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 & almost 7 mos ago my mom left my 14 yr old sis & my stepdad& me to take care of her sick dad. But he isnt gettin any better & my aunts& grandma are the ones takin care of my grandpa & my mom stays at a guy friends house all the time. she wasnt ever a good mom( she was mentally abusive I i would always have to walk on eggshells around her to keep her from flippin out on me.) I am a 4.0 student & do excellent in school but ever since my mom left i have had to take over all the responsibilities of my mom. I cook, clean the house, do the laundry b/c my stepdad and sister wont do it. Its not the fact that i have to do it, its just so stressful keeping up with home responibilities &school ones. my mom has me, my 22 yr old sis, & my lil sis. She has never been there for us like most parents are. i know she smokes pot & she has been messing around w/ the friend she is staying w/ but my stepdad seems oblivious to it & doesn't want to start drama.Wat to do? i cant take much more of it!

2007-02-26 11:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by edtkkfif 2 in Family

O.K. a boy in my class, he's my friend, but sometimes he acts like a better "FRIEND'' than the other girls, and he's always helping me, we're in 5th grade,so, boys don't usually act so nice, once he actually said I looked nice, does he like me?

2007-02-26 11:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by wakeupangel 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my ex about 4 months ago because he was attracted to another girl... at first we were "friends" but we kept arguing about things between us, then i told him that we probably can't be friends... about a month ago, he says hi to me on msn, i didn't answer him and just logged off... since then, no more contact... i don't think we can be friends because of the type of person he is and because he wouldn't admit that that other girl caused our break up... what do u think he wanted and what do u think of my reaction?

2007-02-26 11:19:34 · 22 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

should i forgive mi friend who told ppl one of my darkest secrets it was a big deal and i dont think she knows how bad this hurts me when she does things like this. plus we have already started to drift away and i dont really no what to do shoould i forgive her again and try to work things out or do u think if i do forgive my heart will be smashed again. i really need help

2007-02-26 11:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by S t r a w b e r r y 1 in Friends

2007-02-26 11:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by mike g 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told by my father that my mom put my sister up for adoption in the year of 1984, in dention texas, if anyone has any information about her or can help me find her please contact me i've tried everything and i haven't gotten anywhere.
thank you

2007-02-26 11:17:18 · 3 answers · asked by fairygoddessmom369 1 in Family

2007-02-26 11:17:01 · 15 answers · asked by aisha c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:16:41 · 2 answers · asked by Elaine C 1 in Family

I need help... i am trying to ask a girl out, but she's, not dating, but she's hanging out with another guy and the guy's my best friend. What do I do?

2007-02-26 11:15:37 · 32 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

the judge went to school with the other grandmother..and we were never told they had full custody..

2007-02-26 11:15:25 · 4 answers · asked by leola m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i like my best friends ex bf which btw he broke up with her 3 TIMES! and he told me that he still had feelings for her. ( but she has a bf now) and i hang out with him a looot and we talk a bunch and flirtttt (hehe) but i dont want him to think that i only want to be friends.. also he THOUGHT or mebe thinks that im prude and im nooot and i really like him a loooot. but idk if he likes me.. how can i get him to like me and not my friend? i might be prettier than her but she has a better personality.. ish kinda.... what should i do to get him? i kinda just want to hook up w/ him and stuff and i know he likes hooking up he even told m friends that im wicked hot like a supermodelll! what should i dooo? help please! i hang out with him almost everyday and we talk online all the timeeee! HELP!! AHH I DONT KNOW WHATS UPP!

2007-02-26 11:14:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well lets see here. theres this guy who has likes me since the beginning of school [or so his friends say.] he had a couple of girlfriends, and i had a couple of boyfriends, and now we're both single and i think im starting to like him. the thing is, one of his friends [jeremy] is my friend too. he told me [when i asked his opinion] that this guy was only in these other relationships for the sex, and when they wouldnt give it to him he ended it. now see i know jeremy likes me too. the girls he went out with agreed that he was rather pushy when it came to sex, but im not sure if i should believe jeremy or what? i dont want to be in a relaionship ust for sex. but what is your opinion?

2007-02-26 11:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy... and long story short... and i fell for him... the issue is that I hate him because I hate what he's doing to me and toher girls.... but i love him because.... I love him... i cry every time I see his picture... thats how much I love him... please help... im so deep in this hole that i cant see light anymore... I love him...

and please dont respond saying im infatuated with him because its not his looks.... its his whole personality, and attitude, AND looks that im in love with...

2007-02-26 11:14:33 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I get one? What do they like? What things in personality, and physical appearance? What things will make more guys attracted to me? I'm turning 15, never had a boyfriend. I'm attractive and stuff though, I think it's something in the way I act. I'm kinda a dork, i.e. Anime, Pokemon games, Nintendork... Eheh...

2007-02-26 11:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by Iggy B 1 in Singles & Dating

He keeps on thinking that I am out having sex with people. He even thinks I am having sex with one of my friends who is a girl.

2007-02-26 11:13:50 · 2 answers · asked by Lawrence H 1 in Singles & Dating

i work on the marine base and i meet alot of marines on the base there's a few that i really like and they all keep lying about something they lie and say they are not married or have a girlfriend and they say they don't have kids when they do. one of the guys i've been talking to for almost a year i recently found out that he has kids..he said that he didn't......there was another one that said that he was'nt married and i found out that he's been married for 13 years and has three kids. they don't know that i know this information and it's really hurting me how do i stop this? i have' nt been close to them or slept with any of them. why do guys lie like this? how can i get guys to be honest with me? no rude comments please just advice

2007-02-26 11:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

i think i'm overreacting when i am near the guy i like..
yesterday, another guy called me a "brat".( i think he was kidding, but im not sure.)and the guy i like heard it. i was hurt a little, but looking back, i think it was because i was not acting like.... me. i'm more conservative usually, but yesterday.. i think i went too far with the teasing..
i feel so guilty and i'm afraid that the guy won't like me as much as i like him. what can i do? i see him only 3 times a week. :(

2007-02-26 11:12:38 · 6 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Singles & Dating

I dont like this person and i dont want to like him...he is popular if you had to put him in a group...he is cute but i like someone else that i belive likes me back...for some reason if our teacher is talking than i look over at him...and i dont kno why...what do you think...??

2007-02-26 11:12:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very cute crush. And I have liked him for a very long time now. Can I be able to love him. Plus he already has a girlfriend named Allie. And I've been chasing love or like and love isn't chasing back. Should I stop chasing love too? Please help!!!

2007-02-26 11:11:34 · 46 answers · asked by In_Love 1 in Singles & Dating

Me n my boyfriend always argure and stuff over stupid thangs, he always start hanging up on me,and i hate it i tell him all the time my friends always tell me to dump him but i tell them it aint that easy to dump a boy u love so much!!!! Also one night i called him n a female picked up his phone and was on that childish stuff u no like dont call my man i cursed him out bout that n hung up on him,so the next day he text me one my sceond phone the phone that i was acting like another female . and he text like wats wrong with your friend she's mad at me because a female picked up my phone,and i love yo friend tell her call me so i texted him back. then he was like im a good boyfriend,and he also said he was mad because now he think i think he cheating on me!1 well what type of boyfriend do u think i have!

2007-02-26 11:11:30 · 15 answers · asked by Sexi Azz 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, one of my best friends asked me out today and i told him i had to think about it... but i don't feel the same about him, he's my best friend!! i don't wanna ruin what we have. what do i tell him?!??

2007-02-26 11:10:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv been on a few of dates with this guy i really like him, but i cnt really tell if he likes me. we have a great time when were out and he is always asking me to come out with him. we hav'nt slept together yet but i really want to, when we kiss goodnite he's the one that always pulls away first i could kiss him for hours so why hasnt he tryed anyfing yet?

2007-02-26 11:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 14, and Ive been through a few boy friends but I've had to dump them all because all they wanted from me is sex. What is up with that why do boys act that way? I allways feel uncomfertable after they ask me that, so I have to break up with them and then I never talk to them again.
But what is a good age for me to loose my virginity and when is a good time, for any of that sexual stuff?
I know my friend has done it and I asked her about it she said the first time it will hurt but the next couple times it will feel awsome. But that doesnt really help me. I look around and every one is coupled up and I hear they do sexual things but I wonder to my self how did they know it is the right time, why did they choose that time, and how did they know each other was right for each other?
If you guys know anything let me know PLEASE!

2007-02-26 11:10:25 · 20 answers · asked by Fearless Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

do u like guys:
that have abs and do a lot of sports
that don't really hang out with a lot of people, but are really sweet
that r really popular, but u think u never have a chance with!
or...
any other... ( list them plz!!!!!!!!!)

2007-02-26 11:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Katie!(: 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:10:06 · 2 answers · asked by bubbles101 2 in Singles & Dating

today for example i was driving, and my mom said "why didnt u stop for that stop sign?" i said "i dont know" then she starting yelling at me and said "im never taking your driving again im gonna tell ur dad when u get home." So she calls my dad at work and tells him. When he gets home he yells at me. and said not to yell and your mom...but she only told him part of what happened i told her sry. its wierd cuz its as if she wants me 2 get introuble. cuz she got up the minute he walked through the door.
When shes around me if i say sry she says :okay"
Then when i get introuble and my dad is around she says "im sorry too"
Why does she do this? what can i do, everytime i try and explain it to her she gets mad and she stubborn 2.
Any suggestions??
Do all girls get in fights with there mom?

2007-02-26 11:10:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships