Theres this guy... and long story short... and i fell for him... the issue is that I hate him because I hate what he's doing to me and toher girls.... but i love him because.... I love him... i cry every time I see his picture... thats how much I love him... please help... im so deep in this hole that i cant see light anymore... I love him...
and please dont respond saying im infatuated with him because its not his looks.... its his whole personality, and attitude, AND looks that im in love with...
2007-02-26 11:14:33 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOOO ive been in the same boat before. It will pass, dont do anything stupid(no offense) just wait it out, you will eventually decide whether you really love him, or hate him
2007-02-26 11:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You say you love his whole personality and attitude.
But he's doing something to you that he's done to others as well. I'm sure there are men out there who are just as lovely who know how to treat people right.
My advice is to get out of the relationship. He may seem great but you can't allow yourself to be treated a way that is wrong. This could lead to abuse and many other problems.
Pray that God will give you guidance.
Seek advice from friends or family- people who know the both of you better then I do and ask seriously what they think.
2007-02-26 19:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl aint nothing wrong with u ur normal and in fact thats how we express our females for tha ones we love just take things slow ans in time u a c if u really want to be with this guy or not also i thank u should hang out with other guys and make new male friends because if u and ur man dont work out at least u can have friends to talk to and chill with
love is a hard feeling when ur tha only one thats giving tha love
talk to him and c what u guys can do to make ur time together and special\good luck and i hope i helped u and i know what u ur going thru cuz im tryna hold on to a relationship like urs but i relieze thats its about time that we move on
2007-02-26 19:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, it's like one of those, "so there's this guy and I love him" storys. There's no reason why you do, you just do. I'm going through this phase right now where I really like this guy, but it's the same way. I love him in one way but hate his living guts in another. My advice is to just throw little hints that you like him, eventuly he might come around and start being nicer little by little. Don't get me wrong I know you can't change a guy, but maybe, just maybe, you can come close.
2007-02-26 19:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with you then there should not be an issue of any other girls. Love does not hurt or make you cry. So if what he is doing is this bad you need to let go and move on.
2007-02-26 19:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds from your imput that he is the type of guy who is playin the field. Can't do anything, if this is where he is at. You can love him all you want, but for what purpose does it do you? Your apparently not getting it (love) back in return. If, you really love him, one of two things you can do, 1. tell him how you feel. 2. Move on if he isn't interested. In time things will work themselves out. Time heals all.
2007-02-26 19:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that got a broken heart...this guy was my everything...i talked about him all of the time...but the thing was that i hated him...he was mwan to every one exsept his friends...but i just couldnthelp but like him...i relized that the only reason i liked him was because i was trapped in his eyes...i changed his hole personality just so that i could like him...but he wasnt really the great guy i wanted him to be...and now i dont like him...so try to get into his real personality...and maybe you will find something...
2007-02-26 19:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me a few years ago hun... I was in love with someone ... but hated him at the same time... finally i just cut off everything, i threw away all his pictures and everything that reminded me of him... after a while it helped... its goign to take some time to just get over him it is better for you...
2007-02-26 19:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nonyo B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to love thsi boy who was so mean to me and i don't know why. And then when i told him he never told me how he felt but i still loved him and like you i cried well because i wanted hom so bad but then never could see myself with him eventually i got over it seeing as if maybe i wanted to be loved back more then i loved him. But you should tell him and maybe hell stop whatever hes doing to be with you. You never know
2007-02-26 19:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kneisha G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe if you express your feelings for this kid it will help. if he doesn't feel the same, it will hurt, but you will be able to get over the whole thing much faster and it won't hurt anymore
2007-02-26 19:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kristen V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋