I dont want to sound stuck up or anything, but im fairly attractive, I have long shiny brunette hair, creamy skin, deep chocolate brown eyes, and a pretty nice body, im a little on the thin side. Every freind I have ever had, and all of my reletives are constantly telling me how beautiful I am and just how wonderful I am to be around. BUT guys never like me! EVER!!! The ones who do, are worthless losers who are imature and deffinetly not my style. Whats the deal? If Im so gorgous and I have a wonderful personality then why doesnt anyone like me? Im starting to think that they are all lying or something, ive had this problem for like 7 years, ever since I started liking guys! I wont to be liked too! Ive only had 1 boyfreind, and Ive never been kissed, but all of my mean and less nice and just horrible freinds have had like a thousand boyfreinds and been kissed thousands of times? I dont get it? HELP!!!
2007-02-26 11:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably because a lot of the guys are intimidated by you and are afraid of being rejected....i was that way, i just had to start making the first moves. Once I did the guys were like "you like me? are you serious? i never thought i could have you!" Get brave and go for it! Good luck
2007-02-26 11:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweety, your still young!! And anyway those girls who get with a thousand guys are probably tarts and get with ugly guys. Trust me nothing is special about those girls. Guys probably dont approach you because there intimidated to approach you but in a way that you are very beautiful and there shy to approach you. Not because your ugly, guys are funny creatures. But dont beat yourself up i bet you are very beautiful, and if you are keep your values because just cos you havent kissed anyone doesnt mean you ever will. There is plenty of time for kissing guys, but never settle for less ok, always have high standards. I used to be just like you no guys ever talked to me and i am very attractive. I never cared because i new i was waiting for a special guy. Dont worry suger everything will all work out and i promise you, you wont die an old lady whos never kissed a guy. You will and many times over :) good luck and keep smiling. xoxoxox
2007-02-26 19:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG - I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish you were in Adelaide.
Anyway - I think what you should do is to set yourself some standards and then work on being happy in yourself - knowing you are worthwhile - making yourself worthwhile - and then when the right guy comes along who meets your standards then go for it.
If you're tired of waiting, then you might have to do a little going out and looking for him.
You might find that the guys who seem to never like you are actually smitten but too scared to approach you, and it's just the arseholes who don't give a **** about you who ask you out.
I can't believe you've never been kissed though.
2007-02-26 19:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to just be patient. One day, a man who you think is the most attractive and terrific man in the world is out there, who would think you are the best thing ever in his life. Don't mind your friends. Guys may just be going with them because they're *easy*. Some guys are just intimidated by some girls.
What else can I say???
2007-02-26 19:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by ¥§Anaşia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be around a lot of guys. They are not intimidated by you. They are intimidated by each other. They like any male speciez need to fight with each other. I guess none of them want to fight. Cowards! Be alone, look lonely. Then they will think there are no opponents.
2007-02-26 19:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dorj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friends are cheap. Or maybe you are conceited and just dont realize you are this way. Guys can tell when you put out an aire like you are above approach.
2007-02-26 19:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe those guys are intimated by your beauty. Maybe they feel like you're unapproachable or out of their league. I agree, it's 2007, go after what you want. There's no shame in asking them out.
Good luck.
2007-02-26 19:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by aweety69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe since you're so pretty, some guys are intimidated by you. they think, whoa, i'm not good enough for her. i have that problem too, but maybe if you're shy that could alse be an issue. try speaking up, or joining some extracuricular activity (sorry, i didn't know what other way to put it) then maybe you could meet guys (& potential friends) at this place.
2007-02-26 19:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by tammie m 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well it could be that you come off as being conceited and have the attitude that most guys are not good enough for you.
if not, i'd just say they're intimidated by you. most guys are intimidated by beautiful women.
2007-02-26 19:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your good not to settle for just anyone...im kinda in the same position but....ummmm....start out with being friends with the guy that u like that way he can get to know the real u....
2007-02-26 19:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋