Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Okay, so I've been in iraq for the last 5 months. I was engaged before I went home on leave. I married my fiance a couple days after I got home. She means the world to me. The kicker is that three days after we got married i found out that she was in a relationship with another man the whole time i've been deployed. I wasn't thinking clearly, and was hardly in a state of mind to make any rational descisions. I stayed with her. What she did eats at me everyday. Now to complicate things even further my bestfriend confesed her love for me. I've been in love with her for a long time. I just thought the road went one way. I know that my friend is a better woman than any man could ask for, but i made a comitment that iI take very seriously. I'm stuck between what I want and what I need. The asurance of a fruitfull relationship and the vows I took. They both know about it. I'm not sneeking around. I'm gonna stay with my wife of coarse. But is that the right decision? Am I a fool?

2007-02-26 11:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by huntsafister 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iv been on a few of dates with this guy i really like him, but i cnt really tell if he likes me. we have a great time when were out and he is always asking me to *** out with him. we hav'nt slept together yet but i really want to, when we kiss goodnite he's the one that always pulls away first i could kiss him for hours so why hasnt he tryed anyfing yet?

2007-02-26 11:09:47 · 1 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

i haven't left my room all day because both of my parents are home and i don't feel like talking to them... they are gonna ask me about school things i don't really want to talk about so i'm waiting for my dad to leave to go down stairs... right now he is calling me, i really prefer being alone though...any suggestions?

2007-02-26 11:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She insist that it was strictly sexual with no feelings & that she will do it again with others. It was numerous times on a 21 day trip. She's 43 & I am 65. She saids she needs more than I can provided. Why do I want this to happen?

2007-02-26 11:08:33 · 30 answers · asked by lindaphi@pacbell.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 11:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot..

2007-02-26 11:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend started ging out on valentines day and have been good since then i love him alot.bute havent kissed.were always in school but i wanna kiss him.and i think he wants to kiss me too.what shuld i do . i need guy answers and gurls.

2007-02-26 11:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex moved to Japan and now he is back, visiting, we dated 2 years ago he wants to take me to the movies tomorrow after school, hes looking up movie times as we speak!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And hes talking about how he wants to make out with me, I'm not comfertable with this, WHAT SHOULD I DO, THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 11:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anytime i'm talking to a guy and he doesn't call when i expect, or i think he sees me online but says nothing i freak out!!!!! right now i'm freaking do to lack of response from the guy i'm dating... I text him last night and got no response... we were online at the same time and he said nothing... now I have started to freak out a little bit!!! i don't think there is a god reason but i do it all the time... i told him i got on birth control and he never responded i'm afraid i may have scared him away! I don't know why i do this withe every guy 9 times out of ten they call later!

2007-02-26 11:07:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I am 23, and 3 years ago I had this classmate that I like but didnt do nothing due to I had a girlfriend in that time, this classmate kind of like me , just once I Hang out with her , but only talking and going to eat something, it was kind of cool to know that she really enjoy being with me , but in that time she had a boyfriend too.......

These recenlt days I cant stop thinking about her , even I had a dream about her .....So today I grabbed my local phonebook (because i dont have her phone number and i dont know anyone that know her, and i still remember her last name)....And I found the last name, so I call like 3 people to know if she was living there, and it result that I one of the hoouses that i called there is a girl name Brenda(my classmate) and told me to call her tomorrow at noon....
I havent nothing prepare of what to say ... Please help...Just imagine someone you liked 3 years ago and calling him/her

2007-02-26 11:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I purchased a house in November 2006.. We are having relationship problems and want to break up. We can't sell the house because there is no equity. I am not movingout because made the down payment and I am paying the mortgage. He is refusing to move out and he even made the ridiculous suggestion that we live together as "roomates" ..I told him there was no way that I was going to be engaged to someone two months ago and now be their roomate. We both are on the deed.. what should we do? Please help!

2007-02-26 11:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy name brad at my cousins birthday party... my cousin said it would be so cool for us to get to know each other more... and I really like brad... since I saw him at the party... Was it meant to be... Apart or together... or what? Do u believe love @ 1st sight... in any case could this be...????

2007-02-26 11:06:16 · 29 answers · asked by spunky_luv_today 1 in Singles & Dating

okay the thing is that wen me and my boyfriend have sex i dont make no noise my friend said its because it aint doin it rite but idk... wat do u think

2007-02-26 11:05:55 · 9 answers · asked by Georgia Peach on Deck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I THINK I'm in love with a man who I know only likes me for physical connections. However there's someone else who I've been friends with for nearly 2 yrs & we're getting closer (just been to his sis' wedding with him) but he's never made a move on me & it's only intuition that makes me think he likes me. Do I accept his attentions though I can't imagine being with any1 except my lover?

2007-02-26 11:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know a way she can make this happen.

She is a tall blond, hot as hell, early 30's.

Teaches 6th grade.

2007-02-26 11:05:40 · 1 answers · asked by Eyerish 5 in Singles & Dating

what if a you and a guy are having a conversation and you ask if he was using you..he says no he wasnt .

then he says "its not like i thought you were an ugly girl who i decided to have sex with."

and then you say..but its supposed to be about feelings and he says yes
and then you say "so you had sex with me because you liked me ?"

and he says "yes"

what does this mean?

2007-02-26 11:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a great job, I own a house, I bought my dream car when I was 19, I also have a truck, I can cook (im not talking mac and cheese. My latest meal was Swedish meatballs, salad, garlic bread and wine), I am very active(I like to run), I like to travel (I have been to 9 different countries), I am clean and am all around great guy. I get hit on by alot of fat girls. When i say fat, these girls are over 200 lbs. I am a pretty big guy naturally. I have big shoulders and large chest, but I am not fat and out of shape. My hair is thinning a bit (dang genetics - it doesnt bother me though).
My last girlfriend was 5'5" 110 lbs. We broke up around 2 years ago. I'm 5'11" 200 lbs. the last girl I dated went all nuts. She basically kept telling me I was too good for her. When she was sick I would always make sure she had everything she needed. I would bring her flowers, just because. I would text her phone to let her know I was thinking of her.

2007-02-26 11:05:07 · 4 answers · asked by Paul S 3 in Singles & Dating

After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?

2007-02-26 11:03:13 · 17 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

my family wants to have a family reunion for the 10th time we hardly even see each other and we have so much jealousy in the family and a lot of old wounds that have not been heal. we are stubborn beyond belief, i have tried many times to get alone but to no avail. i just give up and pray for them and me too. all suppose to be christians but 2 we have 8 in the family and many children i don't want to go i feel by going will only lead to morer heartach and why should i go when we do not get alone what do you think?

2007-02-26 11:02:54 · 3 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-26 11:02:52 · 3 answers · asked by Michael Towers 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 11:01:52 · 15 answers · asked by trcsouth 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this girl i like and we have been hanging out a lot and i really like her. i have hinted that i like her and i think she feels the same way. i resently asked her to hang out and i didnt really make it clear that i wanted to get her alone to spend time getting to know her better. we ended up doing a group thing with a bunch of friends.i dont have the most confidence when it comes to talking to girls and i want her to stay interested in me. i want to tell her that i like her and i want her to be my girlfriend. how should i go about this and what should i say to her to let her know that i think she is amazing. thanks

2007-02-26 11:01:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl is a close friend, and we have gotten really close as friends lately. I am practically her best guy friend by far, and she told me in her last email that she wants to have a career yet she wants to get married. She cannot make up her mind which is more important. She used to tell me she would never date, and she was not desperate like her friends. Now, she is not sure what she wants, and she is opening up to me more and more all the time.

2007-02-26 10:59:52 · 14 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

they crazy place i had sex was on the bus come back from new york .......it was late in it was rian

2007-02-26 10:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by quan6934 1 in Singles & Dating

K there's this one guy and he's been givin me little hints of him liking me... but then again he's a real flirtatious guy by nature... like here are some things he does

1) he actually slapped my @$$
2) play-hits on me (like he's not entirely serious)
3) he was sitting down and he's like "come here" and he was pointing to his lap implying that he wanted me to sit there
4) tried to look down ma shirt

this guy is reallly flirtatious by nature, so i dunno if he's acting like a normal 13 yr old boy or if he actually likes me.... please help?!?

2007-02-26 10:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why does it bother me sooooooooooo much that I like my friend and I know he will never like me back, and it herts soooooooooooo
much I need some advise help meeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 10:58:51 · 8 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split up about 5 years ago. Since he's remarried, things have gotten progressively worse at his house for my girls. We don't have a court ordered custody agreement, we were never married. We DO have a child support order in place where I am named the custodial parent. He and his wife make my 5 year old sleep in the den without lights (she's very afraid of the dark), stand her in corners for long periods of time (more than an hour seems long to me), calls her stupid, compares her to her 'smarter' step sister who is 5 as well and can read (my child is on grade level and is slightly reading), taking all of her toys away from her and threatening to burn them or sell them to someone who will burn them, spanking her and leaving handprints (that are not there the next day when I can check, only there up until at least bedtime - my 8 year old checks), and so many other things. She is physically sick everytime she has to go. What can I do?

2007-02-26 10:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think i cheated on my bf but i didnt ever mean to i really like but im afraid to tell him i pretty much cheated on him i wanna stay with him but i feel so gulity plaease somebody help!!!!!

2007-02-26 10:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by DoMiNiCaN pRiNcEsS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 10:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Jeffrey P 3 in Singles & Dating