Well I am 23, and 3 years ago I had this classmate that I like but didnt do nothing due to I had a girlfriend in that time, this classmate kind of like me , just once I Hang out with her , but only talking and going to eat something, it was kind of cool to know that she really enjoy being with me , but in that time she had a boyfriend too.......
These recenlt days I cant stop thinking about her , even I had a dream about her .....So today I grabbed my local phonebook (because i dont have her phone number and i dont know anyone that know her, and i still remember her last name)....And I found the last name, so I call like 3 people to know if she was living there, and it result that I one of the hoouses that i called there is a girl name Brenda(my classmate) and told me to call her tomorrow at noon....
I havent nothing prepare of what to say ... Please help...Just imagine someone you liked 3 years ago and calling him/her
2007-02-26 11:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o.k. first you need 2 just ask how everything is going, and what dies she do now for a living and if she is still in school. Then invite her 2 diner for catching up with eachother. And you dont need to be shy, b/c yall used to be good friends, it's not like that has changed, and yall may even become more than just friends. You just need to act natural and calm :D and everything will work out.
Hope I helped!
2007-02-26 11:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by dancer_dancin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really isn't much i can say to help you every situation is different. I had something similar with this girl I went to high school and when I returned from active duty I ran into her. Now we are happily married. All I can say is go for it just start of with Hello the first word is always the hardest then it will progress from there.
2007-02-26 19:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by rchmosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to sound mean, but personally i wouldnt call her out of the blue. maybe get this brenda girl to set up a blind date or something, but randomly calling and telling her you got her number out of the phone book would be kind of creepy i would think. maybe find out from brenda where the girl works and stopping in and act surprised to see her there and start a conversation that way or something. that also has a flaw of course if brenda tells her it was a set up, but i would suggest something other than a call out of the blue in my opinion.
2007-02-26 19:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be like..HEYYY BRENDDAA GUESS WHOO..and then give her hintss..then finally let her knoww...and then be like..WELL THE REASON WHY IM CALLING IS BECAUSE LAST WEEK I PASSED BY OUR SCHOOL (or something in that point) AND I REMEBERED YOU. I REALIZED HOW MUCH I MISS YOU AND WANTED TO RECONNECT WITH YOU TO SEE HOW THINGS ARE GOING. And trust me the conversation will floww from there. AND IF I WERE YOU I WILL ASK HER ON A DATE AND REALLY LET HER NOW HOW YOU FEEL.
2007-02-26 19:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by AmY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is the same one .
Just ask her if she is seeing any one and tell her you would like to get together and catch up on all the news .
Hope this works out for you both .:)
2007-02-26 19:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk...it doesnt matter what she thought of you then sooo dont bring that up unless there is no convo and you feel the need to. anyway just tell her that you want to hang out....dont talk the whole time about yourself she wont like that we girls LOVE to talk wspecially about our selves...ask her what she has done with her life but it casual like you had been talking to a bunch of people you knew then and you'd thought you'd call her up also. dont sound nervous that is a turn off jsut be yourself not someone you think she will like because who knows...if its meant to be it will be :) but if not...sorry :(
hope this helps...
2007-02-26 19:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by dessy-lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably just say hi and ask her how she is doing. Girls like to know that someone cares about them, but don't just flat out tell her you like her at that moment. Ask her what she has been up to. I guess just beat around the bush.
2007-02-26 19:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
2007-02-26 19:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say hi
a conversation will form from that couse you can start talking about the class you guys had together but not to be mean or make you feel bad chances are she dosnt like you anymore
2007-02-26 19:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her something you recently did reminded you of her, and you thought you would give her a call to see how she was and how things were going.
2007-02-26 19:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Hello11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋