Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Since I lost my dad a month ago any little thing starts me crying, he died very suddenly he wasnt even ill. Im in my thirtys Im not a child but i cant seem to move on. can anyone help?

2007-02-26 10:35:11 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to borrw my sisters ipod and she wont let me becuz she thinks that i will lose it. what can i do to prove to her that i wont lose it and do u now anything i can give to her to make her say yes. thank u

2007-02-26 10:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by i luv peace 1 in Family

2007-02-26 10:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by Helen H. Heels 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is leaving out of town. She told me to stay with my brother while she's away. I told her NO. She said, if I'm not staying in my brother's house than she's not going anywhere.

I'm 18 years old, she is still treating me like baby. I know she is worried about our next door neighbor breaking into my apartment. Because our next door neighbor are people who drink, get high and party in their apartment like it's some type of club.

Another thing my mom is worried about is Me having anxiety at night time. I used to have anxiety at night time last year but NOT anymore.

How can I convice her, nothing is going to happen to me ????

2007-02-26 10:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Friends

OK basically this guy is really good looking, i mean like almost too pretty to b manly. On msn he is really funny and sweet and he tells me all his secrets for some very odd reason as he hasnt told his other (CLOSER) friends these secrets (i hav checked...tho not in the "hey do you know bout..." way.). On the other hand he really annoys the hell out of me when we're in public. I dont know if I like him or not because of this behavious but I used to and I'm scared I might like him again under false impressions of him liking me. What do you think?

2007-02-26 10:33:40 · 6 answers · asked by funky_chick09 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 10:33:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He sits beside me in chem and it seems like every chem class we become a little closer. How can I make conversation with him without without excluding my other chem partner? I want to get to know him more personally and try to go out with him. What stuff should I talk about and do?

2007-02-26 10:32:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, there is this girl in my spanish class that i like. She just broke up with her b-friend last thursday. I was wondering if it was too early to ask her on a sort of a date. More of a friend date the b-friend and g-friend. Was going to ask her to the movies this weekend and possibly go with my friend and his girlfriend. Hoping the relationship will bloom into something more. And do you think it will give her the wrong idea if i pay for everything when we go?

2007-02-26 10:32:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have 2 kids. last week when we were fighting our oldest tryed to get us in the same room. shes 2 years old
what should we do

2007-02-26 10:32:35 · 10 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We work at the same company but in differrent locations. We flirt big time when we visit each other's offices unless there are people around. We went out twice (he asked me) and he kissed me. I didn't kiss him back (so stupid!!) and told him I had a bf (i did at that time but not anymore). He's very attractive and knows it. Even though I am quite confident and get a lot of attention myself I am afraid he's doin it with every gal he finds hot or just to get into my pants. What are his real intentions and how serious is he about me?

2007-02-26 10:31:54 · 10 answers · asked by Angelique S 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that i'm pregnant (4 wks) by my ex. We broke up 8 months ago because he was "confused"...he says he thinks 90 percent of me is wonderful but the other 10 makes him worried that we are too different. Is ay BULLSHIT...he is afraid of commitment. I wanted someone who wld'nt have damn percentages & moved on & had the greatest summer ever even tho i love this guy alot. I told him I was preg & he is really compassionate and leaving the decision to me. Neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else we are both in our mid-20's too. We have careers. He has hinted that abortion would be an option because we are not togther and we both are just climbing the ladder in our careers and futures, but that if i decided to have it he wants to be 100 percent involved in every way. I love him and he says he cares for me alot...but he doesn't want to get back to me because we are different . I wld love to raise ths child togther & he says i'm very special but he is scared... advice?????

2007-02-26 10:31:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lead a sheltered life. (by the way im not too young)

2007-02-26 10:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy in school and i like him. he acts like he likes me but he acts like that to every girl. he is a big flirt! i was voted class flirt but i am nothing compared to him. the problem is i cnt flirt w him cuz i become so shy when i am around him. i flirt w everybody but him. before i used to be mean to him cuz i guess i wanted to cover up that i liked a boy that mite not like me! i very much do like him but also my friends like him. i cnt talk to my friends about him cuz they just get jealous cuz there is a rumor me and him are screwing eachother and just try to cover it up in school! i did not screw him! can i make him like me? what should i do?

2007-02-26 10:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Singles & Dating

be my new friend please

2007-02-26 10:30:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can't explain how much I really like him. She says she likes him more and that he doesn't like me. But he ALWAYS hesitates when talking about me, like once he said," She's just... a good....friend.."
I REALLY think he likes me. She doesn't. Help!!!! I don't know what to do. AND SOMEONE ELSE LIKES HIM!

2007-02-26 10:30:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 5 years, he used to hit me regularly and put me down so i would be insecure with myself. Four yyear after the abuse started i'v managed the courage to get out of the relationship and found a little more confidence in myself. I know that I am pretty with a great figure, so why is it that I cant find a man? I guess im shy and i just cant chat to most guys - what should I do? how an i meet a nice guy? Im told im funny, pretty and caring with brains- what more do guys want?

2007-02-26 10:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Malvi_x 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl

2007-02-26 10:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by sweet_ and_ smart 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are all lesbian hotter than normal girl?
I'm kinda upset of that... -_-, i can't find some one hot that IS straight and single

2007-02-26 10:29:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl ive like for a long time now. Were friends and we talk alot. I want to ask her to see a movie on the weekend but i don't really know what the best way to do it. I also am not sure if she likes me back. Were at a steady place and i really dont wanna screw things up so she wont talk to me.
What should i do. This girls driving my wild

2007-02-26 10:29:17 · 16 answers · asked by Bill J 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i think likes me... he stares at ,talks to me instead of his other friends, touches my hand or shouldar, and offers to help me whenever he can. any ways to kow for sure with out asking straight out?

2007-02-26 10:28:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a quesyion earlier and Thanks to every one who answerd! But now i have another.. Should I call him? He thinks im weird and we haven't talked since Friday when he tryed to hook me up with hes cuz and bro. I told him that i don't want to go out with anyone related to him...But i reallllyy like this guy! and i don't know if i should call him?!?!?

2007-02-26 10:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm moving to China in May
And this guy I like him so much but I dont know why but it really hurts so much to have to leave him

2007-02-26 10:28:03 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_ and_ smart 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will but his hands around my neck and make it hard for me to breathe, and sometimes he will slap or hit me. He has never been physically violent towards me except for these times, and is usually very sweet and loving to me. I'm not sure what I should do about this [if anything] I have never said anything about it. Should I be worried?

2007-02-26 10:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by Gabrielle 1 in Singles & Dating

She hates me and makes no secret of it, simply jealous of my life and my achievements....that's what everyone tells me and I feel it too.
Now she has sponsored my parents to come to Australia from India and told them strictly not to visit me and they all decided not to even tell me that they are here. But I found out and God it hurts, what kind of parents would be willing to be pawns in a hate game played by a jealous women. I was told by my sister-in-law that they had decided, when in India not to offend their sponsoring daughter and won't visit me. My sister is a cheap mean ***** what my parents? Are they mentally impotent? God it hurts to have such parents.

2007-02-26 10:26:57 · 4 answers · asked by Harriet 1 in Family

example...when I was 8 months pregnant we got into a huge gight over him thinking I was cheating/leaving and so he grabs me by the thoat and proceeds to strangle (trying to kill me I think, why else would someone choke a person until they cant breathe) I had to tell (my best) him to let go or he was going to kill the baby, he did eventually and begged me to not call the cops, that he would get help, never did.
Fast froward to a year, I am onthe computer in the next room to the tv room and he comes n demanding to see what I was looking at caus ehe thought I was looking at personals (irrational behaviour ) When he was proven wirng he flipped out and grab me and proceeded to smash my head into the wall while choking me, when he stopped he said he was sorry and didnt know why he did that and begged me to stay and not call the cops, that he would get help...we went to a marriage councellor, who said we should not be together, he didnt like th eanswer and we never went back.
im 26/he 32.

2007-02-26 10:26:52 · 21 answers · asked by Bitsy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And somtimes I feel like My "Cherry" can pop not just by having sex. Is that true? Can I loose my virginity without actually having sex?

2007-02-26 10:26:45 · 24 answers · asked by AmY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont understand very well,i am from latin america my boyfriend and I just broke up after 2 years, beacuse he got scared. We never had sex mostly because of him (he is a virgin), he is an intelectual guy living with his parents and afraid of getting married, or buying a house or any commintment, he is so swet, but probably too sensitive, is that normal in the US or is a strange behaviour?

2007-02-26 10:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by Nata 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. i like this kid and he thinks im "cute". my friend who i met him through is setting us up on a date kinda thing. everybody thinks its gonna work out perfectly. but theres this other guy who me and the guy i like are friends with and he likes me wayyy too much and he doesnt know about me and the guy i like yet. (im not trying to be conceeted or anything.) but i dont like him like that at all. am i being a bad friend by wanting to go out with one of his friends? someone help me please! i really like this guy and i want to go out with him. im so confused. should i make my friend happy or should i make myself?

2007-02-26 10:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Friends

I get really jeaoulos if I see one of my boyfriend's just girl as a friend or any girl that is looking at my boyfriend , like at stores and stuff , I try not to be like that , but I love him. Is this normal are how can I change that, my boyfriend said he doesn't like other girls and I have no way to feel that.

2007-02-26 10:25:27 · 16 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

its like i kno the answer to my own question but i want to kno if anyone else thinks different.

ok there's this boi dat used to go to my school,and i used to always think he was cute but i never tried to talk to him. den on a school event he showed up n i tried my best to get noticed by him..and he did.we exchanged numbers and started talkn.i found out he recently got dumped,but i also found out he was a real kool person so i started to like him.we went to da movies,den a party, in a slick way he was tryna ask me to have sex wit him and i said no,he said i was trippin...we stopped talkn 4 da rest of the night until this song started playin..we started back talkn but when i got home i told him if he aint feeln me to tell me...he said he wasnt,and tears just shed out my eyes..i dont even kno y.i told him dats all he had to say, i guess he was expectin a bad responce from me..but i aint say nuthin back.like 10min lata he txt me sayn he was playin.should i still talk 2 him?? or leave it

2007-02-26 10:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by Redd Hott 2 in Singles & Dating