I get really jeaoulos if I see one of my boyfriend's just girl as a friend or any girl that is looking at my boyfriend , like at stores and stuff , I try not to be like that , but I love him. Is this normal are how can I change that, my boyfriend said he doesn't like other girls and I have no way to feel that.
2007-02-26 10:25:27 · 16 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to beat the cr** out of the girls who looks at him and talk to him.
2007-02-26 10:26:11 · update #1
I try to act nice to his girl's just as friend's , but Why do I feel like this. One of them are trying to be friend's with me, should I be worryed or should I just try to be nice to her back.
2007-02-26 10:28:44 · update #2
Some people are just over protective... You must be one of those type of people. You can't exactly change that, but you can try. You're in love with him and I'm guessing you don't want other girls in your relationship. Just remember, they don't have your man, he's yours.
--Bowski--
2007-02-26 10:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bowski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need do calm down if you get this upset about your boyfriend having female friends i can't imagine when you get married and your husband works with other woman........Damn, he will have to work from home and at your side. There is nothing wrong with male/female friendship. I am a girl and I have a lot of guy friends that are just friends. We hang out and go places together and there is nothing sexual between us, I have had guy friends my entire life and I always will. I tell there girlfriends if there is a problem to let me know and they talk to me and i tell them how it is.......friends, we don't do anything behind there back we wouldn't do right in front of them. They go with us and get bored, they think we are crazy because we can do things together and stand to hang out with each other like we do, but friends are friends and that is what friends do hang out and talk. Try to relax and accept that it is okay for people to be friends and you can trust the ones you love.
2007-02-26 10:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds less like a relationship problem and more like an anger issue. Just chill. It's all about trust! My guy looks at other girls and talks to other girls - in a purly platonic way. It doesn't bother me! Why? I trust him! Yes, there is a natural protectivness goin on because he's mine - but I know he's got a good thing and he's not going anywhere! You need to trust him. If you don't - dump him and find someone you can trust. It's also about self-confidence, you need to belive you are worthy of faithfulness and that you are good enough that he shouldn't have a reason to cheat on you.
2007-02-26 10:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Margaret M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Umm..CALM DOWN..Lol.. Jealousy only occurs when you, yourself have low self esteem. It is a natural thing to be jealouse but I also believe that people need to have a little more confidence in themselves to not worry about other Girls taking theri man away. Always think of it as this way, NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE HIM. HE IS URS. But, if your BF does go and cheat on you or leaves you for another girl then your WAY better without him, because truth of the matter is that he was never really yours. But, don't be afarid, have trust in you BF. HE CHOOSEN YOU our of everybody else. That should be enough reason how and why you should stop it.
2007-02-26 10:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by AmY 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jealous is a natural habits of a woman. So, what i want to tell you is that, you have to be yourself whenever you see him with any girl. Keep the jealous in your mine and try to show your guy that you don`t care as long as he loves you. Maybe he is talking to them just because he understand that you are too jealous.
2007-02-26 10:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m like this too. Don`t think too much of it. You are his girlfriend, so you have the right to be jealous. To me, it`s normal. But you don`t want to take it to the extreme and blame him or get mad at him, because that`s unnecessary. It`s not his fault that females look at him, like it`s not yours when guys look at you. Just let him know that you are a tad bit jealous in situations that involve him and other females.
2007-02-26 10:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God thank you, just exactly how I feel,I think that I am crazy sometimes ! I feel like kicking the girls ***,when they look at my bf and when they talk to him I feel so angry that I feel my blood hot inside of me!!!I think we are normal don't worrie they love us anyways!!!
2007-02-26 10:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal because usually i get jelous if one my boyfreind are with one of jis freindds that a girl. and im shure that thousands of others feel the exsaact same way so u dont have to change
2007-02-26 10:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what other ppl have said while anwsering this question, i' m sure they've done it too. so learn from ur mistakes.go hang out with some guys (just as friends) . try to relax and be calm. GUYS AND GIRLS CAN JUST BE FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(and ppl who say otherwise are being sexist.)remembber the trust factor. if you truly love him dont worry about it. he loves u 2. so my advice? calm, down. take deep cleansing breaths. and remind urself ................ u r not alone.
2007-02-26 10:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets jealous. Everyone wants to beat the crap out of anyone they "hate". Don't take it too seriously... Just... Assure yourself that you're his one and only. Which you are.
2007-02-26 10:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Eden 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋