We work at the same company but in differrent locations. We flirt big time when we visit each other's offices unless there are people around. We went out twice (he asked me) and he kissed me. I didn't kiss him back (so stupid!!) and told him I had a bf (i did at that time but not anymore). He's very attractive and knows it. Even though I am quite confident and get a lot of attention myself I am afraid he's doin it with every gal he finds hot or just to get into my pants. What are his real intentions and how serious is he about me?
2007-02-26 10:31:54 · 10 answers · asked by Angelique S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, these are all good answers - thanks for putting me down to earth coz i got caught up in my dreams. However, he sends friendly e-mails to me, we shook the dance floor at the corporate parties together, he asks personal questions to get to know me etc. Dont you think that kissing me even though he knew I had a bf shows that he wants to be with me anyway and leaves it up to me to decide?
2007-02-26 10:51:21 · update #1
probably wants to get down your pants. he kissed you on your second date? you told him you had a boyfriend. you send a signal that you are down for getting down your and his pants by going out with him even if you had a bf. i say he has no real intentions and you are caught up in the infatuation of it all.
2007-02-26 10:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get that answer is to ask him out again yourself. Put the control in your hands and let him know that you're interested. If he wants to go out with you he will. Ask him in person so you can see his reaction. As for his real intentions and how serious he is - that's tricky. It's really hard to know that.
Date him - if it lasts, he's serious. You can't be afraid to jump in there. If you like him put it out there - if you wait until you know everything it may be too late.
2007-02-26 18:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that he is a player that does the same routine to all of the females, then you need to realize the fact that you are not unique and he treats you the same as any female he sees.
you are not singled out as special among the rest of them, you are only a convenience at that time.
personally, i dont dip my pen in the company ink...so i dont go past the flirting part.
2007-02-26 18:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just wants a piece...he is a player. If he was serious about you he would be a little more pursuitful (is that even a word???) in his "hunt". If YOU like him that much that it matters, then let him take you out and little by little you can "win" him over.
2007-02-26 18:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by El Tigre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kissed you when he knew you had a boyfriend the stay clear...all he wants is a piece. Unless that's what you're interested in too...then I'd say go for it.
2007-02-26 18:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by War Veteran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be able to discreetly ask around or even ask him straight out.
2007-02-26 18:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you are the only woman he ever came onto
2007-02-26 18:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get in your pants.......duh. I love how girls know exactly what a guy's intentions are, but still don't acknowedge it.
2007-02-26 18:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea.
2007-02-26 18:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by bubbba2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell us !
2007-02-26 18:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋