And somtimes I feel like My "Cherry" can pop not just by having sex. Is that true? Can I loose my virginity without actually having sex?
2007-02-26 10:26:45 · 24 answers · asked by AmY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Umm. Im 21 Years old and I know everything about SEX and VIRGINITY, it's just that my friends were debating on it and we needed other opnions.
2007-02-26 10:51:03 · update #1
If you have a hymen, and it is popped, it WILL bleed. That being said, some girls don't develop a full hymen. Most do. But the pain doesn't exactly come from the popping. It comes from the fact that you're been uncomfortably stretched. But, unless you don't have a hymen, you will bleed the first time.
And to answer your second question--no. Some girls lose their hymen when performing gymnastic stunts (namely the splits), but the only way you can lose your virginity is by being penetrated.
2007-02-26 15:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you won't always bleed. If your hymen has already ruptured (like from horseback riding, sport, etc.) then you probably won't bleed. Your hymen is only a thin membrane - if it's 'popped' then it does not mean you've lost your virginity. Virginity only has to do with sexual activity. If you've never had intercourse or been physically penetrated, then you are still a virgin. (Just remember if you do have sex, please make sure he wears a condom because you CAN get pregnant, even from the first time.)
2007-02-26 10:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women are born without a hymen so the myth that all girls have a "cherry" are false. Some women bleed more than others, some don't bleed at all. You cannot lose your virginity without having sex.
If you don't know these things, please talk more to your mother/parent and don't have sex until you've grown up a bit.
2007-02-26 10:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to break the hymen known as "the cherry", but you are still considered a virgin. You only lose your virginity by having sex. I didn't bleed the first time I had sex...some people don't.
2007-02-26 10:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by War Veteran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't lose your virginity without actually having sex. No, it's ok, it's normal but if ur really concerned see a doctor. Also, yes, not ALL girls bleed their first time.
2007-02-26 10:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU CAN'T LOOSE ANYTHING WITHOUT ANOTHER PATERNER SO YOUR CHERRY WON'T BUST UNTIL THAT HAPPENS THE FIRST TIME I HAD SEX MY CYCLE CAME ON THE NEXT DAY AND SEX HURT THE FIRST TIME AROUND BE SMART AND CAREFUL JUST WAIT BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE A BABY ON THE WAY WITH NO FATHER DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE
2007-02-26 10:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by babyboom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every girl bleeds the first time they have sex. The first time is different for everyone.
And yes- your hymen can be broken in ways other than sex. Any blunt force trauma (hard hit) to your lower body could do it.
2007-02-26 10:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Doug M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something must penetrate your vagina for you to no longer be a virgin...however yes, your hymen can break for reasons other than a penis rupturing it.
Is it possible to not bleed? When the hymen breaks, there's going to be some blood, although typically it's not much.
2007-02-26 10:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your Hymen(Cherry) can break without having intercourse. It's a very thin little membrane. It doesn't just break on it's own. It occurs when there is trauma in that area.
2007-02-26 10:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you won't bleed if you don't have an intact hymen. The hymen can be broken with tampons or other ways, or it can be congenitally absent (like you never had one).
2007-02-26 10:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋