hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot..
2007-02-26 11:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always complaining abt their relationship to me. she is not satisfied with their relationship! The guy is not a perfect person. he is somewhat selfish! i like her a lot. i want her to be happy.. I think if she is with me we can make a perfect couple... any ideas please!! what shall i do?
2007-02-26 11:08:39 · update #1
She said she can't do anything, because she is with this other guy and she doesn't want to cheat on him. I think you should move out far away from her. If you try to snake her away from the other guy, then that makes you a bad guy.
2007-02-26 11:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move OUT! Then call her if they break up! I know that's not what you want to hear - but most people complain about their relationships! I complain about my husband but I'd never leave him! If you cause them to break up in some small way she will resent you even if the two of u end up together. Seriously man, move out and find someone new to crush on.
2007-02-26 11:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's really nothing you can do if she's in a relationship and is obviously not making any real attempt to get out of it. If she likes you but is still with her bf, she might not be the type you want to be with.
2007-02-26 11:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just accept that it isn't going to happen now. Empahsis on "now." Wait until her relationship with him ends and if you still feel the same way then, give it a try. If you feel for her as much as you say, you should be able to respect her wishes and wait.
2007-02-26 11:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this girl is just pulling you along in her little scheme. When her obviously stupid boyfriend realized what a tramp she is for messing around on him, and he leaves her, you will pathetically take the bait and she will treat you exactly the same way!
2007-02-26 11:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't need to read your long story to tell you to find your own girl(that's single like you)and live on.Loving someone Else's girl is wrong no matter how you look at it.Be happy for her,accept it and move on.
2007-02-26 11:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her straight up, that u want her to be happy, just not that it has to be with u...
even though she might not be with u, dont u want her to be happy?
anyway, if u REALLY like her, then wait for her, or just let her go... no dont do that...
u should see how it feels to be her... somehow...
and thats all i can help u with...
2007-02-26 11:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Katie!(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up.
If she preferred you she'd have left him for you.
Besides, why would you want to be with a little tramp like her? Someone who'll cheat on her long-term b/f? Everytime you went somewhere you'd be wondering who she was with.
2007-02-26 11:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by AlphaMale 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get ur self another girl friend..thats it...dont look as desperate
2007-02-26 11:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by zoom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋