Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I am 22 yrs married for 3 yrs. He is 26 single and works with me for 6 months and a very sincere worker. Now a days I am getting attracted towards him a lot and think of him all the day. I dont find a good reason why I do so. I know clearly he has no special attraction for me and for him I am just a coworker in the office. Is my feeling normal? I do not have any sex feelings with him till date. Please help me out of this problem.

2007-02-26 11:42:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe that there is one man in this world that would be completely everything you want in a man.

2007-02-26 11:42:44 · 7 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my sister is getting married in July and I have been asked to be the maid of honor. I'm very excited! I also am married. Yeah I know being jealous in any relationship is never a good thing, but both my husband and I are on the jealous side. As most weddings go, the bridesmaid's walk down in arm with the groomsmen... and that is how my sister's wedding is going to be...however, the man I will be walking with is nearly 30 years older than me, and is also married. Though, my husband still is having a problem with this...to the point that he doesn't even want to go. The way he sees it is that I am buying a fancy dress to walk in arm with another man. It would mean alot to me to have him there too... But I feel now that if he goes he's going to ruin it all by being upset about it, and then it's going to make me in a bad mood... but if I don't go, then I'd be missing out on my sister's wedding... what should I do?!

2007-02-26 11:42:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering what others thought of open relationships? I personally do not have one but after hearing a conversation about it, it had me wondering about what other people thought. In this conversation it was stated that the married couple could have sex with other people - it could happen up to (but no more than) 5 times in a year and it would not be mentioned to the spouse.

Do you think this would work for you? I doubt i could ever make such an agreement - i wouldn't want to "share" and the "not knowing" would drive me just as crazy as the "knowing" ... and i'd be consumed with jealously... even though i am not naturally a jealous person. Risk of STD's aside - i just don't think i would ever be able to do it. And if it were suggested to me i would start to wonder why my guy would feel the need to look elsewhere.

Anyhow just interested in the opinions of others,

Thanks

2007-02-26 11:41:50 · 11 answers · asked by Smiley One 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need this girl back?
i have a freind whos a girl and we arte super close but i would do any thing to go out with her and she changes the subject wen i bring it up or just laghs or something we both liked eachother a year ago but i didnt do anything and now i wana go out with her soooo badly but she keeps avoiding it HELP ME! im pretty sure she wants to but i think shes just a lil scared or sumthing

2007-02-26 11:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by That Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

going on a date friday we've bin for a meal and bin pictures and to the pub where to go now. please no stupid amswers!

2007-02-26 11:40:33 · 17 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to sing a song for my mom's wedding, except I don't want the lyrics to have stuff like "I love you" or anything because I'm not the one getting married. I was wondering if there was a nice song about love or marraige that isn't specifically sung towards a person. All suggestions appreciated.

2007-02-26 11:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by balla24n7 2 in Weddings

Ok, I've been seeing this girl for about a year and a half and seems like everyother day she's asking me to marry her. She knows i've been through a bad divorce and am very leary of a relationship of any kind. I love being around her but feel that she's pinning her entire future on my marrying her. Girls help me understand why do the girls I start dating always start the wedding march before we start the third date?

2007-02-26 11:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by wvgsxrryder 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to be getting married next year and my fiance and I already have everything we NEED to set up our household. The only thing we don't have a house to set it up in. Is there any way to let people know that we don't need things, but that money--to put towards a down payment on a house--would be so appreciated, without causing a fiasco and offending everyone? Please help!

2007-02-26 11:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by Vicki I 1 in Weddings

Self-explanatory.

2007-02-26 11:39:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so I'm freakin out about college, I don't know why but I am. any advice would be great, really any...
I'm goin into the nursing program
thanks, everything is appreciated!!

2007-02-26 11:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who has been having a stressful time at work, is going through a major career change, looking for a new job as he's unhappy with his current one is upset with me. He explained to me that he is under a lot of stress and pressure and he said he might not be as available as normally. I said I will let him focus but I did not, I called him, I texted him, I cried and questioned him about his feelings and the relationship. At first he was patient but then he got upset with me 2 days ago as I told him that I dont feel special. He has two big interviews coming up near my city and he told me that we will meet then but this was prior to him getting upset with me for my neediness. I said I was sorry but he said that I always say that but nothing ever changes. He said it's really hard for him. I did not hear from him since yesterday. I said I will give him the time to concentrate but I worry so much that I upset him and pushed him away. I want to contact him but should I?

2007-02-26 11:38:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well I just called him, and he told me he likes me, I told him I like him, we're on for saturday at the park, I'm so HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 11:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by wakeupangel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:38:31 · 1 answers · asked by okay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:38:03 · 33 answers · asked by septdev 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I are separated since 2005.
Since I met a man in January, the father of my 2 sons has decided that he will only take the oldest son when it's his time for visitation, leaving the 3 years old with me.

He (father) said he wants to talk to me before he takes him again, claiming his child breaks his heart (?). I know it's a game he is playing to try to control me again, as he was doing for the past 5 years.

Any ideas what I should do?
Should I keep the 2 child together or should I let him do that?

2007-02-26 11:37:29 · 23 answers · asked by Shaana 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot..

2007-02-26 11:37:15 · 31 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't help it but my gf keeps saying that I have a body of a masculine (strong/built) man but a face of a cute baby boy!

Sometimes I don't want to be called a 'boy' but she keeps on insisting! I know society pressures most men to look more masculine... but I feel that no matter what.. I will always look like some
friggin' boy!!!

Now ladies... is this really a turn off or turn on?

2007-02-26 11:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are some good ways to prepare for a first date?

2007-02-26 11:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i'm overreacting when i am near the guy i like..
yesterday, another guy called me a "brat".( i think he was kidding, but im not sure.)and the guy i like heard it. i was hurt a little, but looking back, i think it was because i was not acting like.... me. i'm more conservative usually, but yesterday.. i think i went too far with the teasing..
i feel so guilty and i'm afraid that the guy i like won't like me as much as i like him. what can i do? i see him only 3 times a week. :(

p.s. it was another guy that called me a "brat", not the guy i like.

2007-02-26 11:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean you look at eachother and you just know..

2007-02-26 11:35:36 · 28 answers · asked by lynette 6 in Singles & Dating

SO. i pass this guy every day in the hallway and theres always eye contact. I want to say hi and start talking to him just for fun cause he seems like a cool guy. How do i approach him, what to say without seeming like a weirdo. haha.

2007-02-26 11:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Questionnn 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone says me new amazing sweet funny bf is a 3 timer. Me, Desiree, and Cheyenne. But, he didnt say anything so I dont believe it?? I act like I dont know to be sneaky. I didnt beleive it until I saw him wrap his arm around her on the bus when I wasnt lookin?? What do I do besides breaking up with him. I like him and he likes me and IDK if the girls know either

2007-02-26 11:35:05 · 1 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I like and I can sense she likes me because we talk on instant messenger alot, we text one another alot. If we dont meet up she gets upset that she didnt get a chance to see me. Recently I asked her to be my date to my formal that I have, she said yes. Me and her decided like a long time ago that we didnt want a relationship with anyone at all at that time. And now I feel that things are changing that I have strong feelings about her bc I like her more than a friend. Whenever something is wrong or if she needed help she calls me. Does she like me a lot? Would she be my girlfriend? How can i find out, what can i do or say? Thanks

2007-02-26 11:34:52 · 1 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?

2007-02-26 11:34:43 · 2 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 11:34:21 · 25 answers · asked by M e g a n * 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to have great friends, until a new student came to school and everything started to change for the worst. They all became cronic liars and drug-users.

2007-02-26 11:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by SpaceMonkey! 2 in Friends

my bf tells me what to do and where to put my hands when we have sex so its more pleasurable for him and sorta painful for me (he does not know this)

2007-02-26 11:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by paigy baby 1 in Singles & Dating