hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot..
2007-02-26 11:37:15 · 31 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always complaining abt their relationship to me. she is not satisfied with their relationship! The guy is not a perfect person. he is somewhat selfish! i like her a lot. i want her to be happy.. I think if she is with me we can make a perfect couple... any ideas please!! what shall i do?
2007-02-26 11:37:30 · update #1
That probably means she loves him and you never leave the person you love for the person you like because they'll end up leaving you for the person they love. If she's always complaining to you about their relationship but is not leaving then she's happy enough she probably just see you as a bestfriend and your living situation is not going to work because she dont want to leave him. I think if she has told you that she's with him then you should just leave it alone and not try to break them up because it always come back on you it's called karma
2007-02-26 11:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by maichellaih♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's true she might have SOMETHING for you. but if she is in a bad relationship then most likely she is very vulnerable. If a guy so much as puts their arm around her she would probably let herself get lost in that moment at that time. I was the same way in the beginning of my relationship...because my man hadn't matured enough to make it a good one...but now that we've been in the relationship for a LONG time...he knows how to take in consideration my feelings...he's learned, and if the girl is willing to try to make it work with her ol' man then you should let her go. Just be glad you had a little bit of a fling with her! there will be some one out there for you...I honestly think that the reason you want HER so much is because she gave you a little feed back from a kiss, and now that you see her with someone else it's killing you inside. Trust me a guy CANNOT stand another guy to have something he feels is even A LITTLE BIT his.
Jealousy IS NOT LOVE! love should come first. Jealousy can come with love over a long period of time...but the two feelings are different! don't let the fact that you had a kiss from her make you feel like you have a piece of her, because like I said, she is probably just vulnerable and maybe felt like she needed that attention for once. She is still obviously willing to teach her guy how to have a relationship...so let her if thats what she wants!
2007-02-26 12:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by RachelLeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds more confused that you : /. She's not happy with her relationship, yet she's still with him...actually, that sounds kind of like me, heh. Well, except for the fact that I don't go around kissing other guys. I've been in my relationship for two years, and it's become so comfortable that I can't leave it. Maybe she's having this problem as well? I think you should wait it out. If she's meant to be with you, she will come to realize it...eventually. In the mean time, you enjoy her company, so just keep on as you have been. The only difference in having her as a girlfriend would be the...*cough*, intimate stuff. Also, friends make the best relationships, in my opinion at least, so she could come to see this as well if you just hang in there. However, I believe you should try other options in the mean time as well. Check out/hang out with some other girls. Maybe you'll come to realize that you and this girl would be better off staying just friends.
As for the other guy...hm, poor guy. It seems she's kind of stringing him along since she's not happy in the relationship, and yet she's still with him. Are you friends with the other guy? Does he know how she feels? I really think she needs to talk to him about her feelings. He deserves that much. I know if I were the guy, I'd want to know how my significant other felt, however much it hurt to know the truth. No one wants to be in a relationship in which the other person is unhappy.
2007-02-26 11:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she used you to feel better. She was probably going through a hard time with her boyfriend and you were there at the right moment and teh right place but I do not think she has any intentions to leave him. Forget her, she has a long-term relationship with him, she will not leave him. And even if she does, you never have the guarantee that she will not get back to him or meet him as she would still have feelings for him. I think you need to be strong and let her go and find a girl, who is fully available to you! Remember she only kissed you, she has a relationship with him. He is the winner in the situtation unfortunately.
2007-02-26 11:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I want her to be happy"
Then let it rest. Trying to split up her relationship or come between her and her current boyfriend will only add drama and stress to her life... and it sounds like she creates enough stress on her own staying in a relationship she might not be happy with.
You're probably not a bad person, I'm sure you have genuine feelings for this girl. But don't mess with her messed up world anymore than you need to. A real friend knows when to step back.
2007-02-26 11:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are a very naughty boy trying to make another man's girl like u. i agree with her, one guy at a time. She likes her bf and if u love her u would leave her to be happy with whoever she likes but it seems like u prefer to take a nice girl from another man rather than find your own. If u like her company them go out with her and have a good time but it sounds like u want to f*** her. Anyway, she cant like u because she is a nice as well as faithful individual who will not cheat on her bf and u should respect that. Go find another woman and leave her alone or wait till they break up ...................by the way.........dont let the break up have anything to do with u!
2007-02-26 11:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi Reds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is complainin that probably means she doesnt want to be in the relationship with him n e more. you should try to talk to her about leaving this guy and then if she does give her some time and then ask her out unless she wants to get into a relationship right away wich i highly doubt.
i dont know n e thing else i can say. best of luck to you
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2016-11-26 01:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by patti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a bad guy... She is in a long term relationship and you are trying to ruin that. She obviously only sees you as a friend to vent her frustrations to and that is why she complains to you.... that doesn't mean she wants to be with you.
What you need to do is move out and move on with your life and find someone who is available.
2007-02-26 11:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own place and stop being the stooge in this drama. She is making a fool out of you and no matter what happens it won't be anything good. She's playing the two of you off against each other for the attention she's getting out of it.
2007-02-26 11:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋