Why is he acting like this???

Question

After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?

Answer 1

he wants you to leave him alone because of he thinks that you are trying to weasel your way back into being his girl.

If he ignores you, ignore him by picking up a conversation with someone else! kinda like "did you watch_________ last night?"
or "how was your weekend?" or " let me tell you something funny! I don't know if you will necessarily find it funny but____"

Sweetheart, move on and start ignoring him. Guys like bitchy girls, he will start talking to you when he sees that you are so... over him! :)

Answer 2

I think I may know. I've had those relationships before. The thing may be that he's falling back in love with you. I doubt he's trying to be a jerk-off. I think he likes you again, but knows he can't have you. That'd be a good reason to avoid you. I've avoided girls for the same thing. Hope I was helpful, good luck.