I need this girl back?
i have a freind whos a girl and we arte super close but i would do any thing to go out with her and she changes the subject wen i bring it up or just laghs or something we both liked eachother a year ago but i didnt do anything and now i wana go out with her soooo badly but she keeps avoiding it HELP ME! im pretty sure she wants to but i think shes just a lil scared or sumthing
2007-02-26 11:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by That Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be up front about it. Just lay it all out on the table - whether or not she wants you, she'll be forced to tell you. It'll be a lot better than sitting around wondering!
2007-02-26 11:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by trillian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was a guy you know what i would do say remember a year ago we both liked eachother but didn't go out, well I just want to tell u something and get it off my chest before I get a heart attack, well here I go I liked u too, but did know if it would ruin our friendship or something and the truth is I don't like see u go out with anyone else and i want to go out with u because I don't want to see u get hurt and I want to be with u and I think u want to be with me too, and i don't want this to come between our friendship because I like u.
2007-02-26 20:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by dollyfacesash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool your jets kid, she likes you but not that way. She is letting you know she does not want to go out with you. She realized that if you two cross that line and it does not work out then the friendship will also be lost.(she's right about that too) She values the friendship so let it go at that. IF you keep pushing you will push her away entirely. Sorry but friends you are and hopefully friends you will remain, but if you are looking for more you had best look elsewhere
2007-02-26 19:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are using the past tense when you write, "we both likED each other" maybe she did like you but now she is over you. If she is avoiding you, she prob doesn't want the confrontation where you spill out ur love for her and she has to reject you. have a close friend of both of you talk to her about it CASUALLY, if they are blunt about it, then it will make her speechless and be ready for a negative answer.
2007-02-26 19:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Emmya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her jsut walk up to her and pull her close and kiss her in the lips. I bet she will wanna talk to you then. I know I would.
2007-02-26 19:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Thick-N-Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her on a date.... like to get coffee or to go to the movies or something ,then if she says yes , take it one step at a time. things will work out. if not you have to move on and find someone who truely likes you as much as you like them. youll be happy then. if you dwell over her, and things dont go right you may be missing out on somebody really really great.
2007-02-26 19:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes u still but just wanna be friedns for a while.Just continue gogin out with her but like one on one you know.Just dont push urself on her
2007-02-26 19:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by empressbebet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
randomly kiss her and see what her reactions are, but not in public because she might act differently and shy if people are around, so make sure you guys are alone. good luck, i hope you get her.
2007-02-26 19:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i would do is write her a note and ask her out and tell her to give you your answer on that paper!!!
2007-02-26 19:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by julie b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure she's not in a bad mood or something and then just pull her aside and make her talk to you about it.
2007-02-26 19:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋