2007-02-26 11:17:01 · 15 answers · asked by aisha c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love this man and does anything he ask of me. He don't want a woman but he's sleeping with me 3days out the week and we have a good freindship.We talk all the time, but I want more what should I do.
2007-02-26 11:26:20 · update #1
make him your man!!!! tell him how you feel, but don't seem clingy or needy. just gently tell him how you feel, if he doesn't respond to it just laugh it off like nothing happened. but don't let your heart get hurt in all of this.
2007-02-26 11:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Freddie xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your letting him satisfy his physical needs, and allowing him to use you. If he really wanted to be with you he would have left the girlfriend, or wife already. You never should of gotten involved, all you can do now, is tell him how you feel, and when he tells you he is going to leave her for you, which I seriously doubt, don't believe him, til he actually does it. Sorry but he is just playing with you, and he is not a MAN, because he doesn't know how to be.
A Man would have left the previous relationship before he started the next one. He is playing upon your naivety.
2007-02-26 19:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never be with a man who wasn't available. A man who would sleep with you behind his woman's back will sleep with someone else behind your back - that is a FACT of life - learn it well and walk away forever - Love will never live there.
IF he isn't with another woman at all but sleeps with you while telling you he doesn't love you the again - Love will never live there! Some men make it a habit to sleep with women they don't have to commit to - if you wan tto be sure tell him you love him and watch him squirm!
2007-02-26 19:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT! So you're sleeping with a Guy that isn't your guy....what he's married to someone else????
You now realise you've fallen in love with him & you want him to leave his wife & go off with you? is that right?
Sweetheart, if he belongs to another why the hell are you even sleeping with him...it's friends with benefits surely. you don't think everything will be fine do you if you & he were to get together....he plays about on the woman he's with now, whether that's his wife or live in partner or girlfriend......what makes you think he'll be true to you...or you to him for that matter.
Find someone that isn't using you for sex & find someone that you can at least start off on a foundation built on trust.
BTW next time have more respect for yourself too.
2007-02-26 19:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Why would he want to end a relationship where he can have two girls? He doesn't care about you if he is sleeping with you and not willing to be commited to you. You deserve better.
2007-02-26 19:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well figure out if he wants you or her if he can't choose make the choice up for him stop sleeping with him
2007-02-26 19:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him your man!
2007-02-26 19:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Yezmin Fernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a boyfriend? Does he have a girlfriend? If not, make him your man.
2007-02-26 19:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want more, look elsewhere. This situation is unlikely to change, be realistic.
2007-02-26 19:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Know what I would do - I would change my last name to S.l.u.t - not that that is a bad thing
2007-02-26 19:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ben Dover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋