iv been on a few of dates with this guy i really like him, but i cnt really tell if he likes me. we have a great time when were out and he is always asking me to come out with him. we hav'nt slept together yet but i really want to, when we kiss goodnite he's the one that always pulls away first i could kiss him for hours so why hasnt he tryed anyfing yet?
2007-02-26 11:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like you found a really great guy!!! he is taking it slow enjoying you, not rushing sex!!! awsome! hang on to this one theres not many left.
2007-02-26 11:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's kissing you well enough for you to be wanting more, then look at it as if he's thinking the same as you.
If he keeps kissing you like that, it has to tell you something. Not 'all' men want to get you into bed first off. Some men have respect for who they are with. Now i'd say he's pulling away so as you don't think he's pushing his luck, and trying to go 'too far'.
Anyway, it sounds like your in fairly deeply, so, and with the greatest of respect to you, go for what you want. Because some men will NOT just go for it, out of respect. They will wait for a sure sign.
2007-02-26 11:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Andy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you've been on 3 dates!!! Let things take it's natural course, it will happen when it's meant to happen. May be he's just comeing back to the dating game & dosen't want to rush himself rather than you. It may be he doesn't feel it's the right time in the relationship yet. Take it easy, go with the flow & COMMUNICATE!!
2007-02-26 11:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him inside, or whatever the equivalent is in your circumstances, or just ask him, or make it clear that if he tried something you won't say no.
Whatever is clear without being too uncomfortable for either of you.
2007-02-26 11:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously Likes and respects you.Let him make the first move.
2007-02-26 11:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by face ache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-02-26 11:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋