Im 14, and Ive been through a few boy friends but I've had to dump them all because all they wanted from me is sex. What is up with that why do boys act that way? I allways feel uncomfertable after they ask me that, so I have to break up with them and then I never talk to them again.
But what is a good age for me to loose my virginity and when is a good time, for any of that sexual stuff?
I know my friend has done it and I asked her about it she said the first time it will hurt but the next couple times it will feel awsome. But that doesnt really help me. I look around and every one is coupled up and I hear they do sexual things but I wonder to my self how did they know it is the right time, why did they choose that time, and how did they know each other was right for each other?
If you guys know anything let me know PLEASE!
2007-02-26 11:10:25 · 20 answers · asked by Fearless Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm ppl when it is my first time, I will use protection DUH
2007-02-27 10:14:10 · update #1
I wouldn't have sex. The only thing I would do is huge or kiss if she wanted. I'm 14 almost 15. will you go out with me
2007-03-06 09:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by afdsaffadsfafafa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa that is crazy...when I was 14 nothing like that was going on between couples. The first time I did anything was 16 and now when I think back, I wish I would've waited. I'm 18 and am very committed in a relationship and sex is something that we don't want to do because of the risk of having a baby. I think you should wait...atleast til after high school.
2007-02-26 11:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time is when you feel it's the right time. Boys are mostly looking for the story of the act so he'll look like a big man to his friends. So let them know up front no means no and you'll decide when sex will be in the relationship. Just keep dumping the "forcers"
2007-02-26 11:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by wvgsxrryder 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age is just a number. What is important here is how mature you are. (I think you are a few years too young,but this is my opinion)
ask your self these questions:
1. Am I ready to accept the responsibility of the possible out comes such as pregnancy, diseases and how weird it can make your relationship with the guy if you did it too soon?
2. can you talk to your parents about getting contraceptives?
3. better yet, can you talk to the guy about contraceptives and what would happen if you were to get pregnant.
4. Are you in love? If not, you are not doing it for the right reasons.
any feelings of uncomfort are a red flag that YOU AREN"T READY...but there ARE nice boys out there that don't expect sex. look for them.
2007-02-26 11:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish at 15 I knew then what I know now, It probobly would have changed my whole life. Im sure that goes for almost everyone in their mid 20's. I would have concentrated more on myself and what I wanted to become later in life, instead I let hormones and pressure get to me. Just be smart and think of yourself and not what other people are doing or think you should be doing, besides why do you want to risk getting your heart broken, pregnant , STD's or any other kind of emotional or physical diseases. My advice to you is to wait till you know exactly what you want YOUR life to be, and if you cant answer that question yet then give yourself all the time you need, DONT RUSH!!!
2007-02-27 07:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by violet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First 14 is NOT a good age to loose your virginity. I waited until I was 20, which I regreted. You'll find somebody that you care about, but you just have to be patient.
2007-03-06 07:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Blue Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are not ready for sex. You should stick to your principals as you have been doing. If anybody tells you EVERYBODY is doing it, tell them to go find everybody and do it with them.
The right time for sexual activity is after you have found someone who you love and trust enough to spend a lifetime with together. This means marriage. You'll be so glad you waited for the person who values you enough to commit to you in the highest conceivable way; marriage. Don't settle for anything less.
You are 14. Enjoy being a young teen and don't be influenced by friends who think that sex and dating go together. They don't.
2007-02-26 11:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE AT ANY AGE IS FORNICATING
but you know its very unfortunate to hear that these young girls are already involved in sexual activities at such a young age these days its very rare to hear that someone is waiting for marriage to have sex and all that other stuff people who wait esp these days with all the sex in movies media EVERYWHERE i think they are very strong people and they stand firm in what they want to do so i say dont give in to peer pressure and dont follow the crowd your friends are going into the wrong path and eventually when they enter high school one of them is going to end up with an STD or pregnant NOT a good way to start off the teen/young adult years of your life having to deal with all that
2007-02-26 11:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask you're definitely not ready. The boys are young and out for what you girls give. Just continue like you are doing and don't let anyone convince you of anything you don't want to do. Boys also have some pretty vulgar names for girls that go all the way!!
2007-02-26 11:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by ann m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some guys like to use girls and then leave them......don't let any guy take advantage of u by forcing u to have sex.........your too young and u can mess up your body starting that early to where if u wanted kids in the future it wouldn't happen i know a girl that started at that age and can't have kids and caught an std the first time she did it.......be careful don't rush wait until your older
2007-02-26 11:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋