My boyfriend who has been having a stressful time at work, is going through a major career change, looking for a new job as he's unhappy with his current one is upset with me. He explained to me that he is under a lot of stress and pressure and he said he might not be as available as normally. I said I will let him focus but I did not, I called him, I texted him, I cried and questioned him about his feelings and the relationship. At first he was patient but then he got upset with me 2 days ago as I told him that I dont feel special. He has two big interviews coming up near my city and he told me that we will meet then but this was prior to him getting upset with me for my neediness. I said I was sorry but he said that I always say that but nothing ever changes. He said it's really hard for him. I did not hear from him since yesterday. I said I will give him the time to concentrate but I worry so much that I upset him and pushed him away. I want to contact him but should I?
2007-02-26 11:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! You're being "too clingy", and needy. Give him some space. If he loves you, it won't be a problem, he'll be back. If he doesn't love you, then he was never "yours" anyway. Good Luck!!
2007-02-26 11:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that going thru any kind of life change ,such as a new career can be stressful and that by calling him and telling him that you dont feel special just adds to the stress. You need to just back off and wait til things quiet down for him. He has alot on his mind and needs to focus and right now your just interfering. When all is done with his interviews ,whether or not he gets the job, just be there for him,whatever happens. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 20:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by laddrjok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok look... i don't mean to sound rude. but give the guy some space. how long have you 2 been together??? guys have a hard time doing stuff and the last thing they need is you texting calling and everything all the time. now i'm a girl and i can see their side.text mayb once or something. if you have any ?'s or anything you need real help you can e-mail me ash_jo@frontiernet.net and i will help. just let him get through what he wants and support him. BUT if it takes forever and he is being a complete jerk to you. don't wait. he should also be able to at least make some time for you two.
2007-02-26 20:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by ashley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong and wait if and when he is ready he'll call. i'm going thru something similar and at first I called all the time and got no responses at all now I wait and the conversations are doing better but if they stop again i keep my head up
2007-02-26 19:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by miami_love_305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, he needs some space....pray for him....prayer opens the door for God to work in our lives.....Jesus loves you
2007-02-26 19:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You will push him away if you keep calling him give him some time and space if he LOVES you then he will call.
2007-02-26 19:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-27 10:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont trust him.............LEAVE HIM!
2007-02-26 19:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Simmi Reds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋