I need help....?

Question

I need to get over my ex.
Ive cared about him for 2 years now, and we've been off and on. But last september we got commited and serious. He was my first love, my first SERIOUS boyfriend, and my first, sexually. Now it's over..and i need to get over him. Everyone tells me that i need to stop talking to him, but theres always a piece of me that wants us to be together again, and i miss him so much if i dont talk to him for a week. Its so freaking hard..he's screwed me over so much but im still in love with him and i can always forgive him. He goes from wanting to be with me and working things out to not, and wanting us to be friends. He tells me we're just friends and to talk to whoever i want, then gets pissed and says "Whatever, im wasting my time, bye" when i give my number to a guy. What should i do??? :[

Answer 1

Its like you have taken a page out of my life. I have the same. My ex is hot one day then cold the next. I always seem to miss him more but then he phones me up just to chat. I also hope we will get back together one day, but I need him to make that choice coz I have already.

The best thing to do is to give it time. If you just got over him in a week then you never really loved him. Infact you probably will never get over him because you have given him a piece of your heart. You just learn how to live with the pain. But if you try your hardest to stay out of contact with him you do learn how to live with the pain until you alomst dont even notice it any more. But every time you see or speak to him it brings the pain to the surface again.

But I know what its like, you just HAVE to see him or speak to him.

Give it time.