If your girl cheated on you because she thought you were playing her out would you forgive her or never to talk to the b*$ch again after over 4 years of wonderful love making, real love just rocky times and 1 bad f*^k up that I mentioned. please be honest because I lOVE my now ex and want to know if I should wait for him because he kicked me out
2007-02-26 11:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by miami_love_305 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody deserves a second chance...Its just with that some peoples mindset, they can't give that to you. Most circumstances are similar, or have the same reasons for being apart, but if the other person don't wanna let you back in, you just don't get back in. Let him miss you for a little while....You don't forget memories.
2007-02-26 14:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on the nature of the relationship. After 4 years, I think it would be hard for me to break up with a girl. But it depends on how much the cheating hurt me and how I felt.
Don't necessarily wait for him.
Let him know you're sorry.
Let him know the door is open and you want the relationship back and it was all a mistake.
Take some time to work on yourself and see if he wants what you want. If you two are not looking for the same thing, then it won't work.
2007-02-26 11:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years is a long time to invest into a relationship just to toss it out for one single mistake, imho, but there was obviously a lack of trust to begin with if there was that suspicion of playing. In a few circumstances, I'd say a mistake is a mistake and can be forgiven, although the trust would be diminished. But because of the reason for the cheating, that is what would probably convince me to stay away.
We're all different, but I wouldn't go back to a trustless relationship personally. I hope things work out for you in the future, with or without him. Good luck!
2007-02-26 11:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully i would never talk to the gurl again period so if u messed up then im sorry but as guys its very hard for us to forgive for instance my bestfriends cousin liked a girl so much after 6 years of seeing oneanother they got enagaged and 2 months into their engagement she got caught cheating and she got spotted making out with another guy she said it was only that she has never had sex with any1 else it was a mistake she made after all those years and it wont ever happen again. good news is every1 believed her including her fiance and his family but bad news is he still dumped her after. its very hard and unforgiving.they say thw woman nmakes teh man so tahts y the standard is so much higher for women because if people find out the woman is like taht u cant expect much from the man now. and plus as u and i know soceity is more forgiving to guys about this stuff tahn it is to girls. and by the way im only if so yeah and the break up occured just about 2 and a half months ago what a recent story.
2007-02-26 11:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that are ready to settle on one woman want to be with stable, caring, trustworthy women. They don't want to be around women that play games or that are drama queens (we could just be doing what we usually do, hopping from woman to woman if we were looking for that.) What is the point of settling with someone that uses her vagina to settle disagreements instead of talking like a mature adult?
2007-02-26 12:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Meekha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cheat, you're history. If you have a problem with me, talk to me about it don't just go hop in someone elses bed. Find a new man and learn from your mistakes.
2007-02-26 11:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by fat_albert_999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd be in the mood to forgive any time soon.
I'd give it time, but re-starting relationships is a tough choice
I think you shouldn't have pulled such a drastic maneuver.
Obviously, you didn't think of the immediate consequences
2007-02-26 11:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sorry Brah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on me? See ya. Too much self respect to hang around. Too many women to worry about one that cheated.
2007-02-26 11:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you cheated, move on and find a guy who you care about enough not to cheat. Believe me honey, once you cheat on him it will be easy to do it again and again. Respect yourself and find a guy who respects you.
2007-02-26 11:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Melby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal is just that regardless of the reason. I mean you didn't even have any proof of anything he might have been doing.
I would never have anything to do with a woman who did that to me.
2007-02-26 11:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋