Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

There was this guy from uni that flirt with me he touched my hands and wanted to go further, I didn't react to his flirts because he has a girlfriend. He helped me with uni work but I didn't pay him back. Did I make right decision not to sleep with him?

2007-02-24 03:15:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i confessed to my girl that i like her......but our school is only till 10th standard and the public exams are in a week.....i manage to muster up all my courage as one of my classmates to whom i confined this secret recorded it and threatened to play it to my girl and he thought that she would slap me...........but unfortunately she is moving out of town and i'll miss her a lot.....i managed to confess and she told that she can't do anything as she is moving.....but now as the matter has spread to even her best friend and a few other boys in the class she has stopped coming online or invisible to me i dunno...she has also stopped replying to all my smses..........WHAT AM I TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-24 03:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife of 25 years left to the united states, 3 years ago. We were married in Belgium and we had 4 children all registered as US citizens with the us embassy in Brussels. I can not get divorced in Belgium from her without a lengthy and costly procedure. Meanwhile I have obtained a copy of her new marriage license from the County in Texas where she lives. In that document she used her married name and not her maiden name to get married.
Surely this is not legal to start with as it involves a false statment as to her identity. Secondly she is still married technicaly we have not gotten divorced so this is also according to the law illegal.
I would like to know to whom i should address myself to commence legal proceedings, or file a complaint.
thanks

2007-02-24 03:15:07 · 7 answers · asked by rastabasta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our was the love marriage and we have completed 5 yrs of it.There was a girl in our neighbour whose brother was my husbands ver good friend and my hubby had very good terms with that family and i had even talked to that family ever. After 2 mnths of our marriage i came to know that girl likes my hubby earlier before my marriage and also my man tell me abt this to me before my marriage.From that day i started feeling insecure abt my relation when my hubby goes to their home and when i talk to him over this he says that girl was his very good friend and sister too.But 3 to 4 times i saw that girl p.number on my hubby phone and we have fight over it and my man says there was no such affair b/w them.The very recent thing was that my man go to that girl engagement party and comes late night with their family and that girl came in my hubby's car along with his cousin brother who was sitting at back seat.Why that girl won't come in other cars even when there were 4-5 cars with their relatives

2007-02-24 03:13:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If I think that every day and been doing so for the last five years, do you reckon it's time to leave?

2007-02-24 03:12:38 · 23 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last month when she sent me a mail. It was abt her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me

2007-02-24 03:12:02 · 13 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

This is kind of a long story. But please listen and give me some advice.

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 16 months, and have been happy as two larks! I've never even thought of anybody else, and the idea of cheating has not once crossed my mind.

Over the summer, I met one of my guy's close friends, who goes to a different school. I thought nothing of this guy, but I saw him again at a school b-ball game and then again on the Super Bowl at my boyfriend's house, and always see him when I visit my guy. It's been scaring me, I like him more every time I see him, and go back and forth between him and by b/f.

Then there's a guy friend. We're just friends, but I can see us being more than that.

I know the right thing to do is to break up with my guy and think about this, but I'm afraid that he won't want me back if I decide it's him I want. I know it's wrong, but I want to stay with him because he's such a good boyfriend. What am I supposed to do? <3

2007-02-24 03:11:09 · 41 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 03:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy i know. And i like him alot but i'm not sure if he really likes me back. The reason i think he does is, that he's always telling me that i'm beautiful and hot. He told me that if he dated me than he'd treat me right. Yesterday he told me that it'd be easy for me to get a guy because i'm beautiful and smart, and he said he wants to hangout with me more. The reasons i dont believe he likes me is because he told me that he really likes this girl that he thinks is really hot. and hopes to date her sometime. He also spent valentines day with her. I'm not too sure if he likes me. What do u think? i hope this didnt confuse you.

2007-02-24 03:09:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 03:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by Nilesh S 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I be annoyed or just grateful that she is keeping quiet??

2007-02-24 03:07:51 · 25 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have not cheated on my wife, but a girl at work wants me bad and has made it quite known....I have conversed with her through email and text....with tons of sexual inuendos.....but things have gotten out of hand....almost incriminating......however I do no want to hurt my (pregnant) wife....I have 2 beautiful children and expectin the third in a few months.

I am going to tell this girl that things have gone to far and I need to back off and stop the flirting. I have pre written an email to my wife explaining all that has happened so that in the event this girl wants to get me in trouble i have it documented...

should i give her the email now???

help

2007-02-24 03:07:42 · 15 answers · asked by scriptseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe that kids "are just going to have $ex whether you tell them not to or not."? Do you think kids are going to ignore you, or do you think that if you set the standard high, then kids will rise to that level? I'd appreciate any opinions you have and any correspondance with you. If there are any teenagers on this, I'd love your opinions too. Let me know what your age range is.

2007-02-24 03:07:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and im really attracted to him. hes cute, smart, athletic, and funny. we talk in school sometimes and make major eye contact, but he just doesnt seem to know that im into him. i dont want to be too forward so what do i do??

2007-02-24 03:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by rvl 3 in Singles & Dating

everytime she say that she is sad i ask her whats wrong and she always say nothing or "i dont want to talk about it". she never opens herself to me. how do help her when she is sad if she never tells me how she feels.

2007-02-24 03:06:12 · 15 answers · asked by rick b 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a mutual attraction between me and my boss. However, I can't stop thinking about how a possible relationship with him could actually ruin my future if it doesn't turn out well. This is actually my first job and I don't want to lose it but so far I've found it very difficult to find someone I like and admire to be attracted to me as well, so I wouldn't like to throw this chance away too. What do you think I should do?

2007-02-24 03:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Singles & Dating

and when i ask him he gets all defensive ad says i dont trust him at all i am wondering if i should call her and ask her what her about her relationship with my husband what do u think

2007-02-24 03:05:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a pretty girl, not gorgeous, but def not ugly. I'm fit, I'm smart, I'm nice, but I don't go out an party. I'm 18 and my prom's coming up in 2 months.
I know this guy from work who's 20. I've known him for a year and he's always been nice to me and I'm not sure if he flirts with me, but sometimes I think he likes me. Other times I'm sure I'm imagining it.
What I want to know is: Should I ask him to prom as a FRIEND? He's gorgeous but he's a partier (drinks, smokes- i don't) and he might turn me down cold bc I'm not really in the same place in my life. And if I ask him, what should I say?
What would you do? Seriously? I don't want to screw things up (make things get awkward, never have him talk to me again, etc) but I don't want to miss out on this chance for an amazing night. It really would mean the world to me if he came with me. I don't know who else I'd go with.. Thanks so much for your help.

2007-02-24 03:05:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been in a relationship with this girl whom ive been friends since we were kids. ive just turned 17 n shez 15. We were very close even when we wernt goin out when were much younger but we began havin a relationship last year and we both feel we bought out da best in eachother, we had our gd times n everyfin, n loved eachother so much but since her parents have found out all deyve dun is just make us break up. we recently got back together but her mum found out and has now broken us up again. i jus dnt know wht to do now it hurts alot, we love eachother so much n we do talk about it bt i dunno what to do now, her parents have known me since i was born literally im sure theyve had plenty of years to know that im nt a bad guy n i dnt have bad intentions, all i want is just da best 4 her. i reeli dnt want 2 lose her n neither does she but i jus dunno what to do now ??????

2007-02-24 03:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 25 year old male and because of my family upbringing have never been with a girl-having been taught to save myself for marriage.I am 6 foot 3 inches and am both a professional basketball player and qualified lawyer.
Girls say I am good looking and now 2 very pretty Swedish blonds want to show me what it's all about.
What should I do ??
Will I regret it and feel ashamed afterwards?

2007-02-24 03:03:10 · 8 answers · asked by bearbrain 5 in Singles & Dating

when men said that " I really like you" what would you do next?

Do you believe what he said?

2007-02-24 03:02:27 · 6 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1 in Singles & Dating

There's one boy and he NOW being nice to and I had 2 hug him because he wanted me to hug.......usally he was mean and acting a jerk but NOW he's nice to me does he like me or not???if you say yes ok if u say no im all rite with it

2007-02-24 03:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by young_lil_jada 1 in Singles & Dating

Please be real. Don't say what u think is acceptable.
When u meet someone of course u automatically notice skin complexion. U notice skin complexion regardless of who u talk to. However do u have different ideas of people just because of that? Do u feel like dating someone who is lighter or darker than u is out of the question? What about just being friends? Is it more acceptable to date someone who is lighter/darker than u as long as both of u share what society calls "race."(for example: is it more acceptable for a light complexioned latina woman to date a darker complexioned latino man than it would be for her to date a "black" man -OR- for a white man to date a white woman instead of a light complexioned black woman?). What r your thoughts & experiences.

2007-02-24 03:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Singles & Dating

I have broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years a few months ago and I have ALOT of pictures and stuff on "our" computer (my computer now). I hate looking at them, but I'm not sure if I totally wanna get rid of 'em either. They're all mixed in with my other pictures. Should I create a separate folder for them (but then that'd be weird because it'd be labeled with our names, or should I delete them all, but then I won't ever get to look at them. I just want them out of my sight when I'm viewing other pics.

2007-02-24 02:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by aslgirl143 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 02:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by Rick Oh 1 in Family

2007-02-24 02:59:03 · 7 answers · asked by Brianna H 1 in Singles & Dating

we are in 2 different countries. i cannot understand what is he thinking? why would a guy tell a gal he got sick, feeling bad at work, yet, never mention what is his feelings towards her... does he like me and just fear to say, or am I thinking too much?

2007-02-24 02:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyone has this problem, and everyone can offer advice, until it's themselves in the hot seat.
so...my best friend, who happens to be a guy...i fear i'm falling for...fast....But he happens to be quite popular with the ladies, and has a few already fighting for him. We tell each other everything, and I feel as though he's perfect...Everyone already assumes that were dating, but we're both to shy to confront each other about it..awkward huh? what should i do?

thanks.....

2007-02-24 02:57:59 · 15 answers · asked by kat. 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for two years. And it seems every time we plann a trip for us something comes up. I am a very understanding person, but if he takes this trip I will be very upset and hurt.

2007-02-24 02:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by cookie2207 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay here's my story. I am 15 and i was going out with a guy for a year and he was my first and i really did love him and he loved me at first and then he cheats on me out of the blue and i really want to forgive him cause u kno we're young and everyone makes mistakes but i just can't get over the fact that he did that to me. But he wants to be friends but i just don't know how to be friends with someone i had so much love for. so what's a gurl to do?

2007-02-24 02:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by Destinee S 1 in Singles & Dating