There was this guy from uni that flirt with me he touched my hands and wanted to go further, I didn't react to his flirts because he has a girlfriend. He helped me with uni work but I didn't pay him back. Did I make right decision not to sleep with him?
2007-02-24 03:15:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleeping with him is not a way to pay him back. Any help you received from him is not worth compromising your morals.
2007-02-24 03:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you ABSOLUTLEY made the right decision. You should live by the 18/3month rule. Don't have sex until you're 18 and don't sleep with anyone until you've dated them for 3 months. I have 5 sisters (all older than me) and this rule would have saved them A LOT of tears through the years.
Slainte,
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2007-02-24 03:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by chicagodan1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you did!!! He got a girl already? If you went all the way, all you have become would be a side dish...a extra on the side, nothing more. Good for you to say no. You want to give that to someone that truly cares for you and is NOT dating some other girl. Wait for the guy that you going to be with the rest of your life.
2007-02-24 03:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great decision!! I hope there is alot of young ladies that read your question today. You don't have to sell yourself for people to do things for you. You should be very proud of yourself and never question if you made the right decision. You not only kept your self respect and dignity, you thought about someone elses feelings (his girlfriend). Hats off to you young lady!!!!!
2007-02-24 03:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-24 03:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by dixidan_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-24 03:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did, as you said he has a girlfriend and if you had slept with him it wouldn't have been anything than that (and he would have thought and could have told other people that you are easy). So good for you, you did do the right thing
2007-02-24 03:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He helped u in uni work just to take advantage from u.
U make a right decision.
One should save their virginity before marriage.
2007-02-24 03:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Naren_RocksU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think?
signed:the guy from the uni
-) now seriously i am really interested in knowing this and why you want to know that
2007-02-24 03:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by freemind ci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you made a right decision
he got a girlfriend and you do not need to pay him back by sleeping with him, just because he helped you with your work
2007-02-24 03:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋