Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

This man, retired, travels all over the world, using a false profile telling he's a widow, "good income" (and his bad credits??), luring Asian, C.& S. Amer. to move with him. Then after some weeks he leaves them behind, no money, no visa, no food, do not pay immigration lawyers, his rental contract, his worn-out things can't be sold, no plane tickets back to their countries, he has free maids while he's searching for new targets.... Then he goes back to his fifth wife, they have a weird, sexless (he can't!), no love, just an "open, modern" marriage. They have met many years ago when married to other people but together since then....

Pls. tell us how can we warn those innocent ladies abroad, so they can avoid legal problems, pain, sorrow after selling their things in their hometown, maybe leaving their jobs behind, following his sick dreams...that only last a few weeks while he's actin as a tourist using their cars.

Then one day, without any warning...Plufttt !!! He is gone....

2007-02-24 02:55:03 · 8 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-24 02:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by mitchel mussos girlfrann 1 in Friends

he LIKES me and we live far away but STILL he takes weeks to reply to my emails. loser.

2007-02-24 02:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do, i love this girl more than anything in the world, and she spat me out like a apple core onto a pile of manure.

2007-02-24 02:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by fraz 1 in Singles & Dating

well, I think I'm marrying him for the wrong reasons, it's not that I hate him, I like him, but I don't really wanna marry him
but I'm just marrying him for the wrong reasons........I don't even know what's my question.....there is no question, I just wanted to tell someone and breaaaaaaaaaaaathe lol.

2007-02-24 02:52:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girlfriend over the phone and the girlfriend I have now overheard it.
She stormed out of the house and said that we were over. I didn't
know she was there or I would have never done it.
I don't think I should be in trouble since I did not actually do anything. I didn't actually meet with the ex or anything.
What should I do since I don't want to break up with my girlfriend?

2007-02-24 02:51:58 · 18 answers · asked by Don 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 02:51:31 · 21 answers · asked by jesmond h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-24 02:51:09 · 16 answers · asked by girl_next_door_red 3 in Singles & Dating

im scared to tell her because what if she dosent like me and then ill end up embarrassing my self what shall i do

2007-02-24 02:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by sheuxnyk 2 in Singles & Dating

when did David Blunkett marry

2007-02-24 02:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The girls who I think r cute or have a little something going for them r no problem. The ones who i talk to and think r great or who I think r really good looking r the ones who I can only sometimes hook up with. I don't act differently to them just because I think that they r more attractive so I know that it's not some signal that i'm sending out. What do u think? Has this happened to u. Maybe it's a "coincidence."

2007-02-24 02:50:09 · 6 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Friends

last night my bf's friend(who has a major crush on me) and brother me and my friends were all playing truth or dare me and my bf had no idea what was going on
but then my bf's friend asked me truth or dare .........i said truth
he asked me if i had ever cheated on my bf i said no 'cause i haven't but before i answered the question my boyfriend left the table for no reason
then 5 minutes later i'm asked again and i said truth
since my boyfriend had left the table and still hasn't returned
my bf's brother asked me if i truely loved my bf and i said yes then they told my boyfriendand after that he started acting nicer to me
then we were making a joke and sat so close together that our legs were rubbing against eachother
then my friend screamed.......................PDA!!!!!!!!(public display of affection
and we all laughed but then after that we went back to sitting five inches apart and he kept getting closer to me and it felt wierd
can you help me??

2007-02-24 02:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by killerqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy in my lyf,,we both love each other.. n wants to get married,, his parents dont hv any probs,, n i hv told my mom abt him...how shud i tell my dad who are against love marriage...dat i love smone.. my luv says dat he cudn't also do anything but i hv to tel my parents first,,as there is no third person who can make our parents meet as friends,,n talk about me and him,, n also my dad is on the highest post in a gurudwara,, i m also scared of his reputation bcoz everyone will talk rubbish abt him but i'll talk to my dad,,, how shud i start my talk?? i hv told my mom...but she said she will not talk on my behalf to dad... PLZ HELP ME?.......

2007-02-24 02:48:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We give the kids $20 a week allowance for helping around the house. I wonder if we should change to no allowance but pay them for jobs they do that we would hire out if they didn't do it. Like mowing the yard, cooking dinner, etc. They are teenagers.

2007-02-24 02:48:18 · 13 answers · asked by answer lady 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy and I'm shy. Is this a turn off to most guys, why and how do I build more confidence for myself if it is?

2007-02-24 02:47:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During spring break.

We live in New Jersery, and my parents want to take a trip to california.

Me and my brother are both in high school. i am in 10th and he is in 12th


at first, he didnt want to go either,
but now he does
and i dont

its all of spring break, and that mean i wont see my friends, or my boyfriend that i have been with for 8 months.

i really dont want to go away.

but i dont know what to tell them!

What do i do?!

Should i go?
i dont have a cell phone, so how would i talk to my friends/ boyfriend?

what should i do??

2007-02-24 02:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by Sharon 2 in Friends

we have a 4 yr old and a 5 yr old who are "NOT" quiet sometimes , yes we can be a bit loud when its 6 or 7 in the evening and 2 or 3 times a week at theese times our upstairs neighbours really bang on the floor sometimes its unbeleivable the way they bang loud (im sure they use a hammer) my wife tries to keep the kids quiet telling them the neighbours will bang but i say to hell with them if they think we are going to change our lifestyle to suit their needs , make more noise boys , our neighbours are a 30 something couple and often have wild parties at 2 and 3 in the morning and we hear everything , gauranteed evere friday and satarday night theres ALLOT of noise fighting , shouting , banging doors and i dont know what,,,,,, how do these kind of neighbours justify their selfs to being such hipacrits , have you had these kind of neighbours , what can i do , what should i not do , thanks for any comments :)

2007-02-24 02:46:44 · 22 answers · asked by insenergy 5 in Friends

Of Led Zeppelin

2007-02-24 02:46:28 · 2 answers · asked by David 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm single and I would like to date, but I spend my days working (sorry, no cute coworkers) and my evenings and weekends with my kids. I rarely go out and I haven't seen a decent man in ages. So it seems that dating sites are my only option. But somehow I feel like a loser that I can't find a man in real life and worse: i feel the guys might be not be worth a try. Can anybody help me out here?

2007-02-24 02:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by bahamian.beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend matt 's is in 8th grade and yesterday our school went bowling. when we were bowling i realized i was over this other guy that i have liked for a while and i liked matt. the only thing was is that our dads (matts dad and my dad) are best friends and they have been best friends since middleschool. so i have known matt my enitre life. and i think it might be weird if i like him....HELP ME!!!!!

2007-02-24 02:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by toppercheerleader2012 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if I understand the concept of having a sponsor at a wedding. What is it exactly and what do they do? Do they have to be related? Also, if they contribute to the wedding, approximately how much do they give?
I am just curious about this because I have recently attended a wedding where the bride had several sponsors, about 25 or so... and it seemed strange to me.
Thanks for the help everyone,
God Bless,
- Vida

2007-02-24 02:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by babs_bunnii 1 in Weddings

do men like it..?

2007-02-24 02:43:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy who i have really been falling for has given me good reason 2. He tries to hold my hand, calls me hunnie, babe, etc.. , tells me he likes me, basically leads me to believe he really feels for me! So the other day me and my best friend were talking and sitting beside each other and he comes up and starts talking to us and then goes "You look really beautiful today" to my best friend! and doesnt even say anything to me...and i tried not to get angry over it, but couldnt hold my feelings back...so the rest of the day i was really b*tchy to him and stand offish. Am i overreacting? I mean he tells me im beautiful and stuff sometimes..but it really pulls my self esteem down when he flat out says it to my best friend and doesnt even aknowledge me! Help me out here?? what do you think??

2007-02-24 02:43:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a letter I composed to send to my Father which points out several incidents of physical and psychological abuse he caused as i was growing up. This letter does NOT contain any threats of physical harm, illegal activity or profanity. In this letter I rebut his denial of these events which he flat out denies. He has accused my mother and uncle of planting these images in my head and i want to send him a letter to impeach his denial. Can he press harassment charges? He has NOT made any statements that i should not contact him.

2007-02-24 02:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm inlove and he is really nice.but i already went out with him now what.i really like him.and i can't stop thinking about him.please help me

2007-02-24 02:43:18 · 1 answers · asked by ally 1 in Singles & Dating

So ihavent talked to this guy directly in a while, but basically i like him and he stare/watches me and tries to make me jealous and gets mad when i dont awknowledge him. He is getting fed up with my friends asking him if he likes me.. He told one friend he doesnt wanna be labeled as friends, but told others he doesnt like me. Hes getting upset, and i know he has feelings for me as more than a friend. We've always avoided the topic. I dont understand, if he thinks of me as justa friend, then what is he doing?

2007-02-24 02:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by funstuff7 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 10 yrs. in TX. He has DWI's and domestic vilonce charge...He has since stopped drinking (sober 1 yr), I took him back 5 yrs ago afeter he left me one weekend and moved in w/ a married woman from work. I took my kids and myself, moved closer to his family, he came back 4 months later, treated me like crap, rubbed it in my face, I left again once for 9 mo. once for 3 mo. all separations were drug out by him. Now 1 yr & on the 5 yr. anniversary of his affair he is moving out. I am looking 4 work now & he says he's paying my bills. He did pay most of them, so far. He is staying here, but took his ring off 4 days ago & now tonight he is going out already. Our kids are 2, 6 and 10. He plays music and wants to be able to be free to play with friends w/out me. He has never included me in his circle. I sew, cook, clean, bake, take care of the kids, drug/drink free... But I am angry he has never faced up to the issues. he refuses counceling, says there is no hope?

2007-02-24 02:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by 30YrOldPTAMomof3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

right i had been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we decided to cool it a little as we were arguing quite a bit. we never said were not getting back together. As the time went on we got closer and closer i took her out for valentines day and was really happy. Just as i fort we mite get back together she kissed some other guy when out. i dnt no what to do now. i still want her. is revenge the best answer or wud this be stupid? she says she regrets it and loves me but isnt ready to get back wwith me.


any ideas what i should do?

2007-02-24 02:40:27 · 15 answers · asked by matty morris 1 in Singles & Dating

1/ Stone Age, 2/ Old West, 3/ Roaring 20's. What would have been your profession?

2007-02-24 02:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-24 02:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family