right i had been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we decided to cool it a little as we were arguing quite a bit. we never said were not getting back together. As the time went on we got closer and closer i took her out for valentines day and was really happy. Just as i fort we mite get back together she kissed some other guy when out. i dnt no what to do now. i still want her. is revenge the best answer or wud this be stupid? she says she regrets it and loves me but isnt ready to get back wwith me.
any ideas what i should do?
2007-02-24 02:40:27 · 15 answers · asked by matty morris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let this female play you. The fighting and kissing of another guy is just the beginning and all trust is lost. Just move on with your life , there other females out there that are willing to torment your life.
2007-02-24 02:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate yourselves. She's probably scared. She had some freedom, took advantage of it, but then supposedly regrets it. On the other hand, if she really loved you, she'd be ready to get back with you. I'm no fan of ultimatums, but tell her that you want a relationship with her, and if she doesn't you'll look for a relationship elsewhere. You can't let her make all the decisions.
2007-02-24 10:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Weezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge would make it worse, it would ruin any chance you may have with her. I'm sure she still has feelings for you, just because she kissed another guy doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Give her the time and space she needs, you've told her how you felt, so let things cool down for a bit.
2007-02-24 10:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by funstuff7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO REVENGE!! revenge only leads to bigger worse things! Maybe you, yourself, should start seeing some other people too. She's not ready to get back together with you and you should respect that. Move on, see what else it out there and maybe, you'll find someone better.
Nice pic:)
2007-02-24 10:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viginace is my, say's the Lord. Well if she said she's sorry, forgive her. If she's doing it more then like 5 times, then something ain't right. Maybe you can make her jeaulos. On second thought, that's useing people. Let her go if she ain't coming back. Maybe in the furture she's regered it and crow back to you. If only we had the Delorean from Back To The Furture so you can go ahead in time if she's cheating on you.
2007-02-24 10:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats best is to try and beat the other guy at his own game, take her out to dinner maybe. Be more sensitive. Get a new girlfreind who has the same trouble as you then make your girlfreind jelous. but remember you dont want to hurt her then shell never go out with you ever again so just keep it cool.
2007-02-24 10:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. fact is that she isn't trustworthy and she may have done this in the 3 years you were together, you never know.
basically you need to take control... distance yourself from her, make her seem like 'yeah whatever' 'i'm cool with that' kinda thing, just be vague.
she'll come running back to you.
hope it helps.
2007-02-24 10:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gareth B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, that if she does love you, but doesn't want to get back together then maybe you two should just remain friends. Or you can make her jealous! FIND A HOT BABE!
2007-02-24 11:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a chance to see unfaithfulness at first before you have gotten deeply involved my advise don't trust her and mooooovee on!
2007-02-24 10:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she truly loved u she would not kiss another guy. i say dump her nad find some one that is worthy of your love. if she can kiss someone in front of u how do u know if she has slept with someone else?
2007-02-24 10:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋