Am I overreacting?????

Question

This guy who i have really been falling for has given me good reason 2. He tries to hold my hand, calls me hunnie, babe, etc.. , tells me he likes me, basically leads me to believe he really feels for me! So the other day me and my best friend were talking and sitting beside each other and he comes up and starts talking to us and then goes "You look really beautiful today" to my best friend! and doesnt even say anything to me...and i tried not to get angry over it, but couldnt hold my feelings back...so the rest of the day i was really b*tchy to him and stand offish. Am i overreacting? I mean he tells me im beautiful and stuff sometimes..but it really pulls my self esteem down when he flat out says it to my best friend and doesnt even aknowledge me! Help me out here?? what do you think??

Answer 1

I smiled really big when I read your cry for help. you are sweet.
My instincts are telling me that your guy friends is trying to get reactions out of you. When he complimented your friend he was just trying to hit a nerve in you so you will be upset. I know it sounds a bit sodistic but he is probably thinking the same thing you are thinking but does not have the guts to confront you and tell you how he feels about you and want you to do it. So, next time you see him, take a deep breathe, chin up, be confident and if you are still angry than be angry....but tell him(don't ask) TELL him about your confusions and how you feel and what you want. If he tries to talk on top of you, take control and say "no, I'm speacking" and make him listen. He abviously likes you. you are just gonna have to be the man and the woman in your situation

Answer 2

Look friend.....sometimes we expect more from other person and when we don't get it we will feel neglected.As far as my thinking was concerned ur guy does the wrong thing.On the other hand,it was also possible that he don't even says that intensely or may be he don't think before he speaks that.It was not that thing if he says "beautiful" to u then he may not say this to anybody in the world ,it doesn't mean that he had some bad intensions abt that girl.Don't fight with him over this but let him realize the fact that he does the wrong thing ,ask him how he feels if u have done this to his very best friend in front of him.Then what he feels.....don't he feel neglected.

Answer 3

listen I'm a guy and we do weird things like that sometimes he was just trying to make you think that he could move on at any second and you better get him while you have a chance if he was thinking about someone else besides you he wouldn't have done it in front of you just don't let it bother you and if he brings the subject up say you don't care and it will reverse the situation good luck

Answer 4

The fact this man has been nice to you in the past does not mean he is obliged to be like that all the time, as it looks he is not committed to you. Maybe he just wants to be nice to you as he is with women he is attracted to... and do not let that affect your self-esteem!! People are always going to love you or hate you but you must know the only unconditional love we have is God's. Just be cool and do not let your hopes up with him, he is not worth it... remember actions speak louder than words.

Answer 5

well all guys love to play around like that with girls
the thing is will you fall for the bait
if he is always telling you, your pretty
he probably felt he had to tell some else for a change

just look at him as a friend or acquaintance

Answer 6

it sounds like he is just talking to you to get to your friend,and he is a bad guy for hurting you,he knows he's hurting your feelings, you should find a guy that will make you feel beautiful all the time

Answer 7

Tell him how you feel. Apologize for acting standoffish, but that it was in response to your feeling neglected. If you want a relationship with him, you need to start being honest now.

Answer 8

he probably thinks ur playing hard to get so just go with it