ive been in a relationship with this girl whom ive been friends since we were kids. ive just turned 17 n shez 15. We were very close even when we wernt goin out when were much younger but we began havin a relationship last year and we both feel we bought out da best in eachother, we had our gd times n everyfin, n loved eachother so much but since her parents have found out all deyve dun is just make us break up. we recently got back together but her mum found out and has now broken us up again. i jus dnt know wht to do now it hurts alot, we love eachother so much n we do talk about it bt i dunno what to do now, her parents have known me since i was born literally im sure theyve had plenty of years to know that im nt a bad guy n i dnt have bad intentions, all i want is just da best 4 her. i reeli dnt want 2 lose her n neither does she but i jus dunno what to do now ??????
2007-02-24 03:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
jus to let u all know with an update with us both, we spoke yesterday and its weird because we both agree on everything and how we both feel but she just kept on upseting me by speaking negatively about us by saying " what if we promise to stay together and fall in love with someone else?", and "what if our familys dont get along because of us?" i kept on tryin to assure her that only we can let that happen between us, she agrees with me and stuff and then she said to me she needs to think about it because of all that weve been through and i respected it and told her to take all the time she wants to think, i just feel reeli hurt because ive got a horrid feeling that she might leave now i just feel helpless about it all now, should i just leave her and not get hurt?? i love her so much, id do anything for her and would wait for her and she knows it, but ive got a horrid feeling that this is going to turn out to be a love tragedy for both of us and i dnt know how much more i can do.
2007-02-25 02:36:10 · update #1
How about waiting for some more time? Trust me, my Friend had the same kind of issue and now once again they talk on phone and their parents are not aware. I think, wait until you know more about your relationship. I may sound rough but sometimes what our parent's think is for our best (sometimes not as well). Anyways it's your life and yours alone. Still I'd say stay very good friends, deepen it and love seriously according to me we still do not know truly what it really is? (17 is too young.)
Ask your parents whether still staying as friends will be ok or not? I guess they will understand.
2007-03-04 02:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by rhyme2rbr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, i've been in this situation. So i really know what you are going through. Though I didn't know her from we were kids. If you or her are insecure about your relationship, there is no amount of assurance that would give her the emotional security. So first, STOP convincing her of positive things. Just listen to what she says, and see if you can be a good friend. Probably she might realize you are the guy.
Again, this happened to me when I was 20. You guys are young. Give it some time, be good friends, don't let go of each other. That's IMPORTANT. In my case, i tried convincing her so much that we don't even talk anymore. I realise now that having her as a friend is better than not having her at all :(
Good luck on your relationship, hope the best for you.
2007-03-04 02:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the parents & ask them why not.I think they are afraid of their daughter getting pregnant so reassure them that you will not disrespect her in that way & will wait for that type of relationship until she is an adult.Tell her parents that you are good for her because you can protect her~that she is safer with you than other guys because you are also her friend have have known her for such a long time that you would not let anything bad happen to her.And then,,stand by your word.
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2016-12-04 21:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her parents probably don't want her to be with anyone at her young age. I think you should continue to be good friends and when she is 16 or 17 maybe her parents will see that you two really want to be together. I really don't know what else to say except good luck and just be patient life is long and if you want to be together for real then wait for her or continue to talk to her and wait to see her until she can.
2007-02-24 03:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out why her parents aren't letting you two date. I tried dating someone who I knew for a long time but he was afraid to because he didn't want to ruin the friendship we had. But we both liked each other a lot. Talk to her mom and dad. See what they have to say. Good luck =] I hope it works out.
2007-02-24 03:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to her parents and fid out why they don't want you to date her it could be a simple age thing they may even be afraid that you may only want her to take her virginity away and after that you may leave her and stuff. call and talk man to man with her dadand ssure him that you are not interested in any sexual behavior with her I hope this works for you I lost my first love and it shattered my heart and I have never loved anyone as much as I did him so I now how you feel
2007-03-02 13:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by mattsgurl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so where the fire if you love her as you say then you will wait for her go slow why rush show respect get to know each there as friend stop try to rush thing and you keep try to see her behind her parents back how can they trust you think before you act
2007-02-24 03:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels. i was in the same situation... they broke us up several times.. but we eventually stayed together, and we had to keep it secret from her parents. when she turned 18 we got married in another state, and we stayed away for 3 months, then her parents acme to our house and said everything is ok, so they accepted us.
2007-02-24 03:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents are nosey and overbearing!!! At 15 & 17 you are perfectly old enough to date.If you and her stay in touch anyway you will see that her parents are driving her away from them and not you!!!
2007-03-03 12:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋