Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

Hey guys n gals need some help here. I am in a text relationship with some one we have really strong feelings for each other. I have never felt so much for someone who i never met it is incredible. The feelings are the same on both sides...we both express love for another 3 days ago she left to go on a short term trip to the middle east... It kind of came up all of a sudden her grandfather is sick and her whole family is going and she made the decision to go. So when she told me it was 3 days before she left. They bought the soonest flights out. She was really sad crying for hours bc she wouldnt be able to talk to me.
We have not talked live on the phone yet and i have had a hard time with that. She said she would send me an email explaining more of her feelings. And why it is hard for her. The next day she said she didnt have time to email me but sent me a small letter in the mail. She flew out Wed and i still havent recieved the letter...

2007-02-23 17:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister is in 5th grade and is on a date right now with a 6th grader. Do you thnk that is too young? What do you think is the perfect age to start kissing and dating?

2007-02-23 17:35:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at school that I have a crush on because I think he's very cute. I've never talked to him [except when we sat next to each other in science & there was forced talk at times] but he knows who I am. I want to compliment him by saying "hey you look really nice today", but would he think that's weird? Any other suggestions? Thank you in advanced.

2007-02-23 17:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend (13years olg) has started goin out with a 19 year old from san diago....he is flying down nxt month...she has onli told me but im scared she mite get hurt or raped or somethin...should i b worried? coz i am...

2007-02-23 17:33:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel bad for my sister who going through a tough time now.

2007-02-23 17:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by skalkosa 3 in Family

I've been seeing this guy for a month and for the most part, everything is fine. We see one another about 2-3 times a week, and usually he'll at least text me every day to say hello. The relationship started slowly...he didn't even try to kiss me until the 5th date! There has been some progression in the last week or so...last weekend he brought me to his sister's house for a party and his son was with us also. It was the first time I met him or any of his family. He also invited me to go skiing with him and his son this weekend, which would lead me to believe that he's thinking of me as his girlfriend...even though we haven't discussed it. The thing is, I feel that although we're being cautious with one another and not rushing into anything, I wish he would call me once a day. The fact that he doesn't sometimes makes me wonder whether or not he's really interested in me. Am I being unrealistic? Should I just tell him how I feel?

2007-02-23 17:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by magnolia3246 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 17:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by dabig_man67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

long story short,i had this best friend of mine for about 9 years,we became friends in the 6th grade,and ended the friendship as a sophmore in college,like 1 week ago.anyway 9th grade i spilled my guts, told her how i felt about her,i was sincere,i really loved her. but she said no,in a nice way.she jumped from boyfriend to bf, one jerk after another, they hit her, emotionally abandoned her, and only hurt her.i loved her so much and wanted her to be my world. i was her best friend so i got to bring her roses,and take her to movies and dinner,and spend time with her without having to make up excuses as to why.but she could never see how much i wanted her..she broke my heart,it hurt alot and it still does.i just wanted a chance to make her happy,because i can tell it's not a feeling she's used to.i think mentally,i'm emotionally bankrupt,like i just give up,i believe i wasn't meant to be happy,i did my best & failed, so why would it be different with any other girl?

2007-02-23 17:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They told me if I watched too much television I would get square eyes. I've been watching for years, up close and everything and it hasn't happened. Also the wind changed and my face didn't stay like that!

2007-02-23 17:28:59 · 29 answers · asked by altered ego 3 in Family

What are some good, non -cheesy, non- sexual ways to makea girl blush? and remember NOT CHEESY AND NOT SEXUAL

2007-02-23 17:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by explodeum 1 in Singles & Dating

We really really like each other and he hugged me today and told me that he loved me and always would but idk if his mom and my dad would agree to it so i need advice.

2007-02-23 17:26:14 · 23 answers · asked by softballpleya4life 1 in Singles & Dating

These 4 men i know i got with seperately, just to see how each and every problem got settled in 4 different ways......many different situations and come to find out ones to young and not mature enough,ones to far away and lives in new york and i will never get to see him to expencive,ones to demanding and dosent really care about your problems,ones loving and understanding but high standards...........what should i do? no sex involed though...

2007-02-23 17:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by hottiewatchout 2 in Singles & Dating

atracted to football players?

2007-02-23 17:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tall, blonde, well-ed, seeking wealthy, interesting, world-traverler (as I am). I would like friend only in houston, tx AREA TO TAKE ME out occasionally to Greek restaraunt, etc.NOT A HOOKER!

2007-02-23 17:23:45 · 6 answers · asked by fu-getta-bout-it 1 in Singles & Dating

i know i will be excpected to eact her out and stuff...ne suggestions?

2007-02-23 17:22:25 · 5 answers · asked by thunderbolt 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been cheated on by my gf. i still talk but she wants to go back out again. she cheated on me and people say that once a cheater always a cheater. i still love her deeply and i have a feeling that she feels the same way. does a cheat reall mean that much?

2007-02-23 17:22:14 · 24 answers · asked by Jul 2 in Singles & Dating

first lose ur virginity?

2007-02-23 17:21:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sort of old fashioned, while i'm not sure I want children i do know that it's a good possiblity one day and I know that I do want to get married. The man that i'm currently with, and have been with for some time does not really ever want to get married and NEVER wants to have kids. He has diabetes and doesn't want to pass it to his children, so adoption would be his only option and he's told me that he's not even sure he would want that. So I know that staying with him would mean no kids and likely no marriage.
I do love him, but these things are also important to me. I understand his desire to not pass on illness to his kids, or as he puts it causing them to suffer but it still makes me a bit disheartened.
... basically i don't know how to feel about this.

2007-02-23 17:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by attila 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I often see a married guy doesn't care how they looks.

WHY???


I am worring about my futuer husband. I like sexy man you know.

2007-02-23 17:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am adopted but feel really screwed up inside. I am married but I feel it hard to be married because my personality is all over the place? Anybody else out there who is adopted with something they call " Adopted Child Syndrome?" I am looking for answers. Thanks.

2007-02-23 17:19:39 · 6 answers · asked by George 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My younger brother(13) is always jerking off ...i have walked in on him about three times now,once in the bathroom and twice in the living room when he thought no one was home...are there any other sisters who have been through this?how did you handle it?

2007-02-23 17:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was wondering how to tell if this guy likes me because I can't really tell.

2007-02-23 17:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ma sweethear is one in a million ...!!
we both love each other to da core...!!
but ther is this guy who keeps callin her dear,munchkin,!!!
when asked ma gal sayz he is jus a brother..!!!
wat do ya think...!

2007-02-23 17:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Ulric 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i think i like 2 guys...one ive liked for a while but its been pretty much on and off, people have always said that we'd look like the perfect couple...but after middle school and most of high school, now being seniors its been a little bit weird, we dont talk as much and i try to ignore him...but i enjoy talking to him...although i have a habit of making things awkward just in conversation but i also recently started to like this guy who is a complete country boy with a redneck side...my type of guy...but i dont know how to start things up...so if you have any awesome advice...take into account that ive never had a boyfriend..simply because ive never really been comitted and really cared...but im also thinking that its a bit late..college is coming up and i probably wont see them again...except the first guy...who might be going to the same college as me or just the next town over
am i making too much of it? haha

2007-02-23 17:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by PDizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my name is Casey im sorta new at this so im not gonna put alot of info but here it goes...
Ok i watched that movie Cinderella 3 and it said in that movie that when you touch someones hand you know its love well i think of love this boy weve been friends for along time like since 4th grade and now were in 8th so yaaa but ive liked him for a long time and i know he likes me (but i aint gonna ask him out cause i dont wanna ruin our friendship) and i can listen to like a love song and the first thing that pops in my head is him but i think i love him. I hug him at school i call him i can tell him almost anything and i think i love him and i watched that movie and it made me think "So if i touch his hand ill know In my heart that its love" so do you think i should do it?
Love, Casey Thank you so much for taking your time in reading and answering.

2007-02-23 17:13:19 · 18 answers · asked by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 17:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by skyhopperveg22 1 in Singles & Dating

Who is actually happy in their marriage? People seem to be so miserible with their spouse these days, and I'm just wondering how many exactly. Give details if you like.
ex- if you could leave would you? are you making it work between the 2 of you? are you just happy in general??

PS- I am not married, but soon will be
Thanks in advance :)

2007-02-23 17:12:42 · 20 answers · asked by Savannah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1 1/2 yrs.I saw a box I never seen B4.It had pics of him and his baby’s mom.I was crushed.I talked to him about it, he said he will get rid of them and that he is sorry.I said not 2 get rid of the ones w/only his son and the mom.Just 2 get rid of the ones w/him and her together. He said he would.He didn't do it.2nite we were talking and he said that he is not going 2 throw out the pics. He said “those are my memories.” I didn’t know what 2 say but I told him I can't accept that. This is the thing. His son’s mom ("ex") gives us HELL everyday, we are in a court case 4 custody now and he has to pay $1000s in lawyer fees, We are, constantly write emails about arguements about his son, stressed about some issue. “ex” is a HUGE STRESS in our life.I said he could keep any pics other GFs in the house just not her.I don't feel comfortable w/him keeping pics of her b/c of what she does 2 us. I don’t understand Y he wants to keep the memories of her

2007-02-23 17:12:17 · 19 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a slightly gross question i know. But i just can't help my curiosity!lol...have you ever kissed someone that had bad breath, or did YOU have bad breath at the time?....that would be so embarrassing, i hope it doesn't happen to me. I guess i'll just carry around a pocket full of mints or something.

2007-02-23 17:10:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 17:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family