iv been cheated on by my gf. i still talk but she wants to go back out again. she cheated on me and people say that once a cheater always a cheater. i still love her deeply and i have a feeling that she feels the same way. does a cheat reall mean that much?
2007-02-23 17:22:14 · 24 answers · asked by Jul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't believe stupid lines and don't base ur life off of it.
its really stupid.
people that say those quotes and lines like that are low lifes that don't have someone and are so stuck up.
you two can work it out. if she says she won't do it again, believe her but if she does it again, she'll be gone.
2007-02-23 17:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be the end if you both of you still want to see each other. I've heard that same thing, once a cheater always a cheater, but that's not necessarily true, it depends on if the cheater learned by her mistakes and was also hurt by her actions and will never do it again because of the pain that she caused. We are human and we make mistakes, as long as we can learn from our mistakes and not keep making the same ones over and over again, then all could be fine...it's your call. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 01:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by robotchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what happened to you. In my opinion, I don't think that you should give her another chance. You said you still love her, so imagine the pain you'd experience all over if she did it again, OR just up and decided that she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Whoever you are, you are worthy and deserving to be with a woman that will not cheat on you EVER, and there are women like that out there. The very best of luck to you.
2007-02-24 01:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do believe in second chances, however, sometimes cheating by a woman is a sign of self esteem issues, or she feels her needs are not being met. I would definatly have a long talk about her reasons for cheating. Be careful you don't become the "NICE" guy who gets walked all over. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 01:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by nakiska11111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are actually a good guy. That girl doesn't deserve you! There are so many good women out there. You will eventually become a bitter man if you stay with a cheater. Give LOVE a chance!
2007-02-24 01:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, a cheater will cheat again.
2007-02-24 01:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry about that. but yes it does... no offence to you or her, im sure she is wonderful but she is not very faithful to you. It would be very hard if you truely love her but i would find someone who you know would never hurt you that way. and if she really loved you the way you say, she would never have cheated... and if you really feel strongly about her and you know she feels strongly about her and want to give it another chance. TALK to her about what happened and try to get her to prove to you that she will be faithful in some way. good luck!
2007-02-24 01:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude wake up. if she loves you that much then why did she cheat on you in the first place? i know its hard to accept when the person you care the most cheated on you. but its a fact that you need to accept first on yourself. look at the positive sides of life.... a better person will come your way....
2007-02-24 01:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by mar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters change....It could have been an experiment gone bad, a mistake she regrets,....whatever, just give her another chance...and oh....learn to trust her and show the trust.
2007-02-24 01:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by nocitome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Frenzy on this one.
And yes, TO ME, I believe once a cheat always a cheat.... at least with you. If she can do it once, then it's always easier a 2nd time, etc.
And will you be able to trust someone who cheated on you? Won't you always "wonder"?!.....
2007-02-24 01:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥â?ªâ?«Karenâ?«â?ªâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋