Hey guys n gals need some help here. I am in a text relationship with some one we have really strong feelings for each other. I have never felt so much for someone who i never met it is incredible. The feelings are the same on both sides...we both express love for another 3 days ago she left to go on a short term trip to the middle east... It kind of came up all of a sudden her grandfather is sick and her whole family is going and she made the decision to go. So when she told me it was 3 days before she left. They bought the soonest flights out. She was really sad crying for hours bc she wouldnt be able to talk to me.
We have not talked live on the phone yet and i have had a hard time with that. She said she would send me an email explaining more of her feelings. And why it is hard for her. The next day she said she didnt have time to email me but sent me a small letter in the mail. She flew out Wed and i still havent recieved the letter...
2007-02-23 17:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any way i havent recieved the letter yet it has been 3 days since she left. Also when i mentioned we have email she said its not the same as texting and would still be really hard for her. I have not recieved any email from her yet either. :( i sent 1 email since she left......
Is she blowing me off? Or am i missing her and impatient
2007-02-23 17:38:21 · update #1
I kinda botched it up a bit the night b4 she left by saying something that i felt. She got hurt and didnt talk to me. Later that night she sent me a text goodnight my love... The next morning b4 she left she sent me 3 texts about how she loves me and asked forgiveness for me putting up with her crap and 2 other lovely texts about how why she loves me and wants to be get into the relationship the way she dreams when she comes back
2007-02-23 17:42:01 · update #2
She is 25 years old she sent me a card and 2 gifts for valentines day and i have heard her voice she left me a voice mail so i dont think she is a guy... and her handrwiting
2007-02-23 17:50:53 · update #3
She's going through a lot in her life right now, I wouldn't be expecting so much.
Text relationships are also very hard to read the person's personality, because you don't really know what's on the other side, just a great leap of faith with a long term soul connecting through text.
I say give her a few more days, her family is probably against this relationship as is the most of society because of all the statistics of girls being abused by guys they met over the internet. So she's probably struggling with that, plus she has her sick grandfather, plus she loves you.
It's going to be difficult for her to explain anyways, so it might take her a couple days to write it up.
I'd give it a week. Respect her space, and inquire after her to see if she's okay. Try and get her phone number if she can give it to you, hearing voices will make the connection stronger and a way for you two to be closer instantly instead of the slow conversation of text.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-23 17:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by natalia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since obviously her family is from the middle east they are of a different culture than here. She is probably not allowed to have a lot of access to the internet, her parents probably actually pay attention to what she does on the internet and supervise her internet activities rather than allow her to get involved in chatrooms and message boards that someone of her age really has no business getting into. She probably has to focus more on her school work than social life. You have chosen to become involved without really knowing this person at all...everything she says could very possibly be false, she COULD be an older married woman just playing you like a fiddle. Or even a guy doing the same thing. Until you acutally meet this person you will never know.
2007-02-23 17:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but, i think that sounds kind of dumb. You haven't even met her on a phone conversation. Do you even know what she looks like, or how she acts or anything about her other than you both have "strong" feelings ?
Get over it.
Sorry, that sounded a bit rude.
But hey, if you two think you love each other, just be patient about it, don't get paniced and stuff. Stressing over that is not the best idea. Shes going through a hard time with her family. Shes probably just trying to deal with that and not anything else. I think you should just be patient....
2007-02-23 17:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't talk to you over the phone then you LOSE: she doesn't *really* like you as much as you seem to like her. Sorry but sometimes the truth hurts.
Guess what? I'm CRYING NOW. I'm soooo sad about your story. It really makes me cry big teardrops. I'm gonna miss your questions so much tonight. See how silly that is?
I'm MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU BABY!!!!! See how easy it is for me to say that? LOL. Don't be a fool. If she won't even talk to you over the phone then you are her PENPAL and nothing more. That's OK as long as you know it's just for fun and don't take it so seriously.
Someday they will have "automated" email friends who are not even real people. Will you feel silly falling for an artificial "robo-friend" via email? Of course you will.
2007-02-23 17:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see- don't stress. It often happens that family evenings turn into something that wasn't initially planned for! I don't think she's being mean. Best to hook up with her when she's got a chance and ask her how it went with her family and ask whether they're all well. Be interested in them - you will score points with her. Casually mention that you were disappointed that you didn't get to meet them. I'm sure somewhere in your conversation, you'll start to understand why you didn't get to meet them in the end!
2016-03-29 09:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she ever left the house? If you've never spoke to her on the phone and you're thinking she's blowing you off, she might be. She may have made up this middle east trip. Hopefully she didn't for your sake but you won't know until you hear from her again.
Good Luck..
2007-02-23 17:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, with a sick grandpa, and mucho family there. she is proably just spending a whole lot of time with the family. and the situation with her grandpa might be more that she dosent feel she wants to express right now to you. she might be losing her grandpa, and she might tell you he is just sick but this could be life or death and that can be a really hard thing.
2007-02-23 17:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone pretending to be someone else. You will never know who is on the other side of the texting if you never meet. Be careful and trust no one.
2007-02-23 17:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...text based relationship...what is the world coming to....just forget it, there are millions of girls out there that will TALK TO YOU ON THE PHONE or OVER COFFEE!!!
2007-02-23 17:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by IsraeliPride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just missing her and your being very impatient.
2007-02-23 17:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋