Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

i need to talk about a relationship, and help me god i will not use yahoo chat because 95% of the ppl are bots

2007-02-23 16:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by redreturns31 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 16:55:01 · 3 answers · asked by i_dont_know 2 in Friends

I dont know what to do, cause no matter how many times we break up and get back, I cant get enough of him, and he cant of me.

I mean, Its ofically love thats why I keep doing this - Ive told him already that the one thing I hate is how we keep drifting away, but we get back with the same ease.

Initally he didnt accept my past - however he does now, and i am not sure however - how mucb i should get involved in this - cause i know I will always love him, but How do i know where he is at?

Ive thought of moving on, but everytime another guy asks me out, I keep thinking of the one I love and say no to the new one...

Plz advice, what do i do?How? Why?

whats going on here??

2007-02-23 16:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I kind of wish they'd break up but i don't want to be selfish. When I told him i liked him he said "You should've told me earlier!" What can I do?

2007-02-23 16:54:48 · 9 answers · asked by ♥►Missy◄♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i used to talk to one of my closest girl-friends quite a bit and we hung out as much as we could. She entered a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and i haven't talked to her since then..
she lives in a town that is right outside mine.. (that gets in the way sometimes) and is busy with school, dance team, work and this relationship.

So i was wondering if it is normal for people in relationships to tend to focus more on balancing school and a relationship than friends? keeping in mind most of her friends are in her town, not mine. This has happened before and its returned to normal after she was done with the relationship.. What do you guys think?

2007-02-23 16:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by oneal1845 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me but out of shyness don't tell me,now 1 prob. wid me is that my best friend 2 lov him & i lov my best friend 2 now i'm confuded what 2 do,should i leave both of dem or what should i do plz tel bcoz both of their feelings r equally imp. 4 me?

2007-02-23 16:53:54 · 5 answers · asked by ANKI 1 in Friends

My husband and I are having problems. He was caught cheating a couple years ago in the worst sort of way I could have thought of. We have been together for over 8 years and married for less than 2 but 1month after marriage,I found an email trying to meet with another woman and also caught him in our own house groping another woman basically in front of me. All he can ever say is sorry and that I need to forget and get on with life but hurtful things just happen over and over and he doesnt understand why I always feel sad,ashamed of myself and not the same person I used to be and Im always accused of an internet affair nowbecause I am on here or Ebay at night. Is it just me or do other people feel like this who have been cheated on and stayed with the person. Is it wrong for me to keep mentioning how much he hurts me with the way he acts?Please give some genuine answers because I am going to have him read this to let him know what its like to cope with Hopefully Im not the only fool

2007-02-23 16:51:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend (of almost ten months) who is 22 and I 26 were having dinner at my place, I noticed I forgot to get the wine from the cellar in the basement. I asked her if she would get it, she said. I remembered I should have told her the basement door sometimes gets jammed from the inside. When I get to the basement as I thought the door had jammed from the inside and my girlfriend was banging on the door. As I opened the door the entire basement was pitch black. And as I looked down at my girlfriend’s terrified face, I noticed her entire body was trembling. I was surprised at seeing her like this but when I looked down even further I noticed that she had literally WET HER PANTS!!! Anyway all of a sudden she started to sob wrapping her arms around herself, crying over and over. “Oh no, I-I didn’t mean to- I’m sorry, I’m sooo sor-ry.” I held her close telling her that every thing was all right. Rubbing her back and hair, I didn’t care that she was wet, I just wanted her to stop crying. She was hysterical, trembling from head to toe, clutching on to me with a death grip. She cried until she could cry no more, she felt so weak in my arms. When she had calmed down I helped her clean up, and lay beside her as she fell a sleep. Even though I wanted to know why she reacted the way she did I didn’t ask.

Should I ask her or forget and never bring it up?
Should I be concerned?

2007-02-23 16:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by campkiwago 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to know about it as i had fallen in love with my teacher many years ago... so...

2007-02-23 16:51:15 · 17 answers · asked by AATIF 1 in Friends

I find it very demeaning. We are not toys or object. We are not here for their enjoyment.

2007-02-23 16:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how many people on here actually have friends with benefits?

It's something that I have never really discussed with friends of mine so I'm just curious as to how common it is.

Thanks in advance for answering

2007-02-23 16:50:47 · 19 answers · asked by renee.emily 4 in Singles & Dating

all my friends have boyfrends and they say they see guys checkin me out all the time but never talk to me is my shortness or the pimples on my face please answer jjjazzy and other people to

2007-02-23 16:48:19 · 15 answers · asked by dymme 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 16:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by JCIL_19 1 in Singles & Dating

Does she not respect me as her Father? I don't know why she would shame our family in this way. I sent her to the best schools and introduced her to prominent friends of mine and now this is what I get ? I plan to disown her publicly so to distance our family from her irrational decision she has made to be with this dark man.

2007-02-23 16:47:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

As I said before everyday is a huge conflict unless he is able to lecture and preach/teach or work out issues or what ever else you want to call it. And when I don't want to just sit and liston to him talk all day long about how terrible the world is etc. he gets angry and attacks verbaly and tells me I need to talk about it. I need to liston. Yada yada yada. I say I don't care. I am happy. leave me alone. he says I have issues that need adressing. I say ,who says? he says him. I say thats your opinion. he says it's a fact On and On He gives me no peace untill it gets ugly. than that doesn't end. it's a visious circle.He follows me around the house talking or making comments. My heart aches for him but I want my life back. I lived with his dad 10 years1970-1980. All years same thing except there was physical abuse too. His Dad would give me no peace. Like my son he too wanted all my attention good or bad all the time.Should I seek counseling? I feel so lost!

2007-02-23 16:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

kk..so we've been goin out for 4 and a half months and its the most amazing relationship ever....every1 thinks we are the cutest couple and we cant stop thinking about the future we have together...we are in our senior year at high school...In her last relationship, her "first love", she was cheated on and has yet too fully recover. Like when we were dancing the other day, she heard a song that she said was her and her ex's song, and started to cry..basically everytime shes reminded of her past, it hurts her like crazy and then shortly after she'd apologise for crying, because she says she cant control it...I know we love each other, but anyone have any experiences with this? PLZ helpp

2007-02-23 16:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran out of things to say over the phone. What are some subjects to talk about?

2007-02-23 16:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come a lot of guys don't hold doors open, offer to carry a girl's things, do something else besides saying "Oh, me too" when a girl says she's cold, give up their seat for a girl, or any of this stuff anymore. I know this is the 21st century and I sound naggy but a girl needs a guy to make her feel cared for, you know?

2007-02-23 16:45:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not regret getting married, but I wish I could have studied abroad/traveled.

2007-02-23 16:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by hambone1985 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked him why and all he gives me is excuses, such he has alot on his mind or he doesn't think about it. He tells me he only need sex once a month but we've gone longer than that. I dont know what to think because he isn't the sexual type and he isnt all that great in bed. I'm not a bad looking woman and I'm pretty good in bed, but he doesn't give me a chance to show him. I'm a healthy forty yr old woman with a lot to share. HELP!

2007-02-23 16:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you spouse would never find out about it would you cheat on him/her? Or is there something else you would want to do if he/she never would find out?

I wouldn't be able to live with myself, personally. I married because I only want to be with him and I want him to only be with me.

2007-02-23 16:43:41 · 11 answers · asked by hambone1985 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend proposed to me tonight. I already knew that he was because I knew he had a ring and today I stayed over late at work to give him time to ask my dad. We all went out to eat and when we came back, everyone else went inside, but my boyfriend and I took a little longer. I got out of the truck first and he asked me to come there. I was carrying a take-out box from the retaurant and my purse in the other hand. He sat down and pulled out the ring box. He asked me to marry him and I shook my head yes. Then he asked me if I was sure (he always does this when he asks me yes or no questions).

I love him and I want to marry him, but I just felt sad because I wish it would have been a time when it was just me and him (I knew my parents were probably watching). And then also, I would have loved to have spent the rest of the night with just him, but we went inside with my family and didn't even get to celebrate with just us.

2007-02-23 16:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Weddings

I always coicidentally bump into this guy, and it is sooo werid. We would be at the same place at the same time. When I go into a room he's coming out. When I go do something he is already there or he would come at the same time to the same place. I really want to understand why

2007-02-23 16:43:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-23 16:43:00 · 4 answers · asked by Naim I 1 in Family

My GF is eat, sleeping and drinking all this Anna Nicole Smith coverage. She hasn't slept in over a week and I have to wipe the drewl from her mouth or it forms a puddle. I can't drag her away from the coverage and I need to get me some. Any ideas?

2007-02-23 16:42:57 · 7 answers · asked by jack c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 16:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by junior r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me a while back... he was a MAJOR player. my sister tried to tell me, but i didnt listen..... Im not completley over him but he has already moved on about 3 times now... maybe 4. He is WAY over me... how do I get over him

2007-02-23 16:42:39 · 19 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

i really liked this girl for a couple of monthes. shes really nice, shes shy, and shes beautiful... about 3 months ago, she found out i liked her, and she said she wanted to be just freinds. to my surprise she went out with some guy that was into drugs and drinking (even though she wasn't like that) he cheated on her, and they broke up so i started to like her again, and we were spending more time together and she wasn't that shy anymore. The day before valentine's day, a friend told her about me liking her and she gave me the just friends thing again. i felt so bad, she wanted to know why i liked her, so i gave a friend of hers a full page note, and it was really heartfelt. i put everything i felt about her down on that letter, it said some stuff like "she has the perfect personality a person could ever have" and "besides personality, she is beautiful, but that doesn't matter because the inside is what i love". some other girls read it and the loved it. (more in next details)

2007-02-23 16:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay question num. 1


What would u do if.....

1. Your Son / daughter pushed you down?
A. Ground him/her
B. wait till dad gets home
C. other ( if so explain)

2. Your husband cheated on you?
A. kill him and his new lover
B. get a divorce
C. other


What kind of marrige do u have?
A. KINKY
B. STRANGE
C.other


Who is the main person of the house?
A. husband/ boyfriend
B. son or daughter
C. YOU


A close friend anounced she was on drugs
A. congradulate her
B. help her recover
C. other


if you heard your son or daughter beat someone up badly?
A. ground them
B. yell at them
C. other

2007-02-23 16:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-23 16:41:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating