I dont know what to do, cause no matter how many times we break up and get back, I cant get enough of him, and he cant of me.
I mean, Its ofically love thats why I keep doing this - Ive told him already that the one thing I hate is how we keep drifting away, but we get back with the same ease.
Initally he didnt accept my past - however he does now, and i am not sure however - how mucb i should get involved in this - cause i know I will always love him, but How do i know where he is at?
Ive thought of moving on, but everytime another guy asks me out, I keep thinking of the one I love and say no to the new one...
Plz advice, what do i do?How? Why?
whats going on here??
2007-02-23 16:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your feelings for him keep holding you back. You keep going back to him because in your heart you are hoping that things have changed and the two of you will be together.
You need to wake up sweetie and realize you are worth more than just being a part-time girlfriend. You've been putting yourself through this for a yr and a half and nothing has changed. It's time to give those other guys a chance.
2007-02-23 17:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are breaking up and getting back together,that means you're not in a mature relationship.No one can really tell u where to go in your relationship because we both know you'll only do what u want to do.I can only suggest to u that whenever you're ready for a mature relationship,you would have to let him know that you're tired of that high school on and off relationship and that he needs to figure out what he wants or else it's officially over.
2007-02-24 01:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is absolutely true love. Such a shame that you kids can't make it work. Does he feel the same way? You know love takes real work. No successfully married couple will ever tell you different. Keeping a relationship alive is a constant struggle, and worth every second of it. If you really want to make it work and you keep having trouble, you have to go to couple's counseling.
2007-02-24 01:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all as other people will agree. I will say this in so many words. Stop.......Being........Fickle. It is annoying and alot of men hate it. Now you need to decide where both of you stand and talk about it. Stop going in and out. Just choose one and stay with it. If you and him get back together, STAY together. Continue to work things out. If not then LEAVE each other and just move on. It is your choice. That is my advice.
2007-02-24 01:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's so stupid
theres no point
DONT BREAK UP WHEN YOU GET IN A FIGHT. you'll never get into a serious relationship and you'll never learn to cope with things.
whenever you are mad take time to cool off and stuff. don't say OH ITS OVER. thats just rediculous. ......
plus if you two know eachother that well, you'd know that whenever you'd say that you'll know you'll get back together anyway
2007-02-24 00:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by John Becker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you love him, it all depends on what caused the splits in the first place really but you should follow your heart, and from the sounds of it all it leads to him for you.
-NmD!
2007-02-24 00:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to really .look at what is really gong on. this
back and forth nonsense is not good for any one. it time to
deal with this once and for all. you will never get back in the
swing of thing with this over your head. and also him, as well
time for all the drama to go. time to move forward or time to
move apart.
2007-02-24 01:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hello
sorry for that if you love him be patient one day u will be very happy with him and you will not fall apart again.
and try to observe him if he is cheating u with another lady.
2007-02-24 01:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD LEAVE HIM I DONT THINK ITS WORTH THE HEART ACHES AND OVER JOYNESS OVER N OVER AGAIN
2007-02-24 00:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Eureka_17 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋