If you spouse would never find out about it would you cheat on him/her? Or is there something else you would want to do if he/she never would find out?
I wouldn't be able to live with myself, personally. I married because I only want to be with him and I want him to only be with me.
2007-02-23 16:43:41 · 11 answers · asked by hambone1985 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only secrets I hide from my wife are what I'm planning to get her for the next Mothers' Day, birthday, anniversary, Christmas, etc. She's the one I want to SHARE secrets with--not HIDE secrets from.
2007-02-23 16:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What people never realize lying and cheating lesson self-worth. Everyone know these acts are not respected in the world.
Everyday people just don't have a stone personality to do such a thing and not feel some remorse. Most people don't understand who these action play out within a person.
When I person cheats of lie they begin to individuate from the relationship. What is odd the person committing the transgression start to blame the other person for their actions. When a person starts to get overly critical of you start looking for the lies in the relationship. A person needs to make another person wrong to justify his transgressions. Lying and cheating is a very insidious force. No one wins.
If you want to solve what seems to be unreasonable and unending arguments in the relationship start asking your mate what have they done to feel so bad that they need to attack you. This has been right for me 100 percent of time.
2007-02-24 01:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a terrible day, I caught my husband talking to some chick on a porn site. I never minded him looking at other women, and I'm not the jealous type, but this has gone to far. I'm trying to decide where to go as I have no family, we have been married for 16 years. I'm just sick about this, I'm 51 years old and have to start all over again, alone! I don't ever want to have another relationship with a man. I need to go to the beach to clear my head. I had just sold my car so that we could buy him a new truck. This really s***s!!!
2007-02-24 00:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse might not find out in this life, but Judgment Day is a whole other deal. It's not worth taking the risk. Many blessings.
2007-02-24 03:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never. Cheating (lying) to the person who trusts you more than anyone else will make you a smaller, meaner person. Do you really want to be a liar and a cheat?
2007-02-24 00:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you cheat on someone they are not worth being with anyway. Why don't you break up first and save everyone alot of problems. It is the most logical thing to do, yet it is rarely done.
2007-02-24 00:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No Cheating is more than sex it's a violation of trust. I gave my oath and he trusted in my word, and I in his.
above all I keep my word and honor my vows.
If you think about it you have to live with yourself, and you don't want to live with a liar and a cheat do you if you cheat on him you cheat on yourself in the process
2007-02-24 01:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 years of honesty and going strong. Even if she never found out, it would be remembered, relived and regretted daily.
2007-02-24 00:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
NO,He might not find out but remember your vows.
2007-02-24 01:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by fatpat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would but first I would need to get high and drunk.
2007-02-24 00:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋