a POLL for Mothers?

Question

Okay question num. 1


What would u do if.....

1. Your Son / daughter pushed you down?
A. Ground him/her
B. wait till dad gets home
C. other ( if so explain)

2. Your husband cheated on you?
A. kill him and his new lover
B. get a divorce
C. other


What kind of marrige do u have?
A. KINKY
B. STRANGE
C.other


Who is the main person of the house?
A. husband/ boyfriend
B. son or daughter
C. YOU


A close friend anounced she was on drugs
A. congradulate her
B. help her recover
C. other


if you heard your son or daughter beat someone up badly?
A. ground them
B. yell at them
C. other

Answer 1

1-c; I don't think grounding a kid for that would impress upon him/her the severity of offense
2-c; I think we'd have a real problem, but I'd be willing to work it out. Infidelity is a symptom of problems, not necessarily the problem itself.
3-b; We never kiss, and my hubby and I both have the same taste in women ;)
4-a and c; My relationship with my husband is the most important. If we don't get along, we can't effectively team-parent our son. If we don't respect and love each other, he will never learn to do the same for others.
5-c; I willnever hang around people who use drugs. If a friend of mine told me she had a problem, I would tell her I'd be there once she got help, but it's ultimately a decision she has to make and stick to on her own. I don't want that kind of influence around my family.
6-c; I would need to do more than yell at or ground my kid; I'd need to know the reason for the fight (was my son defending himself?), who else was involved, and lastly, what I did wrong as a parent that my son turned out like that. I'd probably move him to a different school, even, if that's what it took to straighten out our mistakes.

Answer 2

1. C (called the police, filed the police report, asked that they be prosecuted)

2. B (divorce .. I can NOT forgive this large betrayal of trust)

3. NONE ... (I'm a Long Term Single Parent who is finally an Empty-Nesting Single Retiree -- and yes, I ENJOY Being single!)

4. ME ... and I am NOW the ONLY person in my HOME since the children are all adults and living independently

5. C (Other) and B (Help with keeping them in recovery). I will NOT enable anyone with addiction problems .. so they will either choose to get help, or ... I will step back until they find it within themselves to get clean and sober

6. C (Other). I WILL call the Police (because I will already have suspected or found out the information), and yes, I WILL ask that they be booked for the crime, and prosecuted. Again, something that I will NOT Enable at all.

Answer 3

1. C - (if it was done with that purpose in mind) I would calmly get up and instantly morph into "mean mama," put my hand on his collar bone (not his throat, but he'd think it was!) and pin him to the floor in my place. All the while grinding my teeth, talking in a low growl telling him he had BETTER learn his place, and looking evil enough to make him want to pee his pants.

2. C - I'd cheat on him... making sure he would walk in at just the right moment.

3. Don't have a marriage. You said it's a poll for MOTHERS. Not WIVES. Here's one for you - All wives are mothers - All mothers have children - Some wives do not have children - So not all mothers are wives ;)

4. ME! - (until my daughter starts with the whining!)

5. C - "ON" drugs can mean a number of things. The answer could range from "I'd ask her if she had enough to share" or "I'd distance myself from her to avoid being robbed blind"

6. C - I'd probably cry and tell them how disappointed I am. To start with.

Answer 4

1) c--call the cops for that. If it was done on purpose, depending on the age of the child. Otherwise, just ground them.2)B 3)C-divorced. 4) c. 5) c-if she isn't ready for recovery-tell her bye. 6) a & c-depending on their ages, the friends ages, etc. And if cops were called or not.

Answer 5

No. She's ignorant, stupid, unimaginative, close-minded, boastful, uninteresting. She has no existence in her. And it makes me only prefer to strangle her while she believes the lies I tell her. turning out to be up she became rather absent and that i ended up interior the incorrect hands on dissimilar events.

Answer 6

1. c...involves a belt
2. b...divorce
3. none of your business
4. we are all part of the house
5. c...don't talk to her anymore
6. c...involves a belt